I know this is an older article but I just came across it. Also, this might not be the best forum, but it's the only women's group I'm on. I'm sure men have fantasies like this (they make enough porn about it). Am I confining women to a role where this is wrong for them?
I know the internet is a place of lies, and websites pay writers for clickbait. Even if this is a lie, who would publish it? A woman claims she put together her own gang rape (I mean "gang bang" -- you know, the "sex positive" way to say gang rape). No mention of condoms or lube or health questions. No "prep" for her ass. Certainly no self-respect. I'm not condemning a woman who might enjoy a threesome or casual sex with friends, even a group of male friends if there's boundaries and understanding. But this:
<Pushing my limits and crossing things off my sexual to-do list was a turn-on in itself — a sign that I was a woman who went after what she wanted and wasn’t afraid to get it. Still, at age 28, a gang bang had eluded me, even though it was a fantasy guaranteed to get me off in five minutes or less, no matter what>
<He explained he had a loose group of friends who did this at times, when they weren’t busy with work or travel or — yes — girlfriends. That it was all very respectful>
All very respectful! Especially to their girlfriends.
<I asked the group if anyone wanted a glass of wine. In response, I was shoved to the floor. Before I knew it, I was sucking one guy’s cock while another guy fucked me from behind. At one point, I was getting fucked by two guys at the same time, while I was sucking off a third. This was my fantasy, come to life.... The guys finished on my face and my chest (at my request), only some got in my eye >
This writer has only one other article, which tells us
< I’m 30 years old, single, and 22 weeks pregnant. I’m also tenuously employed>
Is this what "sex positivity" means? Is this mainstream among women? Is this what websites want to publish to normalize it? Am I just "kink shaming"? I'm pretty sure this is NOT OK and that women's normal sexual desires have been damaged by Porn World. How do we build women's self-esteem before it sinks to this? Or am I just dictating that women have to be "nice girls"?
https://www.thecut.com/2013/10/what-its-like-to-plan-your-own-gang-bang.html
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