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[–]PatsyStone 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

4 and 5 are really the important ones. I dated a bisexual man and given our personalities cheating wasn't a big fear of mine, and I couldn't care less about how valid he was or wasn't.

People are some cunts though and I had to defend him from little digs constantly. The main issue is that he will be feminized and they'll come to you trying to get you to join in.

People would try to goad me into being disrespectful towards him, insult him straight to my face, people would insinuate that he was feminine and I was butch and we were more like lesbians (they thought that was hilarious,) we were presumed to have some debauched wild sex life... it was easy to deal with by avoiding the people who made comments and sticking to friends who treated us like people, but it did limit who we hung out with a lot.