I don't get acts of kindness and being thankful for them.

submitted by Mazurro from self.Incels

Like really, I am very helpful person and I don't like when others struggle, I feel uncomfortable with that. I am not on the level where I look for occasions to help, but when someone needs help, I will certainly give it.

What I don't get, is why some people thank later because of that, for the smallest shit, knowing that I am social retard and that they hate me / ignore me anyway.

Like, I got used to being used for years of being completely no self aware, people spoke shit about me and then expected help, nowadays they just ignore me and don't acknowledge my existance - I can help from time to time if they need some explanation or to borrow some shit, after all I might need something later (definitely way smaller than what they need, as an incel I can't EXPECT acts of decency).

But why do foids needs to write 'thanks for borrowing me X during lab' in like ,4 hours after lab, where all I did was to pass my tool for like, 30 seconds? It's not like this foid will talk to me, not like she will even reply to my answer to the thanks. I don't get why they do it, it feels as if they were doing this to get some moral high ground or i don't know. Like, i just passed you fucking shit for 30s, is this some weird shit among normies that people borrow themselves shit? Does this really require saying thanks in this weird formal way on message, not like just saying "thanks" while giving it back?

It might be my schizo shit speaking, but I don't get it. It's not the first time lately when someone starts talking to me for literally no reason other than getting moral high ground or some weird superiority over me. Or maybe I am already complete autist.

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[–]scumyaal 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

You're fucking Chad in disguise bro these bitchezz want you and you're just ignoring them

[–]Mazurro[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I doubt that. I mean, I don't understand anything at this point, but I wouldn't say they are interested in anything, they are disgusted

[–]David_Allen_Cope1 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This very well might be the case. There are no shortage of dudes in the incel community that regularly talk their way out of pussy through sheer autism and social ineptitude. nb4 cope.

[–]Mazurro[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Anyway I can't fight my mentality

[–]yabbit 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Your posts are becoming incoherent brocel

[–]Mazurro[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I know it, I am on constant brain fog now and I feel like I am getting stupider all the time

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

DEWIT!

[–]scumyaal 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Maybe you're losing it, brocel. It's just courtesy to thank someone for doing them a favour. If anything, this is actually brutal potent suifuel as she neglected to tell you to your subhuman face.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

I know, but it's normal to say it directly after imo, it's weird when it's done hours later, maybe I am fucking autist, but I don't get it

[–]scumyaal 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

You're doing exactly what I would do in a situation like this; do not dwell on it brocel, over-analysing the situation is a waste of time and can even cause unwarranted stress.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I know that, but lately a lot of absolutely illogical stuff happens - small, minor and absolutely irrelevant situations, which my mind doesn't leave without overthinking. My sanity is almost drained completely and I know nothing at this point.

[–]scumyaal 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Hmmm, what kind of situations?

[–]Mazurro[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

There was one time where I couldn't connect to a meeting on class, multiple people have written it on messenger at the same time, I have written it like 1 minute after them, one foid added me to the meeting and I saw that none of the previous people were added.

There was one time when I was standing in the bus stop going back from uni to home (I am always leaving uni first and I am like 2 minutes ahead before everyone else, since I don't have any friends there with whom I talk) and another foid had approached to ask me about stuff which was related to the upcoming exam, however, answers to questions she asked were already known, explained and generally I don't think that asking them was needed by her - so I was thinking for a long time why she asked me about this, what was the point.

Also, there is one who always upvotes anything what I write in chat about plan organisation (they can't make decisions anytime, or to discuss anything), whenever I write sth she likes it almost instantly, but she doesn't like other posts, which is either mocking me ironically for what I write or idk.

Those are probably just made up scenarios in my mind but, well, I'm going insane.

[–]scumyaal 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

sniff sniff smells like Chad to me! Go ask one of those bitches out.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

This can only result in rejection and it will make me overthink even more. I won't do that

[–]asterias 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Then she will stop bothering you in order to be useful to her. Maybe try something like "I'm a bit tired, why don't we go and have some coffee at the nearby cafeteria so we can discuss?". If the foid says something like "I don't have time" or "I have a boyfriend", then you say "OK" and just leave.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, it's really high IQ approach - to get peace by doing that, but it might lead to consequences sadly. If I could do it like that, I surely would.

[–]greybeard 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But why do foids needs to write 'thanks for borrowing me X during lab' in like ,4 hours after lab

Don't overthink stuff like this bro, our social dances are retarded like many animals, most people just get them though and have no problems with it

[–]takavoid513 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If you attempt to engage in dialoge with her and she talks to you like she wants to brush you off, then you know she wants nothing to do with you. It sounds like she was thanking you in an underhand way because she may have felt bad that she did not want to be seen talking to an incel type person, because to these bitches public image is everything. You are correct to think in that way, as foids are always deceptive.

[–]Mazurro[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I was thinking, but I thought more like "Why is she thanking me, while none actually talks with me and treats me like that, what is the reason of messaging me, it's beyond fake"