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[–]censorshipment 41 insightful - 8 fun41 insightful - 7 fun42 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

🤷‍♂️ I'm transphobic. Men who coerce women into saying "trans women are women" terrify me. I'm scared of men who browbeat women. I'm scared that a man who identifies as trans will kill me. I'm transphobic. 🤷‍♂️

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's only a phobia if it's based on fears that are not real, though. So you just have a healthy, fact-based fear. (Also you might have used an emoji that isn't displaying for me, so if this was sarcasm, my apologies for taking it literally.)

[–]Retardation_station 20 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

These are the dudes who creep on chicks at concerts and bars, trying to cop a sneaky feel. Before being rightfully pummeled by a boyfriend/bouncer/decent humanbeing.

[–]AnokiFrench 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Well , Being a rapist is now a quality for them

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 13 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Is "you're an asshole and I couldn't stand to be around you for longer than five minutes" a valid reason to say no, then?

[–]Finnegan7921 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

and this is the mentality that will be baked into kids' heads in schools across the country from a very young age and parents won't question it b/c the teachers or admins will doxx them with zero punishment for doing so. Thanks, Biden !

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Uh, so would this person just rape someone if they found out it was lying to them the whole time but had already made it to the bedroom? These people shouldn't be allowed in public

[–]JulienMayfair 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What if you're a straight man interested in dating a woman with the idea of eventually getting married and having children, which is, let's face it PRETTY COMMON? In that context, I think the statement "there is no effective difference when it comes to dating trans people" ignores some pretty fundamental issues. Couples break up over them if one wants children and the other doesn't.

Hell, I know a straight couple that was devastated when they couldn't have their own children. They spent $35,000 on in vitro attempts that didn't work. They were finally able to adopt, but it wasn't easy because agencies investigate your entire background. They almost got denied because a doctor had once mistakenly diagnosed the husband as bipolar.

No amount of trying to impregnate your trans woman wife is going to work, even if you claim biological sex isn't real.

[–]pacmanla[S] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I agree, but even not wanting children, there's a fundamental difference between natal sex women & transwomen (natal men). There is truth that biological attraction has the idea of pheromones. Dogs, babies, & people in general smell the difference between females & males. There was a TikTok video of a transwoman distraught that "her"/his dog could smell that he was still male. The comments were delusional & hilarious calling the dog transphobic. You can't make this up. But, even natal sex males & females who don't want kids, sexuality is & will always be based on biological sex.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Terf dogs 😭😭😂😂

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Coercive sex, i.e. rape. That is literally what this person is encouraging.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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    [–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

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