By which I mean, feeling your attraction to each sex waxing and waning. Maybe an increase towards one results in a decrease towards the other... or maybe not. Maybe this only happens with one sex, while your attraction to the other remains constant. Or maybe even the way that you bi-cycle/fluctuate has itself been known to cycle/fluctuate!
This is a subject that particularly interests me, since it seems so quintessentially bisexual: while we don't all experience it, ONLY we experience it-- those who are exclusively single-sex-attracted cannot, by definition.
Do you have any experience with this phenomenon? How does it work for you? Do you see any patterns? How do you feel about it, and does it pose any challenges, especially in a monogamous relationship? Do you think that it's something most monosexuals can understand, and not be disapproving of and/or threatened by? Is this what you call it, or do you prefer another name? All thoughts are welcome!
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