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[–]SerpensInferna 43 insightful - 2 fun43 insightful - 1 fun44 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Without fail, it's always "no one is forcing you to date trans" followed by several paragraphs of why you're transphobic if you don't. They are saying exactly what they mean and their bafflement as to why they are receiving such push back is willful ignorance at this point.

And the whole "surgically reconstructed vaginas are indistinguishable from real vaginas" is an infuriating load of bullshit that needs to be put into its grave. It makes me think all of these people are fucking virgins, or have never experienced a neo-vagina (barf) up close and personal and are just parroting what they read on the internet.

And every time some handmaiden posts about how no one is forcing anyone to take lady dick (barf), I really really wish someone would post the pages and pages of vile threats and unabashed vitriol directed at lesbians and feminists by the deranged Buffalo Bills of the world.

[–]chandra 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It makes me think all of these people are fucking virgins, or have never experienced a neo-vagina (barf) up close and personal and are just parroting what they read on the internet.

That's exactly it. On the LGBTQ Megathread on r/unpopularopinion I saw one of the frequent trans posters who is a self-described bisexual virgin minor insisting that a) a decent neovagina is indistinguishable from the real deal, and b) a vagina is (from embryo development) an inverted penis anyway so a neovagina is fundamentally no different to a real one, and cunnilingus is fundamentally no different to sucking dick. I wanted to ask how a virgin child can be so confident in lecturing adults about sexuality, but there's really no point arguing with these people, they'll never change their minds because they start from the conclusion that a trans woman is a literal woman in every sense that matters and then work backwards to justify it.

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I really really wish someone would post the pages and pages of vile threats and unabashed vitriol directed at lesbians and feminists by the deranged Buffalo Bills of the world.

I've seen a couple of accounts 'spamming' (not the right word but there you go) the following:

https://lesbian-rights-nz.org/shame-receipts/

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

surgically reconstructed vaginas

That could only be the vagina of a woman/girl who has been castrated (had her clitoris cut off and their labias stitched) which still happens in Muslim countries. Even to be a surgically REconstructed vagina, it gotta be a vagina from the beginning.

[–]Virginia_Plain 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

OK, so there is practically a multi-volume rulebook on things I am supposed to do to avoid triggering someone's dysphoria, but any misgivings I have about getting naked and physically intimate with someone need to be just pushed deep down? And I am the one with a victim complex?

[–]JulienMayfair 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This is because trans feelings are much more important than anyone else's feelings. It's as simple as that.

As long as a trans person's feeling are being validated, your feelings are of no concern.

I can't believe we ever got to this point, and I'm glad I'm a gay male in his 50s since there are pretty much no gay trans men my age. At least I have never been approached by one in my entire life.

[–]our_team_is_winning 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Here comes an outburst.

the complete invalidation of trans people, implying they aren't "real women/men"

They are NOT real women or men. They remain their biological sex. No matter what Franken-gender alterations are made, your sex does not change. The end.

It's like arguing with a little child who claims he's some imaginary cartoon character. A 4 year old telling me "I am TOO (fill in cartoon character's name)" is irritating, but he'll grow out of it and Oreos won't tweet out "Four Year Olds ARE dinosaurs" or some such LIE.

Anyone over 25 (ie your brain is fully developed) who holds his breath and pouts "men ARE real women" needs psychiatric help. And anyone holding office who signs laws saying "men ARE real women" needs to be removed from office yesterday.

no one is forcing you to do anything

BULL. SHIT. I am being forced to let MEN in women's sex-segregated spaces. My work is FORCING me to call men "she." And I'm getting off lightly. Female rape victims are being forced to call the MAN who raped them "she."

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah exactly they aren't forcing us to do anything except think the way they want and sacrifice our safety for the freedom of sick perverts. If you think perverts hear "you can use any bathroom you want" and don't jump on that... but I'm the delusional one... right.

[–]hellonumpty 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They need to be told that if you say no and are labelled transphobic because of that, it's a form of coercion. This is because as soon as you are labelled transphobic, they'll come after your job/business, reputation etc. All because you said no. And saying no is well within anyone's right as an autonomous person.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So generous of them to allow us a genital preference. Really heart warming. I wonder whether that poor dunderhead left school before his class studies basic biology.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Just gaslighting. Given that "up" already means "down" to them, just as "man" means "woman," and "woman" means "man," "no one" naturally now means "a lot of us." Of course.

It's like they're standing in front of a clown car stuffed to the gills with their comrades who 100% are offering to rape LGBS people, and trying desperately to keep the door of the clown car closed while they advise condescendingly, "Move along, nothing to see here, how dare you be worried about such a thing."

[–]julesburm1891 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

OP: no one is forcing you to take “lady dick”

Also OP: the issue comes from the complete invalidation of trans people...and parading the fact that you would never date a trans person

I’m not even being snarky. These are OP’s exact words in the same sentence. How do these guys even pretend to follow this logic in their heads?

[–]strawberrysun 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The fact that these people think anyone who doesn't want to sleep with them has an "insane victim complex" is beyond hilarious.

[–]reluctant_commenter 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Got a link for reference?

[–]pacmanla[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks! Wow, that person is beyond immature...

[–]PassionateIntensity 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That sub is hilarious. They have all the SJW lingo down!!!!

[–]Uranian 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If your "identity" relies on constant "validation" from others, then it must be inherently insecure.

[–]Socialjustus 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Incels have evolved. They've adapted.

[–]grixit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

chandra 13 insightful - 0 fun - 5 hours ago

That's exactly it. On the LGBTQ Megathread on r/unpopularopinion I saw one of the frequent trans posters who is a self-described bisexual virgin minor insisting that a) a decent neovagina is indistinguishable from the real deal, and b) a vagina is (from embryo development) an inverted penis anyway so a neovagina is fundamentally no different to a real one, and cunnilingus is fundamentally no different to sucking dick. I wanted to ask how a virgin child can be so confident in lecturing adults about sexuality

Soon they'll be giving adolescents sex dolls to practice on.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't really see people "parading around" the fact that they wouldn't date trans people. Maybe because I'm not hip to all of the cool transphobic places to go, but I generally see people "responding to the question of would you date trans people asked by a trans person" the fact that they wouldn't date trans people. Like, ask and you shall receive, dumbass. If you don't want to hear that people won't date you now that you're trans, stop fucking asking.