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[–][deleted] 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Her love for me is conditional. Why in the hell am I staying with her if her love is conditional. Is this normal? I grew up in a love is conditional house and church. I’m sick of it and want the conditional love to end.

lol

All love is conditional. Especially his love for his wife which seems to be conditional on her accepting everything he wants to do with no regards for her own wants.

[–]Cable 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why would unconditional love ever be considered a good thing? Like yeah if you are a serial killer or a pedo I'm going to walk, duh. I'm in a relationship not a cult.

[–]supersmokio6420 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Her love for me is conditional. Why in the hell am I staying with her if her love is conditional. Is this normal? I grew up in a love is conditional house and church. I’m sick of it and want the conditional love to end.

Leave her then! Sounds like it would be doing you both a favour.

[–]lefterfield 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

For sure. And the only truly unconditional love is the kind you get from a dog. Any human person has a finite amount of shit they're willing to tolerate. Abuse victims may tolerate abuse, but I wouldn't say they do so out of "love."

[–]limeindecoconut 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He says this started off with him sneaking around in his wife's pajamas. I would loooooove to see her side of things.

[–]TeaAndCigarettes 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Holy god damn shit, what a mindfuck. The entire basis and foundation on which their relationship was built is literally being fucking destroyed and this shitbag has the audacity to come out with "I ThOuGhT YouR LoVE wAs UnConDiTiOnAl." Like the manipulative fuck that he is, implying that she should have utterly NO SAY OR AUTONOMY in what she wants in her own goddamn relationship.

Man this shit lights me up.

[–]GConly 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That poor woman.