problem with friend group

submitted by RealBarackObama from self.Relationships

my best friends have been jerks to me lately. make fun of my adhd, call me out for everything. and i'm really annoyed because they keep telling me to kick my friend who ive known twice as long as them, and who has autism, out of our lunch table. i dont know how to stop being friends with them though.

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[–]jet199 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Don't engage when they are behaving badly, only engage when they are being decent. Tell them straight you aren't going to kick your other friend out. If they don't like it they can decide to walk away.

[–]RealBarackObama[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

i've been friends for so long, though. how would i just stop talking to them without them asking me about it?

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You make the decision and keep your spine straight. That's it.

The nearer you get to your pure, original and "real" self the more respect you'll receive from people around you.

Just not from hipocrites. But do you really want to be friends with these people?

Decisions, decisions...