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[–]worried19 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (49 children)

I don't think this is any woman's natural sexuality.

Her natural sexuality, whatever it may have been, is probably unknown even to her. I would bet it has been warped by years of porn and very likely personal experiences of trauma and abuse.

[–]marmorsymphata 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Ah yes. Single orgy pregnancy. Truly the height of women's empowerment.

[–]lefterfield 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I asked the group if anyone wanted a glass of wine. In response, I was shoved to the floor. Before I knew it

This describes rape. I just feel sad for this woman.

[–]MelanieMicrowave 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

This describes rape

Rape involves the absence of consent and/or agency. A person who plans and organizes their own gangbang isn't being raped unill they revoke consent to the aformentioned gangbang.

[–]lefterfield 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Someone who doesn't give consent to a sexual act has not given consent to a sexual act. Ergo, the way she describes this encounter is rape.

[–]MelanieMicrowave 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Did you know it's possible to consent to a sexual activity, such as a gangbang scene, before actually engaging in the act, which is why she negoitated with the organizer and participants about how it would happen and planned the scene?

[–]lefterfield 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Did you know that it's possible to be raped even after initially consenting to a sexual act? I can't say for certain the way this scene played out. But the way she describes what happened? That. Is. Rape. She did not give consent, at the moment where it would have been required. Whether she accepts it as "ok" afterwards doesn't change anything, including the reality of whether or not she was raped.

[–]anxietyaccount8 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That's quite the old article, but there are many newer ones just like it. Not sure how mainstream this behavior is. But yeah, it depresses me that people's idea of "sex positivity" is so pornified.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

While pregnant? This should be criminal.