The joke that is r/ActualLesbians

submitted by FuckTheHypocrites from self.GenderCritical

By now many of you have heard of the sub actuallesbians, which ironically is populated with anything but real lesbians. Instead, if you look at their front page at any given time, it is populated with anime filled weirdness. And if you look at who posts those, you find out swiftly its all mtf trans people. Kinda infuriating. On a side note...why are all MtF TiMs into anime crap? Its like the incels of the internet all decided one day to up their perversion and misogyny game.

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[–]censorshipment 17 insightful - 11 fun17 insightful - 10 fun18 insightful - 11 fun -  (3 children)

It's a clusterfuck. When I joined Reddit in Feb 2019... I specifically searched for subs for black women, lesbians and feminists. Imagine my surprise when I saw that lesbian and feminist subs were dominated by libfems. I came from a forum called The L Chat (where one forum mod blocked over 200 IP addresses that I used since 2014 lol). I was expecting women in women-centric subs to be spewing "hatred" towards men/"TIMs". On my 2nd day as a member of actuallesbians, I was permanently banned... not for "transphobia" ... but for "misandry". This has been the main reason mods ban me, and I am flabbergasted. The biggest issue we face as women is misogyny. Yet we can't unapologetically rant about it unless it's in a civil tone. Dafuq! It's Reddit where men literally call girls misogynistic slurs... but I can't say women should never date men without people being outraged, not even on lesbian subs. Lmao I'm used to talking to goldstar lesbians who have never had dick inside of them vaginally, anally, nor orally.

I see a dick like I see a dirty drug needle... it's contaminated and shouldn't be inserted into the female body. But apparently, this is a hateful thing to say. 🙄

[–]FuckTheHypocrites[S] 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Interesting how they implicitly call themselves out- "Misandry" as in relating to the hatred of MEN. Cause, ya know..thats what they are lol.

[–]our_team_is_winning 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I see a dick like I see a dirty drug needle... it's contaminated and shouldn't be inserted into the female body.

I think I want to make that my email sign-off!

Male sexual fetish is just everywhere, especially (formerly) women-only spaces, and other women are enabling it. Men have actually gotten women to fight other women on behalf of men's AGP sexual fetish. That is messed up.

[–]FuckTheHypocrites[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, we evil terfs call those women "handmaidens". You can easily imagine why.

[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

why are all MtF TiMs into anime crap? Its like the incels of the internet all decided one day to up their perversion and misogyny game.

There's a whole anime porn genre that's basically trans women fucking lesbians. I'm sure that plays no small part in their delusions of lesbians liking dick.

[–]pancakewaffle 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

"Why are all MtF TiMs into anime?"

I don't know about all but you could partially link it to the idea that since anime (and in turn drawing) is such an accessible medium, people who seek validation and want to live out fantasies they can't physically have, would flock to something like anime where they can indulge and even create their own aspect of it. This touches on so many parts of philosophy and psychology though and I don't want to detract from your main post haha.

[–]FuckTheHypocrites[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

No, I think it has to do actually with misogyny. In the old days, anime was good wholesome storytelling. Now it is largely incel-driven sexual misogyny. It's all weird, pedophilic cutesy shit. And the types of anime they view portray women in this hypersexualized pedophilic way, so its no surprise many of them (like the reddit mods) start employing to slightly pedophilic, rapey sexist tropes. Like mod drewiepoodle, trying to get a 13 year old TIM to his house to shoot him up with "girl juice" ie estrogen. They literally go from anime to trans, like a straight line. You can even see it in their post/comment progression.

[–]TheOnyxGoddess 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Always been there either through costumes or characterisations, but if they had a good story, they normally didn't focus too much on the sex sells:

  • Sailor Moon (tiny skirts, and there is a 14 year old girl who had a relationship with an adult male who is a demon)

  • Gurren Lagaan: Look up "Yoko Littner", she's 14.

  • Tokyo Mew Mew (Mint has a really short mini dress)

  • Higurashi no naku koro ni: One of the special episodes features a scene where one of the highschool aged characters are naked on the table with sushi all over her body (nyotaimori), the context was everyone was discussing penalties to losing an innocent game I think and they were imagining.

  • Clannad visual novel game (love interest looks like a little kid and acts like a little kid, she's older than the protagonist and is repeating her final year in highschool)

  • Ore no Imōto ga Konna ni Kawaii Wake ga Nai light novel series (2008): Older brother loves little sister

I watched the anime adaptation of some of these and read the manga originals or adaptation. I remember they were very popular or popular enough to recieve an anime adaptation and to be exported to English speaking countries. It probably increased these days, it's getting harder to earn more as a mangaka (manga author) or an animator. Almost all of the time, it's fanservice. I read somewhere that the "little sister" trope is popular because majority of Japanese males are only-child and they like the whole "being dependable" thing. Also Japanese culture as a whole is really misogynistic and also does not foster socialisation that well (I think mainly in the city areas, I'm not so sure about the rural areas) so many people, from child to adult don't really socialise and feel confident about approaching another person because they spend all of their time studying. I could be wrong though, it's based from what I read up.

Your post does make me question if there's a link between trans people and gsming (specifically, the Sonic series), but really it boils down to them enjoying an attractive accessible medium. Manga style is attractive compared to other styles because of the level of semi-realism a person is often drawn in that format, comlared to American cartoon styles (e.g. Simpsons) and have softer lines and colouration compared to American comics (e.g. DC). The style looks easier to draw compared to American comics. That's my theory though. Part of it is why I like manga drawings over American style comic drawings.

[–]bolla_top 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

There was a post in girlsurvivalguide yesterday by a TIM asking for tips relating to things he didn't learn as a child due to being raised as a boy. I glanced at his post history and not surprisingly, almost all anime, anime porn, and gaming. There was one post though that was hilarious. He posted in a sex toy subreddit about how he "likes to keep a dildo around to suck on when he feels anxious" or words to that effect. Yeah, that's perfectly normal. What a weirdo.

[–]TheOnyxGoddess 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just read your comment and I'm now wondering if he sucks it like a pacifier, or does he tried to please it because it's so creepy and ridiculous. Does he also lick cream off his fingers to imagine he's licking sperm off his fingers whenever he's told he can't enter a woman's only space? (probably, he's that deranged by the sound of it). If it's the first, that's friggin disturbing. I'm not surprised if he does age-play. Don't let any trans-people near your children people.

[–]absoluteblasphemy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Seems to me the closest half of these boys have ever gotten to a real woman is their anime waifus. Which goes a long way to explaining why they’re like that.

[–]bluetinfoilhat 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes the fact they aren't self aware enough to stop with the anime avatars is interesting. They are into anime because a lot of anime presents women in infantilizing, over sexualized, cutsey, and pedo-ish ways. Also a lot of autistic people like anime(a subtype of anime) because it is easier to pick up social cues and it is a way of escapism.