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Im thinking of seeing a therapist or something. Anyone have any opinions on this?
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[–]Vortex 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun - 12 months ago (0 children)
Sure, you should go to therapist. There are a lot of examples of successful therapy for incels and highly depressed guys. So successful, that they didn't even came back to tell us about this success.
[–]yabbit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun - 12 months ago (0 children)
Just go on incelexit for a preview of how helpful "mental health professionals" are. You're better off venting here than shelling out hundreds for a dumb bitch to tell you how "toxic" and "problematic" your viewpoints are. If you want a free therapy session from me I'll do it for bitcoin.
[–]takavoid513 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun - 12 months ago (0 children)
No don't bother, been there done that. If you have other mental health issues aside from that relating to incels or you get to go to it for free or have the time, then go ahead. A Therapist wont advise your way to pussy.
[–]scumyaal 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 12 months ago (2 children)
Get a female therapist; they are most likely to understand your struggles.
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[–]scumyaal 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun - 12 months ago (0 children)
jfl
[–]Mazurro 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - 12 months ago (0 children)
Psychologist and therapy - no.
Psychiatrist and meds - sure as fuck
[–]EternalSunset 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 12 months ago* (0 children)
Theraphy can work on some limited cases, but it depends a lot on the factors involved. There is A LOT of quackery out there in regards to therapy (psychoanalysis, gestalt therapy, theta healing, scientology, etc...) and it must be avoided at all costs. Only Cognitive-Behavioural Theraphy has show any actual scientific evidence of positive effects, and only for a few limited conditions (depression disorders, anxiety disorders, PTSD, bipolar disorders and borderline personality disorder, if I remember correctly). I remember someone actually sharing a scientific paper around here claiming that in 100% of all cases, men who seek therapy to treat love-shyness do not gain positive results. Research about "Evidence-Based Theraphy" to learn more about the types of therapy that have been proven to work and clarify with the therapist which methodology he or she uses before you agree to a session.
[–]AnimeRespecter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 12 months ago (3 children)
have you still not found a way back to r9k? just use a Vpn or a new email.
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[–]AnimeRespecter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 12 months ago (1 child)
as in a new google account
[–]asterias 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 12 months ago (3 children)
The average therapist will probably give you some typical "thanks doc I'm cured" advice not justified by the fees. If you have to pay for it, why not spend the money on books and hobbies?
[–]asterias 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - 12 months ago (1 child)
Visiting a therapist always has the risk of listening to cliches. If you can afford it though, you can always try it just to give it a try and see if something happens.
Is there something specific that bothers you and you want to talk about?
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