Hey, it's been a while...
Yeah...I still work at shitty company: Dealing with him, the terrible boss TiM. I need to try harder to escape. Dealt with some personal issues in life and just got back on track again. A wonderful person on this subsaidit helped me with my resume and so 100 thank yous! I promise I won't let you down...I just need too keep looking for job.
Anyhow...
Some coworkers that I'm friendly with seem to be sympathetic toward said boss and not GC AT ALL.
Said TiM boss talks down on me "What are you, a child?" and says other condescending things such as "You seem to have system issues all the time it must be your internet because our systems are perfectly fine. Do I need to move you back to the office?"(aka,the office that was infected by the virus TWICE so they shut it down).
I said it could be my [ISP name].
"Well, I have the same [ISP name] and don't have any issues."
....Okay? Good for fucking you?? Why do you let these other slackers off all the time? They ALWAYS have system issues and are messing around all day. I'm doing these stupid projects for the company, training newbies, fixing work that the "veterans" fucked up, and I show up on time EVERYDAY but you have a problem with me?
Anyways, talked to coworker friends about how TiM treats me and they say it sucks but that "she" was in the military so "she" may speak a little but rougher and that "she" is actually a "really cool person and friend to talk to". And that "she" seems to like me because I work hard.
Doesn't matter if HE likes me, you don't talk to your employees like children. I'm just frustrated that HE gets away with shit because HE is a MAN who happens to be TRANS identified. I can't go to HR because HIS bestie actually works there and everyone at the company likes HIM.
Yep...
I'm also thinking of dropping said friends once I get a new job. Or maybe there's hope for them?..
One of them seems to be the "not-like-other-girls" type and uses the term pansexual(because she likes nonbinary and trans people, her definition). She latched onto me quick based on...similarish backgrounds(strict, conservative, religious household) and...I'm part of the LGB(DroptheT). I'm bi(thought I was lesbian for the longest time tbh, that's what made me want to transition at a younger age to be "normal"), she's pan but she says she calls herself bi sometimes??? Also what REALLY fucking annoys me is that she sees women as her disposable "sex" dolls and men as the real thing("Oh, I only had one night stands with women except for one ex"). Then she seems like a fake feminist saying she "hates makeup" but loves it when her boyfie does everything for her and wants to be a SAHM. So you're "not-like-other-girls" by...not wearing makeup? Okaaaay. Who cares? I really don't care if a woman or man wears it. It's just fucking paint on the face.
But I'm starting to feel less and less invested in friendship...she's nice I guess?...but not someone that I feel I can hold an intellectual conversation with? She just uses buzzwords and it's not really...constructive. This is the friend I speak of: When did your friend/family member peak?.
Another friend is male, and he's okay with TiM too, but TiM favours him, said friend stood up for me in past: Are we conditioned to ignore sexism?. But he's telling me to pretty much suck it up and it's not that bad.
So...now I wonder if I'm an asshole? Am I missing something? Am I biased because I'm against transitioning? What is it?
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