https://rageagainstthemanchine.com/2009/07/05/why-i-hate-men-part-1-and-then-it-hit-me/ this is good "I find it funny how so many males pride themselves on their sex, but most of the absolutely SUCK at sex. I had maybe 1-2 that could keep up with me, but even then, they always needed special positions so they would not come too soon, usually just when it was getting good. And of course, they stop trying after a while too, they think you are just supposed to like their National Geographic 15 second sex act. Most of them fall asleep or are worthless after sex too. Like that pathetic 5 stroke joke just took all the life outta them. LMAO, poor things, they can’t even fuck right, and that’s literally their pride and obsession. And these days with the incurable forms of STD’s like syphilis and chlamydia, who needs an organic dick anyway when plastic dicks are SOOO so so much better and cleaner. Oh, and few people talk about this, but their dicks also shrink a bit as they age and I’m talking starting around 30 in some of them. Male personal hygiene is also absolute shit, usually. I think I was only with one boyfriend that didn’t have NASCAR stained drawers routinely, and he was much older than me and had married and divorced before, so a woman had likely trained him of how to stay clean. I refuse to have sex with my husband anymore because I’m not attracted to him anymore. I’ve actually had people try to shame me into having sex with him, like it’s my ‘duty’ or some shit LOL whatever. You see all the grossness of males when you marry them or live with them. Mine is alright as far as they go, we get along and we have a business together and he knows my boundaries and respects them. He picks up his own shit. I am not his maid. And unless he invests in some serious self care and turnabout from his apathetic norm for years (I suspect untreated depression), then I simply can’t see him as a sexual thing. He’s soft and doughy, like a fat kid. But of course, he is constantly talking shit about fat women…and I find that ridiculous on his part when he is just as big or bigger. This is how they are, and mine is one of the ‘good’ ones. His addiction is the testosteroney action TV shows, not so much the porn. But those shows and movies are just as bad (shit like WWE, Fast and Furious, impractical jokers, etc) because most of it is crass entertainment and the movies always objectify women (a certain kind of women OFC, because the rest of us normal looking women are just ‘nothing’). I just can’t give a fuck anymore. I have seen the light and the truth of what men are a day late and a dollar short. I can freely admit I was a dumb ass chick back when I was young, I thought being seen as ‘desirable’ by them was the bestest thing ever. Then when you lose the teenage look, you see how men REALLY are. It’s now for me like Pandora’s box. The truth can’t be put back in now that I’ve seen it. "