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[–]SMCAB[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Okay, that's good. You can always drop the succubus, but losing your relationship with the kids is dreadful.

That's good.

The fact she uses the kids against you is deplorable. Just stay involved. Involvement is the key. It's the catch all for everything else. As they grow, they will see who's winning. Just make sure it's you. It all comes down to truth in the end.

I guess I'm assuming they are younger and shouldn't do that.

Hope it all works out, it makes life hell and hard to stay up for the kids when your always fighting a battle with the succubus. I feel for you brother. I know it all too well. Way too well.

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    [–]SMCAB[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I can talk about this shit all day long, I've spent so much time learning about these personality disorders and insecurites that kills these relationships so badly. If you ever need to talk, I understand it well. Hang in there, the better person always wins. One day, hopefully sooner than later, there won't be a thing she can do to get at you, the point of indifference is there somewhere down that road, once you get there, it's pretty much over. And you'll get down that road faster by winning everyday. Hang in there.

    Fuck I talk to my first wife about my second one sometimes, and there was a time I would have pushed her down the stairs on purpose if I was so inclined, which I'm not, just saying.