If a mover used your old apartment and new apartment restroom without asking (or washing their hands,) would you be upset by it? Or not care?

submitted by Mcheetah from self.AskSaidIt

So I just had one of the shittiest fucking days in a while... But the short version is, this non-English-speaking mover uses my bathroom twice without asking me, fucking up the bowl after I just cleaned my old apartment bathroom, then taking a shit in the new bathroom before I've even packed everything off the truck.

How would you feel about this?

My friend thinks I'm overreacting because she says everyone needs to use the restroom and he's helping me move. But I'm paying him to move my things, not fuck up my personal fucking bathroom! I don't treat my stuff like a public gas station toilet like everyone else; I never meet people at my place, so I'm the only one who uses my bathroom. He also didn't fucking ask me, both times. I am so fucking pissed off at this, no pun intended.

If some piece-of-shit mover used your bathroom TWICE without asking, at both your old and new apartment, to go number one and number two (especially after just cleaning the old bathroom and never once washing their hands,) would you be upset? Or would you not care because you too piss on the walls and don't ever wash your hands after touching your piss-soaked dick or asshole in someone else's apartment.

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[–]Be_incorrigible 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I was a mover for damn near 20 years.... Don't think I ever took a shit in anyone's bathroom. Do that before I show up for the job.... Would ask to take a leak though... And if there was any sprinkle I cleaned it up. So yeah it would bother me too.

[–]Mcheetah[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you! Like I explained before, he didn't ask, I just cleaned the old bathroom before leaving and left cleaning powder in the bowl so it'd be nice and stainless (I didn't even use it myself the night before; I went down to the convenience store to pee instead of my own toilet), he did that shit (literally) twice defiling my new bathroom before even I got to use it, and he's one of those nasty fuckers that never wash their hands. This was now yesterday and I'm still fucking pissed off about it.

[–]jet199 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Fun fact, in the film industry movers are called "humpers".

[–]bucetao6969 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Rare seeing a good acting blue collar worker on the internet.... it's all a bunch of chronically online junkies. Made my day :)

[–]outside 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Did it for a summer. I'd be annoyed, little grossed out, but not say anything. Depending how bad he blew it up, might affect the tip. But overall I'd chalk it up to the guy wasn't feeling well and better in the toilet than the foyer while moving my couch.

That said, OP sounds like a germophobe to a weird degree.

[–]Threesrwild 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Your movers are touching just about all of your shit and you’re worried about them taking one in your home? Grow up and act like an adult.

[–]bucetao6969 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yes. I gave him permission to enter my house, not use my bathroom. If he asked for permission I would have given him (I have a guest's bathroom) however since he used it without permission that is bad etiquette and I would never use his services again.

[–]Mcheetah[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you. Like I said, he just didn't piss in there without asking, he ruined the cleaning I did of the old bathroom before I left, then fucked up my new bathroom before I even got to unpack and took a giant shit in the toilet. There wasn't even soap in there yet because I didn't have time to unpack anything. He didn't speak English, but he also made no attempts to even ask. He just fucking walked in there like I'd be okay with some stranger fucking up my bathroom... Twice.

[–]jet199 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's fine.

We should be past the time when the help were made to use servants facilities only.

He should clean up after himself though, that's a personal failing.

[–]KyleIsThisTall 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why did you have a filthy foreigner in your place? Are they non-White? Do you not ha e any friends nor family to help you move?

[–]Rah 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I would bother if he did not leave the bathroom the way he found it and would make a point depending on how bad it is.

[–]Maggotus 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If you are pissing on your own dick then you definitely have a problem. Maybe a good hole realignment would help?

[–]Mcheetah[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

  1. It doesn't apply to me.
  2. Splashback.
  3. Foreskin.
  4. You're still touching your dick; then potentially other people's property. Might as well smear your cock on the doorknob and skip a step or two.
  5. Would you be okay with your chef, cook, or waiter using the toilet and not washing their hands?
  6. I can't respect any adult who's that fucking nasty. Unless they only never-washed in their own property. Otherwise, second-hand handjobs or smearing your piss or shit onto other people's property are beyond fucked-up. Not saying you're arguing it's okay to not wash your hands, but you might be implying it.