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[–]OPStolen 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (12 children)

they banned me from the original subreddit because I said that my bestfriend is a woman. I've had ENDLESS woman friends my entire life. Back in high school, i was friends with the entire girl's lacrosse team. You know what it's like to have 15 woman friends that hang out with you and talk about sex and their boyfriends and some of them are single right? But you ask them out and they all call you gay, call you gross, or think you're just making a joke about asking them out??? I realized I've been clownmaxxing my entire life. Acting like a complete idiot to make friends with women hoping that one day I could ask them out and they'd say yes. Never worked my entire life.

[–]AnimeRespecter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I dont hav female friends and thats not by choice. When I talk to women the responses are disinterested and abrasive. forget dating women wont even talk to me with common decency. usually if i try to make conversation they something extremly rude or insult me.

[–]OPStolen 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I'm not a social dude. i hate texting 24/7. the only woman i've truly been friends with is my best friend. she's an asian chick that told me in high school that only white men are good enough for her. even though that was sick af, I basically meant I never made a move on her. we talk all the time and hang out at restaurants and stuff. She tells me about her sexcapades and her life. Normally, we text like twice a week, she'll send a text at like 4am "hey, you up rn?" and then ask if im doing ok.

i've told her literally everything: that im an incel, that i have a hand fetish, that i might kill myself this year. If it weren't for her, I'd probably have ended everything years ago, I'd never make a move on her because she told me outright she's white-only, but she's literally my ONLY friend that knows EVERYTHING about me, even that im an incel.

[–]LadiesMan 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

How depressing.

[–]LarrySwinger2 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

He has a friend whom he can tell anything and it's keeping him alive, but he isn't getting any, therefore it's depressing instead of wholesome? Only in incel land.

[–]greybeard 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Has she viewed you differently since you told her your an incel? I can't fathom why you ever would bring this up unless you strongly suspect is one too

[–]OPStolen 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

for the most part, no. but when we have an argument(which isnt often) she always goes: "guess who's had sex and who hasn't". which kinda burns but whatever.

[–]greybeard 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

she sounds based

[–]takavoid513 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I can see why they banned you, but I see how it can be unreasonable. In having a foid friend implicates you are not ugly enough for women to not even want to talk to you, but it can also imply that you are being used because she knows of you incelness. Kind of depends on the context if it was bragging or not. The only reason women keep men around as friends is if they don't see them as potential mates, rather as emotional towels. The ones that are potential mates are "friends" which to her is "sleep around with me until I find chad or a beta cuck". Its either that or you are completely isolated from the opposite sex your entire life as they despise you and don't want you to exist, something I and a few others here have gone through our whole lives with no choice. That said you are in a better position most of us as you are capable to have social interactions with foids, which you will help you better socially interact with women than most of us, although its like saying you have a step up on all of us when the stair case is a hundred steps in which is mildly significant and how good looking you are determines if you get to the peak of the staircase of pussy.

[–]greybeard 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

In my model, it shouldn't be too hard to go from female friend to girlfriend. Does this indicate I'm too mental to get platonic friendships or that /u/OPStolen is too mental to convert platonic friend to romance?

[–]takavoid513 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I thinks its more of /u/OPStolen lucked out in getting a female friend. I don't think its the fact that you are too mental to get a female friend, rather you are just unattractive where women just are repulsed by you being around to be able to form a friendship of any kind. Most men that are friends to women are jesters and thats really all.

That fact that he made friends with her in high school proves he got lucky to be in the right social circle, yet it wont make him attractive. Social groups are tribalised, but after school there is no need for a foid to hang out with an incel unless she has no other people better to hang out with. His asian foid friend has already made her mind up about OP so its unlikely he can change her mind about changing their friendship.

The socializing with women would be an advantage for chads and normies against others but not incels as you know what to and what not to say. Its why some of us here are double Its over.

[–]greybeard 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But he said he had tons of female friends in highschool. Sure he could be an outlier that lucked out, but it's equally likely that he's a mentalcel

[–]sneako 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

more like s/realchads

wtf is up with the friendhavers on this forum. i though we were all og truecels but you niggas have roastie friends hitting you up nigga what is up with that

[–]takavoid513 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

You know its bad when you have to jester around for people to like you, knowing you as your normal self would not have been accepted anyway even if jester maxing is futile. I've been through that fuckery and it just made me sad when I realized it and made it worse for myself.

[–]Mazurro[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, when people say "just be yourself" they lie twice.

Firstly, because if you are yourself, they ignore you or look at you as irrelevant because you don't satisfy them.

Secondly, because they expect you to do stuff to entertain them, meaning you shouldn't be yourself.

[–]greybeard 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They don't lie, they believe that their mask that they put on is them just being themselves. They're skinwalkers without realizing it

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Others do not put on this mask. That's the point - they can't entertain you because they have nothing interesting to say, no creativity whatsoever and they cannot do that and expect you, the ugly one to do that for them for possibility of staying with them.

You are supposed to jester, they ARE themselves. That's the entire point.

[–]sneako 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I smell too bad for people to bully or leech off of me. blessing and a curse.