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[–]InvisibleWoman 42 insightful - 1 fun42 insightful - 0 fun43 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is impossible not to notice unless you're in complete darkness and possibly also very drunk.

Also, stealthing as a term comes from something that is generally seen as rape, why would you use it as something desirable unless you were completely brainwashed by rape cultire?

[–]susandeath 33 insightful - 10 fun33 insightful - 9 fun34 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I'd notice if a guy had to pump up his penis!

[–]GConly 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That will get you convicted in the UK.

Also... Phalloplasties don't pass for real penises.

And I've never seen a transman with the clothes off pass for male.

So this isn't happening unless the partner is blackout drunk and it's very dark.

[–]moody_ape 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

oh yeah, i'd care. rape by deception is definitely something i would care about.

[–]MarkTwainiac 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's not just the delusion that no can tell the difference between artificially-constructed genitals that bothers me. Equally troubling is the normalization - even lionization - of lying by genderists.

Most of the people caught up in the trans cult would decry Trump for his narcissistic lying, yet they show the same disregard for truthfulness & the same selfish insensitivity towards others as he does - particularly when it comes to sexual matters. TIFs claiming it's OK for them to commit rape by deception seems awfully close to Trump saying, "I can do anything (I want) to women - even grab 'em by the pussy."

Lying used to be generally seen as dishonorable. In pretty much every religion lying is considered a sin, & in every culture being a liar is regarded as something to be ashamed of, not to brag about. But for people caught up in the trans cult, lying is no big deal. Coz when your entire identity & sense of self-worth is based on a lie, telling more & more lies about almost anything seems to come naturally.

[–]our_team_is_winning 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

when your entire identity & sense of self-worth is based on a lie, telling more & more lies about almost anything seems to come naturally.

That should be the opening of a lecture on Trans Demands dangers to women.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The delusion of these people thinking the fake pseudo penisses and vaginas can pass for real.

[–]lefterfield 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

YES. Normal people care when their sexual partners lie to them, honey.

[–]msteacherlady 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I am so appalled that they think so little of human anatomy as to suggest a facsimile of a penis is in any way undetectable.

Men experience injury and disease to the groin such that they require phalloplasty. Men for ages have been torturing their members trying to increase girth and length. The results have never been impressive. In all honesty, it would be tragic if something happened to my husband. I would like to think it wouldn't affect our marriage, but that would be a tough thing to live with as an intimate couple. Like, this is a serious thing. We aren't just cars you can swap out a tailpipe for a different one.

These people scream out "genital fetishist!" as if genitals for most sexually active people shouldn't be something important. It makes me question how many of these people have actual human intimacy in their lives and aren't just trapped in their fluffy Adventure Time cartoon world where everyone has noodle bodies and parts don't matter.

Hearts not parts for me has always made the difference between close friendship and a romantic sexual one. This is what also rings the incel bell. It comes off as a friend zone gripe.

[–]jelliknight 10 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

AHAHAHA

Have you seen a phalloplasty? I could make a more realistic penis with a saveloy and some duct tape. And they generally can't get erect at all. I fell like I'd also notice the huge chucks of flesh missing from my partners forearm and/or legs.

Totally detached from reality.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The general consensus on Reddit these days seems to be that no trans person is under any obligation to disclose their true sex, since they have always been the gender identity they currently identify as, even if their body parts don't match. I assume many of these commenters are young, and have never been 'stealthed' by a partner.

[–]dazedandsubdued 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

YES- I WOULD CARE. these people are fucking delusional and disgusting...with a seriously warped understanding of how sexuality works for the vast majority of people. YUCK.