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[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because:

Being black and gay are describing personal natures, inceldom is a status that describes your environmental conditions, rather than your nature. Your inceldom is defined by the behavior of others - not having sexual relations with you - rather than some quality that describes your nature independently of your environment. Such as having lots of melanin, or being attracted to members of the same sex. Incel merely describes the attitudes of others towards you, due to any number of characteristics you actually have, but does not describe what those characteristics are

Incel is not the same kind of category as these others you mention, you arent taking pride in the characteristics that make you an incel (being short or ugly or autistic or whatever, some real descriptor), you are proud of merely of the attitude others have towards you, and that is what defines your group, as the qualities that make you incels can differ from incel to incel

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

you can't help being black

But your poor attitude is your own fault

be ashamed, and do better

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly, being an incel is not being choose by women. And everyone is going to think something is wrong with you if women don’t like you.

Example: https://watchpeopledie.tv/h/social/post/33655/pepper-spray-abuse

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think you should organize an incel pride parade.