What are some positive experiences you've had with people of the opposite sex?

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I feel like there's a lot of stuff discussed lately about how horrible the opposite sex is, from either side. But I know there are people out there who've had positive experiences too. If you have had good experiences I would like to hear about them, they're part of reality too.

A note before you post though: A lot of these experiences can be very personal and intimate, as all relationships are. Please only post stuff you think everyone involved would feel good about having shared here. That it feels right to share here.

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[–]LarrySwinger2 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Well, I have a few female friends. There's one in particular, whenever she plans to come to my town, she hits me up and we have a drink, chat, and laugh.

[–]kokolokoNightcrawler 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

I muted them all. Imagine thinking the opposite sex is the "enemy" of any sort... Mental illness galore.

[–]LeolaLawbaugh 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Don't venture to /s/pinkpillfeminism

[–]kokolokoNightcrawler 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Unfortunately I did...but not for long. I have all the Gender and Trans and LGBT subs on mute...

THe math is simple, one wouldn't want to watch a mental asylum livestream either...well, maybe for content but that would get old real soon.

[–]LeolaLawbaugh 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What's hilarious is https://saidit.net/user/fuzzbutt22 ,who is now deleted, set up the sub and seems quite like a man and likely a tranny lol.

[–]GoodOldDays 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I feel that all the gender subs are addicted to the same drug, which is resentment. MGTOW, Incel, Feminism, and what have we... they are really not that different, if you ask me.

[–]kokolokoNightcrawler 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

not at all different...I bet it's a lot of sad, lonely , rejected people coping.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Same can be said about political and religious subs of various kinds. Any community that is centered not on who they are but who they are not is going to devolve into toxicity.

[–]GoodOldDays 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sounds about right.

[–]LeolaLawbaugh 4 insightful - 10 fun4 insightful - 9 fun5 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Help ejaculating.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

One of my SIL’s is one of the best humans that I have ever met. He is loving, kind, responsible and treats his family so well. The world would be a better place if there were more like him.

[–][deleted] 0 insightful - 1 fun0 insightful - 0 fun1 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

What do you mean by SIL? I've only seen that used as Sister-In-Law.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Son-in-law.

[–]Optimus85 4 insightful - 7 fun4 insightful - 6 fun5 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Sex?

[–]theysaidthat 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My best friend is a man. He's had my back for 14 years. Also my favorite coworker is a guy. He is great at planning events and getting people to know each other, I think my life is richer for having known him.

[–]Aureus 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks for making this thread OP.

[–]Cass 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think we need a [serious] tag.

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    [–]hennaojichan 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    What did you say?

    [–]RasputinsDong 2 insightful - 6 fun2 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

    My gf is pretty cool. She likes to suck my dick and lets me fuck her, and she can hold a conversation.

    [–]MakeAOCBartendAgain 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    what more do you need amirite?

    [–]RasputinsDong 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Exactly. And she can cook. She's pretty awesome

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    sauces from scratch, and like 3 Black Mirror episodes

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Bit rich coming from you OP.

    [–]StBlops2cel_is_Lord 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Man here, I can't think of one.

    [–]yayblueberries 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    When I ask them to leave me alone and they understand immediately and go away, and do so without saying something mean.

    [–]AndemanMan 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    most instances where one came in direct physical contact with my penis was pretty positive

    [–]Honestanonymous 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I put my penis in her and stroked and she came :)

    [–]lmaonope333 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I have male friends as well as female ones, one of my male friends recently helped me install my AC

    [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    There are some that actually omitted a lot of stuff i also did. :)

    Some of them even omitted it the same way , i did.

    They are kinda hard to recognize because they usually are hiding themselves very well. Just like i do.

    But: If i get them to open their mouth usually i am neither disgusted nor disappointed.