I remember when SB132 (the bill that allows any male inmate to self-identify as a woman and be transferred to women’s state prisons) was being passed in California, the original text of the bill did not mention female inmates whatsoever. There was simply no consideration for the safety of female inmates. After I contacted my representatives complaining about the risk the bill poses to female inmates, the bill was revised with a quick line thrown in about trans men also facing assault in prisons. There were no statistics about trans men, in contrast to several statistics cited from a study about trans women in prisons. I genuinely have sympathy for males experiencing violence in prisons, including trans women, gay men, and straight men, but I do not think opening up the women’s prisons to them with no safeguarding measures is the solution. But where is the sympathy for women? My initial takeaway was that women’s welfare is simply not deemed as important as men’s, even when those men “identify” as women.
Today I saw a post on Facebook written by a gay guy. I don’t know him that well, but he has always seemed decent enough. He was complaining that blood donation is discriminatory against gay and bisexual men, because men who have had sex with men (MSM) within the past 12 months are barred from donating. He said that he “lied about it” when donating blood, because it is a “prejudiced” question anyway. In a follow-up questionnaire, he admitted that he had sex with a man within the past year, so he was prevented from donating blood. He admitted that he did not need the money from blood donations, but he “just wanted to help”. He also expressed concern that some people who want to donate might really need the money for rent, food, etc. Several people commented on his post in support of him and reiterating that the blood donation eligibility is “wrong” and “discriminatory”. Nobody once mentioned the patients who will receive the blood donations. Where is the sympathy for those patients and their potential risk of HIV? I understand that there are some aspects of the blood donor eligibility that could be improved (possibly regarding MSM) and that it can feel hurtful to be turned away. But surely the patients’ needs matter the most here, and blood donation is supposed to be an altruistic act. Additionally, the financial need of some blood donors should not imply dropping the standards for donation, because (again) the patients’ needs should be the most important here.
What do you think? What causes such an appallingly low amount of sympathy/empathy for certain groups? Are there certain protected categories (such as sex and medical condition) that simply receive less consideration relative to others in the current climate? Are people too scared to say anything that could be deemed "phobic", so they simply ignore these massively selfish, dangerous claims?
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