Funny thing I noticed in polilez vs born that way flamewars is that , while everyone in the former category thinks a string of underwhelming shitty romances with males (duh) are equivalent to these things, everyone in the latter part acts as if it's the case. If a girl got raped by a male and short-circuited to seek love and attention by spreading her legs for males around the block for a while, or if she does this for survival money, the 'all prostitution is rape' attitude evaporates and we get reactions like "she says she's a lesbian sex worker and her punter says he can turn lesbians straight but she still fucks him goddamn lying bisluts", as well as 'actions of grooming victims aren't agency' since many girls remain or become completely averse to males afterwards that means if you got opposite mindfuck you're just doing the normal straight thing, apparently. All that in the age of hardcore porn watching at 9yo, ladydick and sugarbaby empowerment, mind you.

Naturally, if you dump the most mental part of every community, including 'damaged' straight women foolishly seeking direct dick substitute or pairing up with other 'broken' hets, as well as any woman self loathing enough to date a trans anything, into what is now a non category which can obviously be defined by anyone including straights and trannies, is that a surprise that std-ridden bisluts are the source of everyone's problems all the time?

re: STFU yo r really het yuo cant say anything ever - have you ever been on k1wif4rms threads on tumblr radfems, or payed attention to bihet wars? I'm calling them bihet wars and not 'lesbian wars' because if you started digging under the loudest goldstarest anti-bihets turned out to be ones: this one is a military wife actually, that one takes dick, this one with a labrys avatar has a huge archive of her yaoi bdsm fanfiction etc., I can't take a lot of this shit flinging seriously anymore. And these are the things that happen in modern, super liberal, american well off suburbs, it's not like I try hide some 50yo boy band loving thrice married economically secure maude behind chechen 14yo child bride.