edit: formatting
I have a goal of posting 1 meme a day on s/LGBmemes. I'm trying to make it into a more active sub. So I spend a lot of time browsing every LGB-related meme community I can find on various forms of social media.
One interesting thing I've noticed is that gay men's communities tend to have memes that contain the most substantive content about experiences of being gay. You might be like, "Well duh, what else would a 'gay meme' be about?" but in TQ+ subs, a lot of the memes are about encouraging stereotypes-- "LGB people act like this! LGB people wear these clothes, talk this way, walk this way, act this way!"-- and are not actually about the experience of being same-sex attracted. Or, a lot of them are about silly wordplay that has nothing to do with the actual experience of being L, G, or B. Examples: "pansexual = attracted to pans" "all BI myself, ha ha" "if gay means happy then I'm straight"
Just thought I'd share. It's kind of fascinating to see how the LGBTQ+ community tries to push certain messages about LGB people using memes, sort of like propaganda. No wonder so many children have backwards ideas about what being LGB means. The internet told them that being LGB means you walk weird (r/lgbtmemes used to remove this but now it's a staple of LGBTQ groups), hate straights, do finger guns for some reason, can't sit right, regularly get so emotionally overwhelmed that you can't type properly, and yell "gay" randomly.
And trust me... I'm not joking when I say these stereotypes affect people's behavior. That list ^ in that previous paragraph, that's ALL stuff I've seen people in my peer group (gen Z) doing, in real life, in an attempt to seem gay, to "look gay," as they put it. "Oh I'm so gay" and I'm like Dude you don't have to wear rainbows and act like a stereotype and cut your hair short if you're female in order to BE GAY. God. Why don't people GET IT?!
And I'm not talking about people who just happen to like acting that way, wearing those clothes, etc., who naturally are that way. I'm talking about people who actively change their behavior, mannerisms and dress in order to conform to some sort of bullshit prescriptive norms that LGBTQ+ communities assign to gay people.
The most hypocritical part, is that so many people my age get so angry-- and understandably so-- at people making offensive stereotypes on the basis of race. But stereotypes about being gay? "Oh that's fine, haha, so funny, why are you bothered by it, what's wrong with you?? It's just a joke"
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