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[–]Questionable 16 insightful - 7 fun16 insightful - 6 fun17 insightful - 7 fun -  (11 children)

Yes, you are the asshole. You called her a "stupid fucking whore", and you're not even sure what she said about you.

What you did is in fact the definition of an asshole. You opened up, and shit poured out your orifice.

Wait. You putting those vegetables in your butt or something? Because, that's the only reason you can be this angry over vegetables. Protip: don't put vegetables in your butt, you freak.

[–]jet199 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Seems controlling.

You never really have any control in what others say behind your back.

[–]Airbus320 3 insightful - 6 fun3 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Jews have

[–]LarrySwinger2 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (27 children)

You know my stance. YTA. What kind of vegetables you eat is so small a matter that it's perfectly normal for her to think it's an exception even in spite of your agreement. We all want our privacy to be respected, but it's no longer reasonable when it disrupts the natural flow of her conversations. You're too controlling, and also abusive.

[–]Musky[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (26 children)

You know my stance

Yeah, begging for nudes from her. Fuck off Larry.

[–]LarrySwinger2 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

Classic. You're asking for our input, and when it isn't what you wanted to read, you find fault with the person posting it and dismiss it. I thought this was a serious AITA and you were open to the possibility of being wrong. How naive of me. I see that your only motivation is to spite her. Well, just know that you're only making yourself look bad by posting these conversations. You're calling her a whore and she even responds with "okay", and you're surprised when people stand up for her? Fuck you for forcing me into a whiteknight position.

And no, there was nothing to my joke. I always post jokes in spite of the fact that it can push people's buttons. Don't count on my support anymore when you're dealing with an issue, since you don't appreciate it anyway. In fact, how about you stop turning this place into a kindergarten and take your drama elsewhere?

[–]JasonCarswell 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)


[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (11 children)

He has done no such thing.

[–]Musky[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

He said it right in front of you, dummy. 🤦‍♀️

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (9 children)

You can't take a joke, dummy.

[–]Musky[S] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (7 children)

The question is asked in a joking way because if it's rejected they can write it off as just a joke. It was a serious request.

[–]jet199 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (4 children)

Breaking bro-code now. Shit's going down.

[–][deleted]  (3 children)


    [–]jet199 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

    That's clearly not what he's referring to.

    [–]Airbus320 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

    Lol, high IQ move

    [–]Musky[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Yeah, I've done it myself. I don't appreciate others doing it or acting like I don't know what they're doing.

    [–]JasonCarswell 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

    You may be confusing Larry with me as I jokingly asked for noooods once.

    If it wasn't obvious it was a joke, then you're obviously not observant, no joke.

    [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    Hahaha. Begging for nudes. Breathing Haaaaaa Hahahahaha.

    Look, you can’t take advise from a bunch of cucks. You are going to get gaslit into oblivion.

    You are calling names because you are pissed. And you are right to be pissed.

    You are not controlling, you are not possessive. There are rules to dating you, and one of those rules you is that if your not there in person, they keep your name out of their mouths.

    If she doesn’t comply, kick her to the side of the road. It’s not that hard man.

    I realize she’s the only girl on said it or whTever, but it’s not worth the heart burn. There’s nothing she does, that makes it worth it to put up with a loud mouth.

    [–][deleted] 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (30 children)

    I should show every screen shot of you calling me stupid, a whore, a slut, and just putting me down.

    [–]iamonlyoneman 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

    This tbh. Allcaps yelling someone is a stupid whore means graytext buddy needs to run for the hills and dump bluetext buddy for being a bitch

    [–][deleted] 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

    Thanks, I appreciate that.

    [–]Musky[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Then do that.

    [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

    Thats sad, I think you are a cool dude

    [–]LarrySwinger2 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

    Stupid bot can't distinguish between men and women.

    [–]superbug 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)


    [–][deleted]  (8 children)


      [–][deleted] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

      He gets off on the prolonged abuse.

      [–][deleted] 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (12 children)

      This feels like an invasion of privacy and an overreaction to something probably insignificant.

      This is obviously not about vegetables...

      [–][deleted] 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

      YTA lol. Musky has never eaten a beet.

      [–][deleted] 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (26 children)

      Honest opinion?

      I think you are making very reasonable requests, 2/3 of them are very polite, #3 seems a bit much. Its understandable you are upset given its third time youve had to make this request, but I think you went from 0 -> 0 -> 100, when 0 -> 25 -> 50 might have been better

      [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (23 children)

      Fuck you.

      [–][deleted] 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (22 children)

      Fuck me? I was trying to explain to him in a way I thought was understanding of his feelings why he didn't need to call you a bunch of nasty names, while giving him credit for respectfully making his request in the other messages. People tend to take criticism better that way. Wtf is your problem?

      [–]troubleshooter 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

      hongkongphooey, I hate to disturb you, but I have a problem.. yesterday, I think I had three testicles but now I only have one.

      is there any chance this is from covid?

      maybe I should get another omicron boost?

      do me a favor and look around on the floor and under your seat and just check if you see a couple of MALE TESTICLES, NOT FEMALE TESTICLES.


      REWARD $44 Billion dollars

      [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (17 children)


      [–][deleted] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (14 children)

      I don't think it's about the vegetables to him. He is uncomfortable about being the subject of conversations between you and smokey, apparently regardless of the context, and feels like you did not respect this after he tried to politely request you not do so. I realize it was likely not your intention to disrespect his wishes, and probably didn't understand that even talking about him in terms of vegetables would qualify as this and upset him. I think he probably finds it hurtful that you dont understand why this hurts his feelings

      Again, Musky is my friend, and I didn't want to make it appear I was invalidating his feelings, while encouraging him to resolve conflicts with less nastiness. I don't think what he said was called for, and more importantly isn't constructive for him, or going to help him be happy in relationships. I also don't think coming at him from a purely critical perspective or making it appear I've chosen sides against him is likely to get through to him when he has hurt feelings.

      [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

      Notice how if you don’t gaslight Muskrat, Mel is beyond livid. Some how there’s something wrong with muskrat. But no one is calling out Mel for similar horrible behavior. Women are not more mature, they get a pass in everything because they have vaginas.

      There’s a user in here defending her, hoping to get closer to her privately.

      This is a huge circle jerk for women, and it’s why women should not be in any real workplace, like stem fields.

      [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

      That is a very funny take, considering Musky is trying his damndest to gaslight me into thinking I am a smooth brained idiot. I could show screenshots of all of those texts I guess, but I won't.

      [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

      Do whatever. The relationship is toxic.

      [–][deleted]  (6 children)


        [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

        We should let him know that he's absolutely the asshole in those texts.

        This is terrible advice, and literally repeating what Musky did. Aggressively correcting people tends to make them defensive, and gives their defense mechanisms room to paint you as the asshole, and letting them avoid any self-reflection on how their actions were not helping them. Telling Musky he is an asshole is going to be about as effective as telling Mel she is a terrible bitch. Telling Musky as someone who cares about his wellbeing that the way he is responding is counterproductive to what he is trying to accomplish is by far the better tactic here.

        [–]troubleshooter 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

        oh, vegetables? I thought you said testicles.

        you almost got paid big.

        [–]Musky[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

        Once she blew her third time, I was mad, yes.

        [–]troubleshooter 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

        trump 2024

        [–]MightyMorphinFaggot 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

        Talk about her to all of us and see how quickly she gets a rage on at you.

        Double standards with women. Don't get mad, just change your expectations to whatever they think is normal until they realise it's actually not normal.

        I done that with my wife and 5 minutes later she stopped doing something because I done the same thing with other women.

        Jealousy is a fantastic motivator for change.

        [–]IndianaJones 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (22 children)

        cant we just all get along

        If she was revealing private things about you to Smoke, then I would understand your frustration. But from my understanding, she was simply telling him what vegetables you enjoyed.

        Yes, you can politely ask Melody to not talk about your vegetable preferences to someone you dislike (Smoke). But she can also politely refuse. Sure, she could be a good friend and comply with your request, but she is under no obligation to. You cannot police someone else's private conversations.

        In my opinion, not wanting Melody to tell Smoke your vegetable preferences is bit of an overreaction.

        There's no way you're freaking out about vegetable preferences alone. I think there's more going on. I need more context. But in my opinion, you kinda overreacted man. Do better, be better, play better. I know you can, Musky. You're better than that.

        I love you man. But it's only because I love you so much that I refuse to lie to you, and so I must give my real opinion. No lying allowed, even if it might hurt you and even if it's something you probably don't want to hear.

        Anyway I'm gonna hump my pillow and pretend it's you until the situation is resolved. If the drama isn't resolved by my 1000th hump then you two need to cut ties with each other. I'll be keeping an eye out. This friendship seems too unhealthy to continue.

        [–]JasonCarswell 6 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 7 fun -  (11 children)

        not wanting Melody to tell Smoke your vegetable preferences is bit of an overreaction.

        Not even a nothing burger.

        This is a nothing salad.

        [–]IndianaJones 6 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 7 fun -  (9 children)


        [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (7 children)

        I think there's more going on.

        I blame the cat.

        [–]IndianaJones 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

        The cat is in the wrong regardless because it gets to cuddle Musky without my permission. Oooh.... that makes me SO angry and jealous!

        [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        I think there's things they're not telling us about the salad too. I bet things get sliced julienne. I love it when things get sliced julienne.

        [–]JasonCarswell 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

        If you don't mind my beard you get my hugs.

        [–]IndianaJones 4 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

        Thanks Jason. Could you please send me an audio clip of you saying "Hi Indy, I am holding your hand. I love you very much. I am rubbing your hand"

        [–]JasonCarswell 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

        Remind me.

        One of these days/weeks I'm going to set up my mics, do some tests, and record audio for a LeverMind video or few. I'll do it then.

        [–]IndianaJones 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

        Awesome, thanks man!

        [–]jet199 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

        Lol, joke of the year from Jason.

        [–][deleted]  (4 children)


          [–]IndianaJones 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)


          [–]JasonCarswell 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)


          [–]IndianaJones 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

          up to 109 now

          [–]JasonCarswell 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

          I always stop for 69.

          [–][deleted] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (23 children)

          No, you are correct. That is a bad woman to keep around. She shouldn’t be sharing your personal life with other people; she has no respect for you.

          [–][deleted] 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (12 children)

          Fuck you.

          [–]Musky[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

          Fuck you.

          [–]troubleshooter 5 insightful - 6 fun5 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

          Hey, umm, musky and melody?

          As soon as I was reading that chat, I knew it was muskrat and melody.

          I think you are both doing great.

          Professionally, that is my opinion.

          [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

          Thanks, Edward.

          [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

          What did either of you actually expect from Saidit? 🤷

          [–]JasonCarswell 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)


          [–]Adventurous_Ad6212 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

          Fuck me

          [–]Musky[S] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

          Later, bby.

          [–]JasonCarswell 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

          U up?

          [–]WoodyWoodPecker 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

          [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)


          [–]jet199 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)


          [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)


          [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)


          [–]Musky[S] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

          You're biased, you don't get a vote. No democracy for you.

          [–]CarbonDioxideHead 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (21 children)

          You asked her if she was talking about you to others behind your back, she said no.

          She lied.

          You're not in the wrong at all, she's lying to you, betraying your trust and disrespecting you.

          Dunno, if you can't trust this woman to exercise some self control and not use you as a gossiping piece, then there's a decent chance that down the line she could demonstrate the same lack of self control and morals and cheat on you, and neatly cover it up with her habit of lying.

          Not sure if you're married or what but I'd start thinking about things between you two if I was you.

          She's in the wrong, all you did was type a mean message over text as a response. She's currently stabbing you in the back.

          Might not be the most moral thing to do but maybe start talking to other women, maybe you'll be lucky enough to find one who isn't a Judas.

          [–][deleted] 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (11 children)

          You don't know what the fuck you're talking about. I was literally in a friendly group phone call with these two guys a few days ago, and apparently I am not allowed to talk about Musky's vegetable preferences. I was not gossiping, we were just talking about Thanksgiving dinner. It was not mean spirited in any way.

          [–]CarbonDioxideHead 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

          Thank God I'm not married to you luv.

          You lied to him, you have cheated on him, and you're still calling and talking to guys when you're married? Yikes.

          Yes, you did gossip about him. Here's the thought process:

          He told you something he was vulnerable about, in private. You were aware there was a bit of shame or insecurity there, whatever it may have been.

          You told other people about it because you knew it'd probably make them laugh. He was conscious about what he told you, and you used it as a joke and spread it to others regardless of how it'd make him feel.

          You gossiped about him.

          Let's say you told him something embarrassing, like "I have to wax everyday or I'll grow a moustache"

          He goes on a call with two girls and he tells them about that and they all have a good laugh. "Hahaha she should grow it out and be like Steve Harvey lol"

          He made you the butt of a joke and gossiped about something you're sensitive about.

          See how that works?

          Anyway let's be honest, you're a pretty shit wife. (Think your married, could be wrong)

          You're a liar, which means he can't trust you. You're a cheater, which means this man is gambling with raising a kid that isn't even his.

          You're upset that he calls you a whore and a slut?

          He spoke the truth.

          I think he'd be better off divorcing you. You both don't seem religious so it's not like your marriage is that committed.

          "Until death do us part... in the eyes of the government"

          Like, what's the future for you two?

          You have kids, you keep cheating on him and lying to him, you become a single mother and a nasty custody battle ensues.

          "It's a foolish man, he who builds his house on sand."

          Musky should've walked when you cheated on him.

          Unless you two want to bring kids into a broken home and play custody wars, I think it's best you split up.

          God help Musky, cursed to be bound to a Judas.

          [–][deleted] 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

          Haha, Musky and I aren't married. This is strictly internet drama.

          [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

          A boring drama

          [–]CarbonDioxideHead 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

          Try to stop stabbing him in the back lol

          [–][deleted]  (2 children)


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              [–]Musky[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)


              [–]JasonCarswell 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)


              You might get my compassion, sympathy, and respect if you showed that to others.

              Be a man and be responsible for your own actions and emotions. Grow up.

              [–]Musky[S] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (23 children)

              Top left is the first time it happened, bottom right is the second, top right is the third, bottom left is not a separate incident but I included it for consideration.

              The vegetable thing is because this story she shared was something I told her privately about common veggies I have never tried. She plays it off like I'm being a weird asshole over nothing because it is insignificant. But it doesn't matter what the private thing she shared with another guy was, I have asked her repeatedly not to discuss me.

              I feel this is not only disrespectful and a blatant disregard for my feelings, but the bitch doesn't even have the decency to own up to it. She's always trying to weasel her way out.

              u/shill-for-freedom I know everyone just sees me blow up at her, but goddamn, wtf more can I do besides just not tell her anything.

              [–]jet199 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (12 children)

              wtf more can I do besides just not tell her anything

              Well this is basically what you always have to do. You have to amend your behaviour as you learn what other people are like, you can't do much to amend their's.

              I'm a very private person but the rest of my family are very open. I know if I tell my mother something strictly confidentially I might as well tell the whole world so I don't tell her much. No matter how much I shouted and screamed at her as a kid it never changed the way she behaved. In fact I've never known someone to change their level of openness when it comes to talking about other's lives. It's one of those things that is pretty much set in stone so you have to work around that. Looking at the screenshots she clearly doesn't get what you are concerned about and that's not something you can teach her.

              [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (10 children)

              I do not broadcast Musky's business to the world, he's just highly sensitive about me talking to one particular person and being very unreasonable.

              [–]jet199 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (8 children)

              Particular person or men in general, I wonder.

              Men know if certain things get out to the bros they will be hearing about them for decades later.

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                [–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

                Tru that, let's teach u/zom to man up

                [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)


                [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (9 children)

                You are correct. But I posted that YouTube video above, this is attention.

                She loves that shit. Her worst nightmare is no one giving her special attention.

                This just feeds the monster.

                [–]JasonCarswell 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (8 children)


                If Mel wanted attention, she'd be verbose like socks or be a drama queen like Musky.

                [–]carn0ld03 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

                Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.

                [–]tiny-brown-mug 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (11 children)

                This is a huge part of why internet relationships are a horrible idea. It can get very emotionally fraught, sensitivities run high, feelings get hurt, and there's only so much nuance that can be conveyed in text.

                I have you guys on here as internet friends, but if things got any more personal that that, I'd have problems, too. I think it would be healthier for Musky to back off of this friendship entirely, as it seems to be causing him emotional distress, and this distress is pouring out in kind of passive-aggressive ways into the rest of the forum.

                If a friendship is becoming emotionally difficult and is effecting your ability to think clearly or be happy, end the friendship. It's not worth it. Musky, you have a wife in real life. You have male internet buddies on here you can talk to and share pictures of your cat, tobacco, and adventures with. You don't need an internet girlfriend.

                And if I had been incredibly specific with someone about not sharing any details at all about me with another party and they went ahead and did it anyway, I'd be cheesed off, especially if there was supposed to be some kind of trust involved. It seems one party is taking this friendship way more seriously than the other party, and this may be a sign that the friendship is not healthy for either person.

                [–]TimothyMcFuck 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

                you called her a whore you're the asshole