Like really, I found out the key, which they cannot solve and it is somehow the proof of what they really mean with their entire behaviour.

They like to point out we are bitter, hateful, angry, that we do things which are harming other etc. Some of us aren't, some of us are, doesn't really change my point. But whenever I ask them question, "Why shouldn't I hate women/feminists/trans" it's always, always the same response.

"Because it gives you nothing. Because hate is destructive. Because you have to be altruistic so others will respect you."

All of those are contradictions with our state.

First, if this gives us nothing, then entire point of self-improvement should be dumped square one. It gives nothing after all. But wait, sometimes it's supposed to give this sense of feeling better or it just keeps your head busy. It's the same with hatred. My motivation comes only from trying to be above financially among people who used to bully me, for the sake of laughing at them. I already had situations, where people wrote to me for money, I always decline. It's lifefuel to see them struggle. Whenever I hang out with my incel friend however, I sometimes buy him food or drink. Being hateful is my way to get two things that I value the most - fairness and inner peace. We weren't like that from the beggining, at least I wasn't. I was bluepilled as fuck about morality (not about dating, rather about rules of this world) - I believed that being good leads to respect, that I will be treated normally or even good, for being nice. It never worked. So what's the point of allowing it? If morality is a joke, if rules don't exist, why should I not bend reality to make it as I want it? When I am hateful I know that I will be hated - I am sane person. But now it's fair, I couldn't make it to the situation where we both are good, then I came to the point where we both are bad. Fairness restored. Also I couldn't be in peace with myself - if you actively take attempts in any field, you have to have some, even the smallest hope. And hope hurts as fuck when it is never going to be fulfilled. Turning my sadness into hatred restored my inner peace.

Second, hate is indeed destructive, but for who? Without hate I would be already dead, I would probably kill myself out of misery. However I managed to end up with my dreamt job, well-paid, remote, in my field of my interest, I finished degree, cured anxiety, had surgeries and I plan to go fuck hookers. But I don't have hope I will succeed in society, ever. Whenever I have to interact in a job, even if it's with a foid of my age - I don't fool myself with hope, even if it's not negative experience. If I did, it would only lead to hope -> sadness -> depression path. It's easier to just hate the person straight away, before he/she can show colors. It prevents the unnecessary pain. So in short, it isn't destructive for people like me because I am already destroyed. Who can it destroy then? Obviously, normies. You don't play by their rules and hatred has different forms. I don't help people. I don't care what they say. I don't care what they think, want, believe.I don't support them, I don't give advices. I am not obliged to do so, but when I do it intentionally, I think it's part of being hateful. Since I started to be completely egocentric, it only did me good. Even in the smallest parts of life, the smallest inconveniences add up. You don't want to help, you don't fake you care, you don't fake you listen, they end up thinking what they did wrong. Eventually their undeveloped brains don't get it - but they start to hate, which only leads to more hate from my site. They started it, I only add oil to the fire.

Third is the most gibberish foid-like argument. We know that being altruistic is beneficial for OTHERS not for us, I don't get this shit take of feeling better if you help someone. It might work if you are at the top, when your life is so good that you need to gain happiness that way, but not in our state. Being altruistic and being kind as base behaviour only leads to the treatment, where all expect you to behave like that all the time. Then they will say "It's the bare minimum". But when you are hateful, when you are not giving a shit about others, where you actively try not to interact with others, but not because you are scared of others, but because you hate them, they notice it. They want your contact and attention, because they don't want to be seen as hated people, just like we do. But it's too late for me to give a shit.