I've Given Birth, But I Am Not My Children's Mother. Where Do I Belong? | The Motherload®

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[–]artetolife 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Those poor children. Imagine telling a toddler that they can't have a mother like everyone else, instead they have "boby" and xir feelings come first! And as usual with these non-binary people, I suspect the whining about parenting groups is a non-issue. Plenty of fathers manage to deal with feeling a bit out of place in those spaces, what makes it so difficult for her?

[–]BEB 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In treatment for Narccissistic Personality Disorder before you ruin you children's lives.

[–]hfxB0oyA 14 insightful - 9 fun14 insightful - 8 fun15 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Oh, oh! I know the answer - you belong in a mental institution!

[–]goobandit 15 insightful - 6 fun15 insightful - 5 fun16 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Whoops, I’m pregnant again because I let a male ejaculate into my non-woman’s vagina! Now there’s a baby forming in my definitely-not-female uterus!

[–]VioletRemi 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Poor kids.

[–]bolla_top 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Why can't these people just be themselves? They are so obsessed with categorizing and labeling themselves.

[–]BEB 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I haven't read this yet because these people exhaust me, but I think that this kind of attention-seeking behavior is an offshoot of the helicopter parenting some Millennials experienced.

They are used to being the center of the universe, and so what way to (perhaps subconsciously) go back to being the center after the children are born? Declare yourself a gendxr special. It's all about ME.

[–]our_team_is_winning 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

I can save you the time reading:

TL/DR: <And yet… mother is inherently gendered. It is female, and I am not. > This after she gave birth to kids.

[–]BEB 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks for the very concise (and hilarious) summary.

What amazes me is that everyone in the US is a product of someone who had the gumption to pack up what they owned and travel hundreds or thousands of miles from all that they knew, sometimes leaving loved ones behind forever, into the unknown, and yet in 2020 so many of my fellow Americans are...

[–]Lady_Montgomery 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Look at me I'm special too. Celebrate me for being stunning and brave! Yeah!

For real though. Can her poor kids be taken away and put somewhere safe.

[–]Carthimundia 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I can't believe she wants her kids to call her 'boby'. It sounds like the Scottish word for dick (boaby).

[–]slushpilot 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Trans-women are women, But non-binary mothers aren’t mothers.

Got it.

[–]owmygenderfeels 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I thought this was going to be about surrogate mothers' lack of rights and legal protections.

[–]Aloudmeow 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I stopped reading at “metagender.” WTF? I just worry how fucked up the kids of a woman who denies she’s a woman and a mother turn out to be.

[–]MinisterOfTerfery 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Grown people being obsessed with labels and being special is so damn embarrassing.