Does anyone else feel broken because of their fluctuating attraction?

submitted by cryptoterfthrow from self.Bisexuals

This is in reference to bi-cycling. I need to know if others experience this as much as I do or if it's in my head. I've not been in any long-term relationships, nor have I been able to maintain more than a few dates with a handful of people. It could be my own personal issues with attachment, but going completely off one sex and preferring the other for a stretch of time really ruins things. And then to have it switch all over again makes me think the other person is better off being with someone who can reliably be attracted to their sex.

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[–]ElectricSheep 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not broken but it is annoying. And in the instances where the heart says yes but the brain says no (or vice versa) are very annoying.

My solution is to just forget about it and focus on other things.

[–]suzew 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I do not feel broken. Sexuality doesn't define a person. For me, I'm not sure what my sexuality ultimately will be. I am currently leaning more towards gay in the bisexual spectrum. I get off to gay porn.