But secular submission is motivated purely by cravings and self-righteousness
Not My will, but Yours be done.
Those were the words of spoken by Christ, Himself just hours before His betrayal and then His crucifixion. If ANYONE in the world had a reason for wanting to find another way for people to be made right with God – it was Jesus Christ.
Jesus cried to God that this “cup” (crucifixion) could pass from Him. He could have walked away but He chose to submit to God the Father and because He did we have been saved. Christ submitted because he loved His Father - He obeyed God!
This is not just the essence of how a woman should submit to her husband; it's also the foundation of Christian submission regardless of gender. So love God and submit yourselves to him in all things.
As a woman I submit to my husband in the same way I submit to God the Father. The only condition attached to my wifely submission is that it's dependent on my husband's submission to God. As long as he submits to God then I will submit to him.
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