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[–]VioletRemi 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Curiosity and experience/wisdom.

[–]carrotcake 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I love when i notice that she's not just following everybody's opinions or trying to be a stereotype. I love someone that looks lightly to life yet is able to see its darkness.

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Sweet natured, smart and caring. Strong back bone required.

[–]Gearbeta 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A sense of wonder about the world around them. Like if they're the type of person to say "hmm why is that like that?" or "how does that work? I'm going to find out!"

[–]candiedDagon 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Kindness, eccentricities, and appreciation for nature

[–]CJLez 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

1 - Kindness

2 - A good sense of humour - preferably of the wry and tongue-in-cheek variety.

[–]ohbarnacles 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Eccentric and weird, kind, trustworthy, and a good sense of humor. Someone who emotionally present most of the time.

[–]knownasness 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

i love a big ol dork. they're the best. extra points if they snort when they laugh.

[–]yayblueberries 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Is a love of nature a personality trait? I know there is a type of intelligence related to nature.

[–]thea 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Intelligence and passion for sure. A woman who is unafraid to feel strongly and unabashedly about her likes/dislikes is so refreshing - and absolutely makes a woman more attractive.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

a good sense of humor & an appreciation for the little things, the small moments & idiosyncrasies.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Confidence, strong sense of self, kindness, and curiosity. Someone who likes to stop and look at the flowers.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

confident compassionate intelligence

[–]LesChameleon 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Self-awareness and willingness to accept your past traumas and work on healing

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

willingness to accept your past traumas and work on healing

that is a very important one too.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Independent with emotional intelligence and depth.

[–]Astrid2448 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Sass, spontaneity, a little arrogance can be hot too

[–]endlesssummer 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Extroversion and someone who's got a lot of emotional depth

[–]yousaythosethings 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

(1) Curiosity (2) Passion (3) Wit

I think all of those traits pretty much already incorporate intelligence or intelligence in a meaningful and actionable way. We all know intelligent people who tend to waste it. I would consider adding "Industriousness" to my list, but not like a workaholic, just that they put their energy to good use. I'm kind of a workaholic unfortunately.

[–]Lessom 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Confidence is really hot. Also treating people with kindness and a good sense of humour.

[–]Freetochoose 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Self awareness, thoughtufl, accountable, we can playfully tease each other and laugh at ourself , sweet and tender.

[–]Gacho666 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Safe, intelligent and a cultured person with good judgment.