TRP is on Reddit, it's simply quarantined. If any similar ideology for women existed it'd be squelched immediately. Blackpill existed for awhile and then it was banned. Pinkpillfeminism had to go private when the sweeping ban came through.

The thing with deadbeat dad's is that it's much easier for them to walk away, they're not directly tied to the kids. That's a way biology has screwed women over, and society doesn't make it easier. Until we find a way to have men get pregnant too, or make lab grown babies 'morally' right, I don't buy the 'men are oppressed' in the realm of children argument.

If you look at the data you will see that during this pandemic because of no school in many places, women are the ones that are are more likely the ones to have quit/reduced their work hours to be with kids (if they were not already fired) and b) in more of the types of jobs that were cut (service industry). Here is an article I found about it if you care to read.... There are many more like this https://www.mckinsey.com/featured-insights/future-of-work/covid-19-and-gender-equality-countering-the-regressive-effects#. I of course agree that this pandemic has been hard on everyone, everywhere, to varying degrees.

With regards to violence, sorry, don't buy it. It comes down to biology. Men are on average stronger han women. That's why gendered violence is more detrimental for women. If we were all the same strength and most women had the same level of aggressive testosterone cursing through their veins, I'd buy your argument. But we're not, and we don't. Women are also socialized to be doormats and put up with way more bullshit then men. Men are socialized in that same system to be coercive and controlling of women.

The United Nations defines gender based violence in the following way:

“The definition of discrimination includes gender based violence, that is, violence that is directed against a woman because she is a woman or that affects women disproportionately. It includes acts that inflict physical, mental or sexual harm or suffering, threats of such acts, coercion and other deprivations of liberty.”

This is from this article https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/domestic-abuse-is-a-gendered-crime/

With regards to war, sure it can be seen as a ruling class thing back when there were monarchs/kings etc and serfs didn't have a choice. That still doesn't change the fact that it was human nature (led by testosterone charged men, by the way....not women). However, nothing has changed. War has just gone nucluer.... Military spending for most nations still exists and there is a huge military complex, most notably in the United States, but to an extent in many other countries throughout the world. Can't blame everything on the ruling class (as much as I'd like to).

I'm glad we can agree on some things, and I am glad to hear you are not a violent person. Yes there are good and bad aspects to everything.... You take the good and use your common sense and leave what doesn't make sense.

With regards to the ruling class and rising against them, I wish it were possible and easily done. I'm a socialist at heart haha, but I don't think it can play out in this highly globalized and capitalist world we live in.... Now more than ever. We're too far gone, the inequality gap is already too wide even in developed countries, and those in power (not the governments, but rather the corporations and billionaires that rule the world) have too much control. People are becoming sheep, so easily distracted with the frivolous things.... Glued to their social media and not willing to exercise critical thinking for the most part... Too wrapped up in consumerism and the vapid things that it appears to offer, while drowning on the inside with depression and mental illness increasing rapidly. Also, there are increasingly divides (eg based on race, or religious extremism/alt right, qanaon, etc) that people are too fragmented to actually organize on a class basis. The increased heterogeneity of most societies have begun to make people clan-like and recluse into their 'own'. And technology/social media have just given a platform to them to group with ones they identify with an nullify everyone else or anything that goes against their narrow worldview.

I'm sure if we were speaking face to face I'm sure we'd be able to find some common ground, but that's something simply not possible on the internet unfortunately, which is why there is so much toxicity much of the time. Take care.