What's your favorite type of nonsexual physical contact with a woman?

submitted by hufflepuff-poet from self.Lesbians

Saw this on r/askgaybros and wanted to see what y'alls favorite type of touch with another woman is? Were you always ok with the physical part of being a lesbian or did you have to deal w internalized lesbophobia?

It took me forever to become okay with touching other women or not being super tense and uncomfortable when they touched me. It was so nice finally dating and getting to enjoy touching and flirting with other women. I went on a few dates with one woman and she was very big on casual touch like hand holding or wrapping her arms around me :) Currently not dating at all with coronavirus and missing a woman's presence.

As for me, I love casual touch, like a head on my shoulder or playing in a woman's hair or her playing with my hair!

all 17 comments
sorted by:
top
newinsightfulfun

[–]LesbiSilly 25 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I have dreamed of holding hands. It is the thing I want to do most. I never had any internal homophobia, but more worried about external responses.

I want to hold hands more than sex at this point. It's so sad, but true.

[–][deleted]  (1 child)

[deleted]

    [–]queerone 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    This.

    [–]Graythoughts 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    An ex girlfriend of mine once fell asleep in my arms while we were watching tv. Fucking loved that.

    [–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    It’s so nice. I woke up with my ex sleeping curled into my chest (she fit perfectly in this one position) and I was so comfortable I didn’t move for an hour

    [–][deleted] 13 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

    Hand-holding. Being big spoon (or jet pack if my partner is bigger than I am). Hugging from behind. Hand on lower back. Drawing on her back with my fingertip. Resting my face against her neck under her jaw, lips pressed there but still

    [–]censorshipment 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Literally lending a hand. To paint a visual picture... when a woman in heels wants/needs to hold my hand to keep her balance such as while walking on cobblestone or walking upstairs or downstairs without railing.

    [–]VioletRemi 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    The most I love is actually sniff neck or hair. From touches, I like to do gentle hug around waist, and to receive I mostly like when someone is holding my hand.

    [–]Freetochoose 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Hugging/cuddling. Gosh, I love hugs!

    [–]oofreesouloo 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Me tooo!!! Hug me 😍😍😍😍😍😍

    [–]Ricky_Ticky 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Giving neck and shoulder massage :) Especially when a woman comes back home from work tired and exhausted and just falls into my arms

    [–]PassionateIntensity 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    I love hands and fingers, and holding hands.

    [–]SailorMoon2020 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

    You get a lightbulb, and you get a lightbulb. Everyone gets a lightbulb!!!!

    These are some good answers and I really enjoyed reading them. For me, it would be when she...okay, I don't know what this motion is called...but you know when an evil character in a movie or show has a beard and he constantly rubs his beard from up to downward? I like it when a woman does that to me.

    [–]hufflepuff-poet[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Lol, I love this! That's one of my favorite ways to pet my cat, never thought of doing it to a woman :D

    [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I love when they come up behind me and put their arms around my waist

    [–]Jinera 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Holding hands. Whenever I had a relationship, all the damn time. Nothing feels as good as just simply holding hands as you walk with someone. I am not so good with hugs or very affectionate, but this is something I need and my way to show that I need them to be close to me and appreciate them.

    But I've also had the pleasure of being comforted by a large chested woman and that was amazing as well. So?? Soft??!

    [–]MyLongestJourney 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Hugs.Hugs are the best.

    [–]beereadit 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I love cuddling, playing with each other hair and of course holding hands... honestly I like everything everything, I value non sexual affection just as much as sexual one and thinking about all of this makes me wish I wasn't single.