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[–]Jesus-Christ 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I used to, can't really convince them otherwise on their perspectives about society and lookism but outside of that they're not the worst. Some of them are just toxic but others are misunderstood.

[–]VantaFount 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Sure I could! In fact I tried to understand them better.
Aaaand then they banned me.
But that doesn't matter. If those individuals want to talk to me, I'm not going to begrudge them the choices made by moderators.

[–]basedaf1 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

yea I didn't ban you, did they give a reason? We have a problem that the most toxic mod of r/shortcels is the one who made the sub in the first place

[–]VantaFount 0 insightful - 1 fun0 insightful - 0 fun1 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This was literally all I got
Note from the moderators:

Soy.

[–]nothingproud 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

If they were very knowledgeable or passionate about something I was interested in...maybe. I just can't accept the core premise though, of being irredeemably unfuckable. It's virtually impossible to not be able to improve on one of attractions three major fields for men. Power, Wealth, Appearance.

A stupendously fat and ugly comedian is able to use humour and social clout to get laid. A wealthy bald aging businessman can use wealth to score, be it gold diggers or prostitutes. A borderline clinically retarded model gets lucky just on looks.

Many of the attitudes I've seen towards women, such as being whores or property, are incompatible with how I view the world. I could not be friends with anyone that hated half the population for something they are born as.

[–]FuckerMcCockslap 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's true: I'm broke and ugly but I get by just on wit and confidence.

[–]Snow 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

If they don't care the looks and don't care the person don't love them, they can buy many of cheap prostitutes, and they have tons of chance to sleep with them. But they don't just want these surely.

I hate people who want something far more than they actually deserve and acts like cry babies for they can't get it.

[–]basedaf1 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A wealthy bald aging businessman can use wealth to score, be it gold diggers or prostitutes. A borderline clinically retarded model gets lucky just on looks.

Many incels sleep with prostitutes, being wealthy isn't an option for most people and a gold digger is a cheaper form of sex than we desire. We want a girl that looks at us with lust in her eyes like she does for chad. That will WANT to have sex with us every week years into a relationship. That will wake us up to a good morning text, and go to sleep to a good night one. Prostitution is so worthless to incels, we count escortcels as incels. Its just not we want. Despite the name we aren't so focused on cheap meaningless ONSs, we'd take it and all, but we really just want a girlfriend or better yet a wife.

Also and I and the vast majority of incels don't believe women can't easily get into a relationship with LVMs that will give all of the things above. Please note fatcels are fakecels.

[–]FuckerMcCockslap 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

No. They're insufferable. I have a cousin like that and he's the absolute worst. Just nothing but awkward cringy sarcasm and edginess. I feel so bad for my aunt.

[–]Snow 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Sometimes I think they watched too much porn...over stimulated minds lead to they can't accept someone not looks like porn stars.

[–]peanut2521 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I could, but it would also depend on how hateful or rude they are

[–]Drewski 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would be casual friends with an incel, and might try to help them change their perspective from a self-defeatist mentality to taking responsibility for their lives, actions and relationships. I couldn't be close friends with a devoted incel though, because we become like those we associate with regularly and that mindset is rather toxic.

I do try to treat everyone with compassion though, and tbh all these posts about incels is becoming a bit obsessive.

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    [–]Tiwaking 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Thats when you get your new found powers!! https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/30-year-old-virgin-wizard

    [–]bald-janitor 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Yes

    [–]Tiwaking 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I would never be friends with ChrisChan