RantI’m disgusted with r/ActualYuri

submitted by bethlehemcrane from self.LGBDropTheT

I’m just a simple lesbian, trying to find someplace safe from the godawful “”transbian”” porn. I had a look through r/ActualYuri and honestly they may as well just change it to r/futanaritrannyporn because that’s what it fucking is. Maybe 1/5 are actual lesbians, while 4/5 are just fucking penises fucking everywhere. God it makes me so fucking sick.

I just need a safe place to see only gay shit, not this homophobic mockery of lesbianism. It’s just hetero porn but the guy has boobs. If I fucking wanted to see PiV breeding cum inflation kink I’d go on PornHub.

I’m heated, furious, 100% turned off and just fucking done.

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[–]shveya 43 insightful - 5 fun43 insightful - 4 fun44 insightful - 5 fun -  (8 children)

That's how I feel about the men who post their dick pics in r/dykesgonewild. They always get downvoted to hell, but that doesn't stop them from intruding and sticking their smegma sticks into places where they know they aren't wanted. There isn't even a warning flair for male genitalia.

[–][deleted] 31 insightful - 3 fun31 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

thank god they get downvoted. still fucking sucks that they can keep on posting.

[–]shveya 33 insightful - 3 fun33 insightful - 2 fun34 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

I'm very glad that almost everyone downvotes them too. They should be banned from the sub for sexual harassment, but the mods are probably either men, or spineless.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Reading the JustNo subs on Reddit has really opened my eyes to just how much women are socialised to be compliant and not push back on anything. If they can't push back against other women, how are they ever going to resist trans/male bullies.

[–]shveya 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's a good point, I personally need to remember that when I get angry over handmaidenism.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Honestly I would imagine that the only reason the downvotes outweigh the upvotes from the transbians is because there are also straight men downvoting.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

:(

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 7 insightful - 12 fun7 insightful - 11 fun8 insightful - 12 fun -  (1 child)

smegma sticks

🤣

[–]shveya 4 insightful - 6 fun4 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

:-D

[–][deleted] 36 insightful - 5 fun36 insightful - 4 fun37 insightful - 5 fun -  (17 children)

not surprised tbh "transbians" are in love with anime. a lot of them "discovered" they were trans reading yuri (#ItsAFetish). There definitely is a need to create a space where people can post real lesbians without having to worry about males posting their own fetishes in our spaces. I've honestly been thinking of creating a website where lesbians and gay men can do just that. gatekeeping is a must at this point.

[–]bethlehemcrane[S] 18 insightful - 8 fun18 insightful - 7 fun19 insightful - 8 fun -  (11 children)

If you do, please link it to me. I’ve stumbled upon r/ClassicYuri, which has a no penises rule! It’s so wonderful, I don’t even care about all the straight men that are on that sub that probably made that happen.

It is hilarious to look into the comments on the new mod ruling, all the whiny “trans-women-are-women” men are being downvoted straight (no pun intended) to hell with their accusations of transphobia and whimpering about bigotry.

“Uuuh, why can’t I just have a safe space to pretend all lesbians want my shrivelled girl-cock????? I need to be protected from the fact that porn might not be real life!!”

Lol.

[–][deleted] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

good to know that there are pockets on Reddit like that. also sad that the only reason it's been kept penis-free is because straight men don't want to see it and not because real lesbians want a space of their own. :/

i'll for sure keep everyone posted about a LGB website once i get the logistics down and figure out how i want to architecture it.

[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

The TRAs were doing so well with silencing people until they came for straight men's porn...

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

and not because real lesbians want a space of their own. :/

Those are banned.

[–]8bitgay 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Checked the sub. Love the description

A subreddit featuring girls without penises who love each other, in anime, manga, and related artforms.

Maybe it works because it only got 1 mod. I think a big problem in some gay subs is that they started putting random people as mods, and some of these new mods are pro TQ.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

AGB sub only has one mod who is barely there, so is a self-regulating community. A lot of people there are worried that with enough TQ brigading causing problems it'll be labeled a problem sub by admins and so they will install mods to "fix" the problem. Hope it never comes to that, but that's what is being attempted day after day.

[–]reluctant_commenter 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I don't know what sort of content people are into, but I'd be interested.

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

it's still something just in my head. with every major website catering to the genderists, there really is a need to make an alt space where none of that genderwoowoo shit is tolerated.

[–]insta 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

gatekeeping is a must at this point.

"Gatekeeping" is simply a gaslighting tool used by your enemies.

Your gatekeeping is always gatekeeping, but when they do the same thing it's completely different. It's nothing but a stupid word designed to handwave you away.

[–]DifferentAirGC 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If you make this site, I'd like an invite

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

for sure!

[–]8bitgay 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

I'm glad that when it comes to gay porn manga/art, transmen are almost nowhere to be seen. They might force themselves into our communities but at least they haven't been able to force gay artists to draw transmen (so far).

Awful to know the situation is not the same for you girls. It seems like the name of some "lesbian" subs are unfortunately ironic.

[–][deleted] 28 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 3 fun29 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

i saw some of that pressure on twitter. transmen are trying to copy transwomen, but the idiots don't realize they don't have institutional power like transwomen have (especially on reddit).

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

My lesbian friend was complaining to me that around 10-15 years ago in lesbian ("yuri") genre often started appearing futanari, when at first it is lesbian sex, but then one of them near the end grows up a penis with some kind of magic and it ends up with PiV, so lesbian sex was only "a warm up". And she was complaining that it was way too often and still considered as "lesbian", while when it is transwoman it was considered different genre (unles it is "gender bender", when man is transformed into woman, they start having lesbian sex and then he transforms back into man "to finish") about "cross-dressing". And even if it is completely lesbian sex, there often is strapon or dildo.

In general it looks like a lot of the times women there are bisexual (or even straight) and everything ends with penis.

I think I know much more stuff about lesbians than about gays because of her complains, lol. I am not against it, thought, and she need someone to cry about.

I have strong feeling that "lesbian woman growing dick during lesbian sex" and "man transformed temporary into woman to be lesbian" is big reason in huge amount of transitions of transwomen. In transmen who are attacking AskGayBros it is majority who are fans of gay porn and yaoi manga. I can imagine it is the same with "transbians" (and in general with transwomen).

[–]bethlehemcrane[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Your friend is right, it’s a problem. You can tell because it’s so deeply ingrained into our society to just… violate women’s spaces.

For example, look at any lesbian artwork. There are a few nasty hallmarks of straight-man-fetishizing-lesbians that you can see right off the bat.

1.) One or both is looking at the viewer, despite being intimate with the other girl.

2.) Creepy man standing in the background jerking off

3.) Both are carbon copies of the other, no individuality and no personality.

4.) MaGiC pEnIs LoLz 🤣 🤣 so clever

5.) Scissoring

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Scissoring

Hey now, nothing wrong with a good clitoral pounding sesh

[–]ColoredTwice 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Scissoring how it shown in porn is pretty inconvinient. There much better ways of tribbing.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Literally yesterday she was complaining to me that in most movies, games or TV series about lesbians there penises involved - either one of them is bisexual and pregnant (the Last of Us 2), or one of them is raped (and often pregnant too), or have sex with man because they want kids, or forcibely pushed into straight marriage by parents or society, almost always one of lesbians dies near the end of movie. She even said that there are a bunch of movies where "they wanted kids and one of them went sleeping with a man to get pregnant" - sex with man is shown as passionate one, and only very few movies showing that she is not enjoying it. Seems like lesbians who are lesbians are even more rare in movies than gay men (while "lesbians" may be more often, but seems it is just for male gaze). And seems all their stories are always sad.

In anime or manga I can imagine there being everything just wrong, because whole genre seems to be made by perverted men for perverted teen boys.

For example, look at any lesbian artwork.

I don't really think I can appreciate it or understand what is wrong there anyways.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

This annoys me sooooo much.

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

It's annoying that a woman cannot seem to exist romantically and sexually with another woman without men being involved in some way (or male bodies now with the twoon nonsense). It's rare to find a show or movie with this (although some do exist), and even real life lesbians who exclusively date and sleep with women are by far, the smallest minority in the sexualities.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, in homophobic societies gay men are imprisoned or executed, but lesbian women are forced into marriages or PiV sex instead. Only in more free western societies lesbians can avoid this, but seems not for long anymore, as young lesbians are already under siege in "LGBT"-groups and social media.

[–]BigMommyMilkersYes, they're real 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The gay men have been, for the most part from what I've seen, incredibly resilient against the woke homophobia and standing their ground on body autonomy, I have definitely gained a new sense of respect for gay men.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To be honest lesbians I've saw - are resilient too, it is just that gay men are not erased by big platforms like Twitter and Reddit, while lesbians are.

[–]DifferentAirGC 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Is there a male equivalent of futanari? That is, the character looks male, but has a vagina and dick, or only a vagina.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 20 insightful - 5 fun20 insightful - 4 fun21 insightful - 5 fun -  (4 children)

And Yaoi is also not always real gay porn because sometimes you get this shit called "omegaverse" where the "bottom" literally has... a womb in his ass. Yes. That's right.

Even though I like feminine guys, yaoi isn't it. Because usually it's just sexist heterosexual relationships (Big strong man and tiny weak submissive woman) except one guy is "the woman." And I like fem guys on fem guys, there doesn't need to be a "strong man."

[–]reluctant_commenter 16 insightful - 5 fun16 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

"omegaverse" where the "bottom" literally has... a womb in his ass. Yes. That's right.

WHAT!!!!! That's what that is? I scrolled passed a fanfic with that the other day, I just assumed it was a kink but I didn't know it was something like that 😆

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It gets worse. Characters are split into 3 groups: Alpha, Beta, and Omega. Alphas are dominant and have penises (both males and females... lol) and can't get pregnant. They lead society but they're also sexually dominant.

Betas are in the middle ,they're like 3rd wheels, unimportant.

And Omegas are the "submissives". They cant impregnate anyone (even the males) and both males and females can get pregnant. They are considered short and tiny and they act like prey.

It's based of a butchered version of "alpha wolf" dynamics, but those were found not to even exist in the first place. It's sexist trash.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This is fucked up. Actually it's kind of funny. I laughed at having a womb in your ass. Who the hell comes up with this shit? I had a look through r/yaoi though and there is so much fetish stuff there. I thought they were just into yuri on ice and shit like that. Clearly I am so far off the mark.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hm, maybe that is why transmen are saying "ass is just like pussy" so often?

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I really, really do not understand anime, but I'm sorry this has interfered with your enjoyment of a hobby. More like defiled it.

I have noticed in several online spaces that there's an increased obsession with cartoon "women" with penises fucking each other and that's exactly what these weirdos' fantasy is for themselves. But if that's the case, then why can't they create their own spaces for that? Why not let that be it's own thing? Why pretend we're the same or that it's lesbian?

I feel like I'm witnessing the decline of civilization as all of the worst aspects of Internet escapism just meld into one another and turn peoples' brains to cum-obsessed mush, and I can't help but imagine that quarantine is accelerating this.

[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I remember when people got so pissed off when the mods got on board with "trans yuri is yuri". maybe they just downvote stuff now

[–]Cicerosolo 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Interesting fact, a paper I read stated that people with agp are vastly much more attracted to futanari porn and shemales whixh I think is fascinating

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 7 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

"Yuri" is a male name here, so nothing strange.

[–]SailorMoon2020 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Wait, a minute. Why are you going to r/actualyuri? That sub was literally created to be a trans yuri sub due to the backlash trans people were getting on r/yuri. Yes, r/classicyuri was created to go against the backlash of the backlash the MODS were getting for allowing trans to post on r/yuri.

[–]bethlehemcrane[S] 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Lol to be honest, I just saw it linked somewhere and clicked on it to find what seemed to be normal wlw poon, which I’m into as a wlw. So, I followed, and I never really looked deeply into it until now.

I’m not even into anime, I’m just that starved for gay content lol.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

oh my god...i didn't know that lmfao. welp, there is the problem OP!

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Funny that it's the "actual" subreddits that are always the "not" subreddits. Interesting branding. Which is why we need to found "actualgirldicklovers" to talk about nothing but love of pussy by those who have pussies.

[–]SailorMoon2020 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Rule #1: Post only the opposite of the sub reddit's name.

That could work actually.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Or we could be more ~inclusive~ by being inclusive of discussion of literally anything but girldick. Actual girldick discussion will be deemed targeted hate and bigotry as it is punching down on us vulnerable folk who weren't blessed with being born with girldicks. How can we feel stunning and brave when they are constantly reminding us of the girldicks we don't have and can't have and that less than 10% of us want.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This reminds me of a scene from King of the Hill.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The "True" subs, are what the "actual" subs sound like. But after The Purge they were either banned or privated.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

It's obvious all the "trans women" in that sub and r/AL think that's what they look like.

[–]MadLass 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wowza you weren't kidding. I at least expected to see more of TW/W but it was mostly straight up cocks cocks and more cocks. Lol. They sure love their anime because at least there they can really look like a woman from waist up.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I know 4-chan is fash, but you could go on 4chan's yuri. Just watch out for some paedo pictures. No futa crap anywhere in that board.

[–]FreakyVikiFree-speech gayboi 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you're not afraid to go on 4chan (nothing to be afraid of if you avoid certain boards), I think the Yuri board there is strictly females only.

[–]knmonp 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You can check /u/ on 4chan. It's a legit yuri board. If someone dares to post futanari or het they get banned. You can even read comments against MtF like in this thread https://boards.4chan.org/u/thread/3239359

[–]buhnahnuhbr3ad 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Kinda how I feel whenever I go through r/Yaoi. It doesn't appear much, but there were a few times where I've seen trans yaoi there :/ I just want to see natural men with dicks....