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[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

You’re gonna get chewed out for this one, babe. Lol.

But let me tell you about the lesbian community before: One thing that was really wonderful about having a community of lesbians and lesbian bookstores and lesbian owned sex shops etc, was that lesbians would often have “pay as you can” information sessions for the community on safe sex, safe kink and bdsm, and whole workshops about consent, poly, whatever. Lesbians have always cared about the community being safe and happy, and even if you don’t like kink etc, it’s hard to be too mad at women who wanted to make sure people understood how to ethically do stuff.

In a world where “rough sex” murders are happening, it’s sure depressing that lesbians are unwelcome in our own communities.

[–]LesbiSilly 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Thanks for the warning. I'm sorry people are bad. And yeah, I don't think we have any lesbian ANYTHING anymore. I'm not mad at the shops, but this makes me sad. :( Because I could have been more active and been in the community. But honestly, the crazies of all kind kept me away.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I don’t think everyone hates kink, I’ve just seen it get a bad reception in this audience so I didn’t want you to be taken by surprise if it happened, to clarify.

[–]LesbiSilly 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Thanks. I understand. I appreciate your posts!

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Anytime, sunshine

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    [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    What’s your point?

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      [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

      I was the first commenter so I was literally the one who said something “before anyone else.” That seemed pretty obvious and didn’t require being said. Which was confusing.

      [–]Freetochoose 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

      I'm glad you asked this question despite your fear. Let me tell you, we are born to die. So while you are living, try your best not to allow fear to be a leading driver in your life. Ask what you want to know. Soak up as much information as possible, do as much as you can.

      That being said, I don't have the answer to your question. Just wanted to give you props for asking what you want to know.

      [–]LesbiSilly 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

      Thank you. I was suddenly worried I asked something 'wrong'. Thanks for the reassurance. Hugs