Should I make an account for a dating app to meet women, or is it better talk to people in real life?

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[–]dissidentrhetoric 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you are a white man and looking for a white woman, I would avoid dating sites because they are anti-white and anti-conservative, basically run and owned by jews and commies.

[–]gloomy_bear 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

IRL is better. A lot of troons are on these dating apps.

[–]SMCAB 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Always best to avoid apps. It's a cesspool of disordered women, and if they aren't disordered, the inevitable control they get from running the online show brings out the worst in them.

An adult woman has a much easier time washing her tits and going outside and expecting men to hit on them.

With that said, I met my current girlfriend on an app, and she's the nicest and most adult acting woman I've ever met.

But the process was and is hell. And will only get worse.

[–]tiny-brown-mug 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Real life. Go to places that you enjoy. Live music shows are good.

As others have said, it seems dating sites have been taken over by transgender folks and single mothers, and if you're not into that, real life is better.

[–]Jiminy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

If you can't get online matches you'll get rejected at the bar too

[–]Canbot 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Not true. If you are there with friends having fun that speaks volumes for your character. And you are not getting compared to thousands of often fake profiles. It just takes a lot more effort and money to hang out at bars all the time just to maybe run into a potential opportunity. There is no sure bet with either, but at least you see everything that is going on instead of not knowing if your profile is being shown to good matches because you didn't pay the extra promotion fee.

[–]Jiminy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Is true sorry

[–]Canbot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

You don't date and it shows.

[–]Jiminy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Guaranteed you never got laid. I'm married.

[–]Canbot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Childish insults are unnecessary, a simple "you're right" would have sufficed.

[–]Jiminy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You started it Kid

Don't talk shit when you're a virgin

Blocked for being an incel and taking it out on others when you're not really mad at me

[–]Canbot 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not a virgin, and what I said is true by your own admission.

[–]Polar64[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Fair enough, but doesn't stop me from trying

[–]Jiminy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

True never give up