Hi, I am 16 (MtF) I have been out to my mom and and step-dad for 2 years now. Despite this, my mom purposely never uses my pronouns (she/her), and she almost always misgenders me. She has only ever used my pronouns around my therapist but her explanation for that is because "your therapist is forcing me to.”
Anyway, about a month ago (early September) my girlfriend bought me some hormone blockers because my dysphoria has been very bad lately. We bought it off of Amazon, Andro Surge hormone blockers (we did our research and read the side effects it may have and read reviews about it before buying).
I took it as directed, 20 minutes before a meal with lots of water, once per day, and I had none of the negative side effects mentioned, like nausea, headaches, upset stomach, or anything. Around a week later, I accidentally left the pill bottle on my bed when my mom was going to make my bed while I was at work, so she found them and took them, without even making my bed.
When I came home from work, I noticed they were gone, so I asked her about them, and she said she's withholding them from me so she can “do her research on them" which was her excuse so I wouldn’t start arguing with her about taking them. (She is a liar. She NEVER does her research, and most likely threw them away.)
2 weeks later nothing changes, and my girlfriend bought me another bottle. I hid it this time, in a box in my nightstand drawer in the very back. My mom went on a week long vacation so, I had to stay at my dad's (who I'm not out to yet) so I didn't bring them with me.
I get back from my dad's a week later and that's where we are now, my mom snooped through my room when we both got back and stole my pills again.
What do I do? I'm going to talk to her when she gets home from work about how she can either give me the pills back, or give me the money I spent on them. (I know it's not my money, it's my gf’s, but that's what I'm going to say because she doesn't know they bought them. Both of the pill bottles in total is $86.) But what do I say if she refuses both? I'm at a loss here.. The only thing I can think to say is that I will go no contact as soon as I'm 18 and will not take care of her when she is older, but what can I do right now ?