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[–]NeedMoreCoffee 22 insightful - 6 fun22 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 6 fun -  (43 children)

Oh come on don't be an asshole. Blair is upset they can never have a child of their own. It's a process everyone goes through when they find out they are infertile. They are venting and talking how they as a couple dealt with it and are now talking about adopting. Blair was not informed that blockers and hormones makes you sterile.

Blair just got the terminology wrong. The very first seconds they say they went off blockers to get dna to have a child. Every time they say dna they mean fertile sperm.

It is extremely clear if watch the video that is what they meant. You are being misleading on purpose. I'm all for shitting on genderwoowoo but this is not the thing to do it with.

Also fuck your ageist remark. It's a perfectly normal thing to think about wanting to have kids at the end of your twenties and early thirties because you are still young and full of energy and you have more chance to see your grandkids get born then when you have a kid at 40. Almost everyone thinks something simelar in their twenties.

[–]PenseePansy 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (18 children)

Blair just got the terminology wrong.

More like Blair got the BIOLOGY wrong. Because transgenderism is at best ignorant of, and at worst outright hostile towards, human biology. That is the ENTIRE FUCKING PROBLEM. Since they demand that the rest of us follow suit. So forgive me if I'm less than sympathetic when this bites one of 'em in the ass.

Blair was not informed that blockers and hormones makes you sterile.

Yeah, taking a long-term wrecking ball to everything related to your reproductive category makes ya... unable to reproduce! WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT.

Look, I get that there are those here who see Blair White as "one of the good ones". I wouldn't go that far: less-odious, maybe... but that's still odious. "Woman" is a pornified costume to him, all about image and appeal to men. And better to be a fake woman than a real gay man. And what's biology anyway? Male and female are just about whether you wear makeup or not, and what kind of plastic surgery you get, duh! It's not as though they have, like, significance for, oh, I dunno, making babies or anything!

"Transwomen" have plenty of spaces (god knows) where we're expected to kowtow to them and their fee-fees; is it too much to ask that THIS not be just one more of 'em? Please?

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 9 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 6 fun -  (17 children)

Actually i call Blair she all the time because frankly i respect the time and effort they are spending defending JK Rowling and calling out the gender cult. I also respect Blair that she takes the relentless amount of shit and stalkers and threats they are getting from all over and not back down. It's a lot more than a lot of GC people have done or will ever do. Transexuals have always existed and i always treated them as human beings. Just because now there is a cult and transtrenders doesnt mean i suddenly am going to shit on the transexuals who defend women and are my allies.

I used the they on purpose here to avoid some extremists having a hissyfit just like TRA's about pronouns but it seems trying to be neutral is enough now to get piled on and get weird PMs so fuck it.

I'll call Blair a she from now on and just watch the meltdowns with popcorn. Have a nice day.

[–]lefterfield 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

i suddenly am going to shit on the transexuals

Calling a man a man = shitting on them?! Men are men. If they have a problem with being men, that's very unfortunate for them. Doesn't make it hateful to embrace reality and use sex-based pronouns. You may claim to oppose the gender cult, but you're still accepting their brainwashing of what's an insult.

I don't believe you should have been called out for using they. I do it to avoid the stupidity of TRAs about pronoun use. Still, think about what you're saying by calling a neutral descriptor disrespectful.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (8 children)

Im talking about this entire bloody thread.

No im someone who shared concerts and parties with transsexuals in the 90's and they all were wonderfull people. And i can still see the difference between a decent person and some narcissistic assholes.

I'm sure it must be wonderful to see the world in black and white and lose all sense of nuance but thats how we are in this fucking mess in the first place so forgive me that i refuse to act like the mirror image of a TRA and swing full extremist view the other way. You want to think that makes me brainwashed well i got some news for you man...

I will call out bullshit when i see it and this thread is bullshit.

Spend time calling out shit that actually matters and behaviour that is insane not some kid who is trying to be a good person, who is an ally, and who found out they will never have a child of their own

[–]lefterfield 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I have no strong feelings either way about this thread generally. It is sad that Blaire can't produce sperm. It would have been sadder if he could, and he used it to impregnate a surrogate. I like Blaire 90% of the time, but there are bigger tragedies than his life and problems that he brought on himself. I do think it's worth discussing the issue that trans-identifying individuals like Blaire are being lied to or not told the whole truth about the side effects of hormones. Probably a more useful discussion than getting upset about sexed pronouns.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I actually completely agree with you on that one.

[–]lefterfield 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Awesome, common ground :)

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's the best ground. Fluffy. :)

[–]littlerbear 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

So? Why does the fact that you've hung out w/ trans people need to impact my acceptance of reality and the proper use of pronouns?

What's your obsession w/ the word 'asshole'?

Yes - saying that men are men and can never be women is pathologically black and white thinking. >Eyeroll< And yes, if you believe that men can become women or that they should be called 'she' after some arbitrary level of achievement, then yes, you've been brainwashed.

We're calling out your bullshit. You sound like a troll.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The fact is that i still am capable of seeing some trans as actual people. Kids that have been groomed by a cult and misled by doctors. I don't see all of them as perverts and rapists like some of you do here. I am uncapable of thinking black and white.

And this attitude right here is what is setting the gc movement back by miles because some of you are so eager to attack everything trans and everyone who is not 100% GC everytimes , all the time . Not only is it the mirror image of the TRA's behaviour but it turns away so many people who were peaking and then come and see this bullshit of a thread and the shit anyone more centered gets and go "oh they do hate all trans people im not going to fuck with this"

So if anyone is a troll its people like you because you fuck up all our progress.

I also use asshole because i dont want to use gendered slurs like cunt or bitch or dick And everyone has an asshole, some even become a life size version of it.

[–]DifferentAirGC 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I acknowledge some trans people are homosexual and transitioned because of homophobia or grooming. And while I feel sorry for them, homosexual transwomen should still not be allowed in women's spaces. Bathrooms, shelters and such are divided by biological sex, not sexuality. If they feel threatened by men, then they should try changing men's behavior, not women's.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I never said anything different i think exactly like you on that issue.

[–]littlerbear 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

Being a woman is not an honor to be conferred upon a man because he grows his hair out and wears a dress. Nor should defending an innocent woman against a horde of psychos honorable enough to alter one's sex either. Women take incredible amounts of shit from TRAs, up to and including being assaulted, deplatformed and fired.

GC people treat trans people like human beings - we just don't believe that they're the target sex and refuse to pretend that they are. You'd be amazed how warm and polite people can be and not make any reference to sex or gender at all. But, people who are so caught up in their fantasies of 'being' the opposite sex seem to overlook this.

No one's having a meltdown. We're simply saying that men can't be women. And...the hissy fits come from the handmaidens and the TRAs.

[–]Bootsinmyshoes30 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

LITTLEBEAR! I know you from the GC sub on reddit, thank f*ck you are here. I was like "where are all the smart GCs I interacted with before, did everyone in this sub lose their minds?" when I saw the comments needmorecoffe and others left underneath u/MarkTwainiac's post. Mark's done so much to educate the tras, both in the sub on reddit, and here, and yet these people that call themselves "GC" but are actually tras (maybe without realizing it, but can't be sure) attacked her. This is absolute madness.

[–]littlerbear 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Thanks for the warm welcome.

Yeah - MarkTwainiac. I remember him too. Good God what a piece of work. That TRA masquerading as GC's thing is happening on twitter too. Lib fems are doing it and so are sex workers. I think that's why there was a mass ban starting last week and continuing into this week. What they seem to forget is that regardless of where we are we won't be silent. Ever.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not a tra . i am involved in severl GC movements and ive been suspended from reddit, twitter and other sites several times because i am GC.

I just think sometimes you need to remember you are talking about people and kids who are in pain. It won't kill you to realise not all trans are TRA's that hate women.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

what is madness is you typing a wall of what i'm sure is bullshit and insults towards me and are all up in this thread because you are so pressed about someone having an opinion that is not like yours. You need some therapy. Seriously.

[–]Bootsinmyshoes30 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

You're one to talk. You were the one who first came to this thread, insulted OP, and wrote a whole paragraph on "don't be an a-hole uwu", all because you were too pressed about OP thinking differently from you. You wrote your "opinion" which is based on errors and false premises in this public thread, you had to be prepared for us criticizing your very ridiculous "opinions", because no "opinion" should be immune from criticism, certainly not yours.

Also no, you don't get to assume what's in my long response to you when you never bothered to read it. For your information, the only "insult" in it is "have several seats and shut the f-ck up" only because you first insulted me and told me to "go f*ck yourself": https://imgur.com/7w4Cd1Q

You are everywhere in this thread, calling us a-holes from left to right, and responding to literally anyone that isn't even talking to you. How about you seek therapy? You really need it.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

LOL you're hilarious

[–]Bootsinmyshoes30 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (11 children)

You're so gross for attacking OP. I don't care he's "upset". OP meant the correct terminology is "gametes" (more specifically sperm here, as Blaire is a man), not DNA. Just because it's become the "norm" to replace gametes with DNA, and still be understood, doesn't mean the terminology is correct. Gametes are not DNA.

Blair is upset they can never ... They are venting and talking ... The very first seconds they say they went off blockers ...

It's not "they", it's "he". Blaire White is a man, so you should use "he" when you refer to him. Don't go using "they" like those genderwoowoo believers do.

OP brings up another issue in the end that you didn't bother researching on or asking her about. It's common for GC to criticize people using women as their surrogates, at least that's what I'd see in the GC sub on reddit. I'm not good at explaining why it's wrong to use women as surrogates, so I suggest you dm u/MarkTwainiac or wait for her to explain it to you. She does a way better job at it than I could do.

Anyways, I'm an A-hole, and don't care what you think of me.

And this is a screenshot of your comment, just in case you want to edit it, so we have the original one and OP (mark) knows what you said: https://imgur.com/QPlOImk

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (10 children)

Just like the gendercult doesnt get to tell me what to think or do neither do you asshole

It's clear you didn't watch the vid because Blair was not talking about gametes but fertile sperm. I posses the capability to understand if someone got a mental illness that makes them upset about their sex organs that they might not like saying ovaries or sperm or any shit involving sex organs in their own videos.

Its not just common for trans using surrogates its common for regular folks as well. How on earth do you think its become a "normal" thing with laws written around it in many countries? Personally i think surragacy is disgusting, but i'm not ignorant enough to claim its a trans thing.

Also just because you are a coward and edit or delete your comments does not make me so. Your projection is hilarious and I stand by every word of my posts.

And no I am not going to DM OP and i suggest you go fuck yourself.

[–]Bootsinmyshoes30 16 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 4 fun -  (7 children)

if someone got a mental illness that makes them upset about their sex organs ... i call Blair she all the time because frankly i respect the time and effort they are spending defending JK Rowling

You hate the gendercult but talk exactly like the gendercult yourself, how hypocritical of you. Just because Blaire defends JK Rowling doesn't mean he is a she/her. It just means he is a man who supports women from time to time (men are not incapable of supporting women). The pronouns she/her refer to a biological woman. No matter how mentally ill and uncomfortable with his sex organs Blaire is, he is and will remain a biological man, and therefore can not be referred to as she/her.

Just like the gendercult doesnt get to tell me what to think or do neither do

You don't want gendercult to tell you what to do, why? Because they are wrong. I'm going to tell you what to do, why? Because you are wrong.

Your going along with Blaire's delusions that he's a "woman in a straight relationship" is not respect. You're helping erase his being gay, which is homophobic of you. The whole reason Blaire thinks he's a "trans woman" is because he hates being a gay man. He hates that he's a man married to another man, so he tries to think of himself as "a woman who married a man". He is a massive homophobe. And you're not helping him.

You're not helping the other gay men either. They will look at Blaire and go "maybe I'm a woman in a man's body too", erasing themselves as gay men and rewriting their existence as "a woman in a straight relationship".

I don't respect that. Ellen Page (a woman who is in a relationship with another woman) recently "came out as a trans man", and thinks she is "a man in a straight relationship". As much as claims such as "Ellen (or Eliot) is a man in a straight relationship" are gay erasure, and are homophobic remarks, your "Blaire is a woman in a straight relationship!" is gay erasure, is a homophobic remark and is very disrespectful to gay men. And as a lesbian, I care not to let homophobia affect gay men and gay women, not just gay women, as much as I can.

Gong along with "transsexuals", aka mentally ill people, is not "respect" either. Your "call this mentally ill man she/her, and this mentally ill woman he/him" is as ridiculous as telling someone who is mentally ill and has an eating disorder (is anorexic) that "yes yes, you're very fat. I'm going along with your delusions and your discomfort with your body because that's respect, and telling you you are fat and need to get thinner" is.

That's not respect. You are just hurting the mentally ill more.

You know what respect is? Not going along with the "trans" people's delusions, and telling them the truth, because we know they deserve to be told the truth, not lies.

You're even spreading misogyny and disrespecting women by going along with the delusions of "trans" people.

Blaire is a man who tried his best to imitate the most stereotypical and pornified form of a woman, with those big fake "boobs", and dresses.

Make-up, dresses, big boobs, etc do not define women.

Don't even get me started on his video where he said "gender is not a social construct", followed by "male brains and female brains are real, trans men have male brains, trans women have female brains. Feminine men and masculine women are defects": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s9WqfBDjRF8&t=191s

Blaire is a trans medicalist, trans medicalists are the ones that believe in false things like "a trans man has a male brain so they are a man in a woman's body, and a trans woman has a female brain so they are a woman in a male body and they both should get surgery, that's the only way to help the body match the brain"

Blaire, as a trans medicalist, is even more guilty than those transtrenders you hate so much, because it's trans medicalists that pass laws helping these transtrenders get what they want in the first place

What did we learn today? That people such as yourself who go along with the "trans" people's delusions are not only disrespecting gay men, and gay women, but also disrespecting women in general, making people such as yourself some of the most disrespectful people we can find in "society".

So really. You're in no position to talk about "respect". Have several seats. And. Shut. The. F*ck. Up.

Blair was not talking about gametes but fertile sperm ... also I forgot to add that this might be another reason for the words which i found out earlier https://www.reddit.com/r/copypasta/comments/fhb8o9/list_of_confirmed_demonetization_words_on_youtube/

Sperm is the male reproductive cell, or gamete. Blaire was talking about gametes, in other words sperm, but instead of sperm said "DNA". Sperm is not DNA. Even if saying "sperm" leads to the video getting demonitized, the solution would be to say "spe-m". The dash indicating a short beep to semi-censor the word but to make it clear to the audience he means sperm. For instance, most YouTubers know when they curse, their videos get demonitized.

And when they want to say "shut up", they say "sh** up", the two stars indicating a beep that semi-censors the word. That's what Blaire does when cursing, he says "that's bull**it", there's a small beep sound in there to semi-censor the word.

If it was for not being demonitized, then he should have done the same thing he does when he curses. He should have said "spe*m", semi-censoring the word. Not replacing sperm with "DNA", which is biologically inaccurate. For someone you think is "biologically accurate", Blaire says a lot of biologically wrong things.

Anyway, Blaire's videos get demonitized no matter how much he replaces the word "sperm" with other things that have nothing to do with sperm. He's a gay man, and YouTube is a homophobic platform. Videos of gay men and gay women get demonitized, even when they do absolutely nothing in the video besides talking about the weather (I remember the time many gay YouTubers were criticizing YouTube for demonitizing their videos just because they said the word gay in the videos, or had the word gay in the title of their videos. YouTube lied, then acknowledged, and though they apologized, the issue was never fixed)

https://mashable.com/video/youtube-demonetize-lgbtq-words-nerdcity/?europe=true

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/youtube-queer-vlogger-lgbt-video-content-demonetise-a9152506.html

https://www.vox.com/culture/2019/10/10/20893258/youtube-lgbtq-censorship-demonetization-nerd-city-algorithm-report

Its not just common for trans using surrogates its common for regular folks as well. How on earth do you think its become a "normal" thing with laws written around it in many countries? Personally i think surragacy is disgusting, but i'm not ignorant enough to claim its a trans thing.

Never said it's a "trans" thing, you have the inability to comprehend texts as well, great.

I said, it's common for GC s to criticize people using women as surrogates. And Blaire was going to use a woman as surrogate. It has nothing to do with him thinking he's "trans"

just because you are a coward and edit or delete your comments does not make me so. Your projection is hilarious and I stand by every word of my posts.

Projecting your insecurity and cowardice on me isn't going to help you look less than the fool you are. Most times, I don't edit or delete my comments, because I am brave enough to stand by every one of my words. The times I edit is because I have to fix typos. It's because I care about my texts being understood, and there being no misunderstandings.

There have been so many people editing and even deleting their comments out of fear they were going to get downvoted, and criticized.

I'm brave enough to not edit or delete most times and let people see what I really believe in (editing to fix the grammatical mistakes and/or to add to what was previously said are not an issue though)

I simply took a screenshot of your comment, just so if you ever happened to edit things out, OP would know what your original comment was.

I don't know you, you're practically a stranger. I was just being careful because I see so many people editing things out when they are called out shrugs

i suggest you go fuck yourself.

Not tonight, as much as I love myself, I have a headache tonight and that will have to wait.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (6 children)

tldr

[–]Bootsinmyshoes30 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

TS;WR (too short, won't read)

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

But you did read it , its why you came up with this reply. You are arent that big of a light are ya love.

[–]Bootsinmyshoes30 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

Aw what was that? I don't speak bullsh*t. TS;WR (too short, won't read) was an ironic and satirical remark I used to say the opposite of your TL;DR (too long, didn't read) to make you understand how foolish you are for having a shorter attention span than a goldfish and not being able to read anything more than two sentences. Unfortunately, you are incapable of detecting sarcasm so it went completely over your head.

Not the sharpest tool in the shed now, are you~

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Oh I am capable. I just couldn't be arsed. You need work on that sarcasm, when you have i might consider reading something of yours that's longer than a paragraph.

[–]Bootsinmyshoes30 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

My level of sarcasm depends on your level of stupidity. I figured TS;WR which is kindergarten level of sarcasm compared to the other sarcastic remarks was suitable for your level of stupidity. However, you were still incapable of detecting that, so if anyone needs some working to do, it's you.

I couldn't be arsed

This is just one of your issues. My response appears long due to its very detailed nature. You wrote too much nonsense in just a few sentences that it required a really detailed response to unf*ck everything. And since you can't be bothered to read anything longer than a paragraph, you are not worth my time either.

But before I go, here let me wipe that bulls-it from your mouth. wipes

[–]littlerbear 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

There's the 'asshole' again. You're here to abuse women. We get it.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

also I forgot to add that this might be another reason for the words which i found out earlier https://www.reddit.com/r/copypasta/comments/fhb8o9/list_of_confirmed_demonetization_words_on_youtube/

[–]just_lesbian_things 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Every time they say dna they mean fertile sperm.

He. Don't indulge in his delusions. This is why he won't say sperm when he means sperm.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

[–]just_lesbian_things 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

anybody

committed

focus

inches

His videos probably get demonetized right out of the gate like most gay YouTubers anyway.

[–]littlerbear 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Asshole - such nice langauge.

Cross-sex hormones have a way of knocking out a man's sperm. Go figure. Amazing how those pesky rules that apply to other people keep applying even to the genderspeshul.

Senor White was, more than likely, a perfectly fertile male until he started taking cross-sex hormones. Not informed? I find that hard to believe. Also, Senor White has a google machine, which I presume he knows how to use. It's quite possible to google side-effects of drugs one will be taking, presumably, for life. Or did the estrogen make Blair too lady-brained for him to remember to do that? Uwu.

Terminology? Saying he doesn't have DNA anymore? Again - there's the google machine. Or paying attention in biology class. But I guess if one is gender-speshul enough, the rules aren't supposed to apply to their glittery self. Sperm require testosterone to remain healthy and motile. Duh. And, if he means sperm, why not just say that?

You're all for 'shitting in gender woo' but you're making excuses for a man making ignorant, incorrect statements and referring to that man as 'she'. Sounds a bit hypocritical.

My parents had me when they were 45 and 47. My sister adopted her kids when she was 40. What are you talking about?

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Amazing how some people kids might not know that and doctors should inform them of that. Amazing that people might be a bit upset about that. Go figure...

White was a kid when he started transitioning. You find it hard to believe that kids aren't that informed? Really? Because not too long ago there was a study done that a staggering amount of women don't even know what a cervix is. I also have had a lot of medical issues and doctors sure as shit dont always give you the full story of what it is they are giving you.

If you have been paying any attention a lot of these "transkids" constantly are wrong about medical facts. They are being misinformed and lies spread in the cult. It is just a big of an issue as women rights, both reasons why became actively involved in this fight.

If my empathy sounds hypocritical to you than its you that got issues not me.

[–]forwardback 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Promoting the fallacy that words don't matter makes you part of of the problem. Are you also a science denier? Bjkkiuhh cfgyggf bbghihb nvdderdfbk njhgfsgi bhg hh jiiu kkji. (Is that the future of human communication you envision? Entire documents of random keystrokes? It's not mine, and I WILL fight you fight you over having clear and common language!)

I posses the capability to understand if someone got a mental illness that makes them upset about their sex organs that they might not like saying ovaries or sperm or any shit involving sex organs in their own videos.

As a scientist, I speak science, Not mental illness.

If you think it is MY responsibility to "intuitively know" or guess at someone's meaning, HAHAHAHAHAA, I haven't the interest, time, or obligation to do so. In fact, I submit, as an Influencer, the accountability for precise language falls upon BW. If he/she/they/mnopqrst desires to be heard or taken seriously, then, BW better get the terminology correct!

And, should you live so long as to understand the impact of ageism! You'll be shocked, m'dear! Hint: you've been lied to that the young know everything, or are the only capable persons in society. Hobbling my old bones out of here. /s. Could probably physically best you IRL. Not a joke; I am genetically gifted plus have a lifetime of independence and adaptation. And I WILL mention the proponderance of my peers who are raising their grandchildren due to meth-addicted or just incapable, parents.

Edit. Not spewing vitriol at you, though I realize you may perceive it as such. IRL, I am very blunt in my language. I don't hate, just get very frustrated with counterproductive beliefs and approaches. shrug and smile. Please, do consider points presented. I fear you are arguing against your own best interests.

Edit2. What is wrong with deletions or especially edits? Were you taught your original response was the one and only to which you must cling? Many people find nuances and details in their own considerations which may be beneficial to share. Or, in retrospection, someone may decide their comments to be inappropriate. Do you fault people for self awareness? I find "but you edit or delete" complaints nonsensical, especially as some are on mobile rather than desktop. (Bigot? LOL. Joking)

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

As a human i speak human. I am all for right words and science but when a kid is talking about something painful its not the time and place to shit on it to prove how gender critical you all are.

It's not your responsibility to guess what other people are saying. However if you are a scientist you should have developed some critical thinking and with that its quite hard to not understand what Blair was talking about. You have to be completely obtuse or just out for a pound of flesh to misinterpret it.

I'm 43 my dear, i understand wtf ageism is. Saying you want kids in your late twenties or early thirties is not it. Try again.

You are not being blunt you are being belittling because you are incapable of understanding where i'm coming from. I get that that happens, in fact it happens a lot. You are not spewing vitriol at me but you call me a science denier, part of the problem and make more assumptions. Your might want to look up what vitriol means.

Your second edit you should look at the comment i replied to. You know, the one that made a screenshot of my comment before that and accused me of deleing or editing it later . the one with the crazy accusations which i am sure continued in that persons gigantic rant which i havent bothered to read because i'm 100% sure its full of more insults and crazy ranting.

[–]forwardback 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

You are not being blunt you are being belittling because you are incapable of understanding where i'm coming from.

Then, perhaps you might have clarified better your position and its advantages? How courteous of you to define my capabilities for me.

I get that that happens, in fact it happens a lot. You are not spewing vitriol at me but you call me a science denier, part of the problem and make more assumptions.

No. I asked : "Are you also a science denier?"

Your might want to look up what vitriol means.

I did look it up just now to verify my usage of the word vitriol; from Cambridge dictionary:

violent hate and anger expressed through severe criticism:

So many people on social media assume severe criticism to be "hate speech" nowadays, I did not wish to presume whether or not you were one of those persons. Geez, can't even try to be nice to some people by naming one's own frustrations.

Since I don't speak human I'll make note to not engage with you in the future. Peace out.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not engage with me? Awesome thanks!

[–]SharpTomorrow 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh come on don't be an asshole. Blair is upset they can never have a child of their own. It's a process everyone goes through when they find out they are infertile. They are venting and talking how they as a couple dealt with it and are now talking about adopting. Blair was not informed that blockers and hormones makes you sterile.

LOL, forgot the /S somewhere? 2 guys fucking each others can't make babies.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

no shit sherlock

[–]kwallio 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Oh the hilarity. I just read the post on s/therearetwogenders about the ftm who didn't realize testosterone would cause clitorol growth. Do transgenders really have NO idea about the consequences of taking cross sex hormones? Hormones cause a wide variety of changes not just cosmetic ones.

[–]lefterfield 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm not sure if it's because the doctors are afraid to tell them, or the cult blatantly lies about the side-effects. Maybe a combination of both. But yes, from what I've seen they have a dangerous lack of knowledge of how hormones work.

[–]FlippyKing 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That kind of pulls the rug out from under any "informed consent" going on in any of this.

[–]Wandering_Idiot 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Don't be obtuse. Blair is obviously talking about viable sperm when they are taking about DNA not the DNA in all body cells.

[–]Shesstealthy 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I kinda feel like Blaire just didn't want to say 'sperm' based on watching the vid. Which is weird since Blaire doesn't deny being male but otoh does tend to use euphemisms for genitals etc so I think this was the same.

Obviouslu Blaire has DNA Blaire just doesn't have the delivery system for using his DNA to create a child any more. He has the insrminator but it shoots blanks so to speak.

I thought it was oddly worded but I don't think Blaire truly believes they could commit a crime and leave no DNA evidence.

[–]gencritcurious 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

This is nitpicking and honestly i dont see the purpose of this post. its clear that blaire is talking about sperm and not literal dna, and being a surrogate mother is literally a job that some women have. Surrogacy is not one of the cases where pregnancy is forced onto women. imo blaire isnt the person that gc community should be attacking, as she isnt exactly a champion of crazy tra rhetoric like contrapoints or anything. I quite like her content (yes im going to use the pronoun her because she passes) and the idea that needing a biological mother to parent a child is toxic

[–]lefterfield 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

and being a surrogate mother is literally a job that some women have. Surrogacy is not one of the cases where pregnancy is forced onto women.

Prostitution is also a "job" some women have. Fuck off with this bullshit. Surrogacy is dangerous to women and primarily preys on poor and desperate women. Wealthy couples, including wealthy gay men, take advantage of this. It is not a job to sell the use of your body to someone else.

[–]Bootsinmyshoes30 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Very well said, thank you!

[–]Bootsinmyshoes30 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

as she isnt exactly a champion of crazy tra rhetoric

He*

I quite like her content (yes im going to use the pronoun her because she passes)

Just because he* "passes" doesn't mean he becomes a woman for it. The pronouns she and her refer to a biological woman. A biological man that "passes as a woman", is still a biological man, and can not be referred to as "she" and "her".

What's with you? GCs in the GC sub of reddit weren't like you "champions of crazy tra rhetoric" pretending to know what you're taking about when you don't and saying things like "he passes so he's a woman and can be called she/her".

Also, there are issues with surrogacy. But I'm not good at explaining and am just going to leave it to u/MarkTwainiac to explain to you, if she ever does

[–]CosmicFarmPrisoner 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Hey, if gender == sex, then why not DNA == gametes? /s

Anyway, here is yet another case of "trannies reproduce via abuse."

[–]Nosce_te_ipsum 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Since this thread has mostly become an argument about pronoun usage, I would like to put in my two cents:

When I started to become skeptical of the TRA movement, I had this dilemma regarding Miranda Yardley: he’s a man, but I think he is a good, respectable person. So what do I do in terms of pronouns? I went through a period of time when I decided to call the “respectable” trans people their preferred pronouns, because why be an asshole, right? But then I realized that I am, basically, determining who is worthy of having their preferences respected, and who is not. I become some bizarre pronoun judge. Why am I using female pronouns for Yardley, but not for Yaniv? Because Yaniv is a piece of shit and Yardley isn’t? What is the line a trans identified individual must not cross, in order for me to continue using their preferred pronouns? Things become muddy and they start loosing consistency.

The people in here (and other GC spaces) might choose to utilize pronouns based on biological sex, even for the "good" trans people, not because they are meanies who think every trans identified person is a rapist and a creep, but for the sake of consistency (and, of course, accuracy).

The only exception to this rule (for me), is the scenario in which a trans individual “passes” as their desired sex, and those around do not know of their actual identity. "Outing" someone in that situation would be quite an asshole thing to do. But that scenario is incredibly rare, and chances are that, if the person actually passes well, you won’t know they are trans either.