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[–]Rag3 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

🥳 Kai has uploaded!!!! it's been a while. I can’t wait to watch it when I get home.

[–]SexualityCriticalSuper-androphilic male[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Kai's a legend! I got a huge shock when I saw that video in my recommendation feed!

[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Isn't he on here on Saidit? Pretty sure I recognise his name from here.

[–]Rag3 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yup, he’s on here. Somewhere 👀

[–]divingrightintowork 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

yep!

[–]SexualityCriticalSuper-androphilic male[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, he is!

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I mostly agree with the exception for the pan and "queer" points. I think both labels can easily be used underhandedly by anyone who doesn't want to explicitly state their sexuality to give themselves a lot of wiggle room with infiltration(the latter more than the former). It's like being "questioning", but dishonest, more permanent and actually appropriating because people will simply assume they are l, g, or b.

Pan is like, "I love all food! Whatever." And "queer" is like, "I have unconventional tastes in food." They sound inclusive and exclusive respectively, but both don't really say anything, and so are weasel words that shouldn't be used at all by anyone. Even by people scrutinizing them.

[–]slushpilot 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's a kind of elitism and pecking-order bullshit that has existed throughout all kinds of subcultures. Just ask an indie music nerd their favourite kind of music:

"Oh I like all kinds of music, whatever. Except country, haha."

"Oh this band sucks. I only like their first album before they sold out."

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My husband lol'd as I was playing this out loud.

[–]Dromedary 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That was really good! Didn't know what to expect but was pleasantly surprised to find I agreed with every single one of his 8 opinions. A shame he had to repeat "I KNOW what I'm about to say are unpopular opinions but.." since everything he said was good common sense and very reality- Based.

[–]Kai_Decadence 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know that I shouldn't have said that but believe me, I was already walking on egg shells because I had just been banned from 2 groups that I used to be really active on back on Reddit when someone reported me for my Gender critical views weeks before I released the video lol.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Great video!

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This was well articulate. Especially the last two points. Well done Kai.

[–]usehername 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Kai's great. I especially agree with the point about people who call themselves "pansexual" and "queer".

[–]reluctant_commenter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Awesome video, Kai!!! :) I have so much respect for you for speaking up. Here's hoping you opened some minds to thinking about these topics in a new way.