You can put labels on yourself, but they're pathetically delusional. For example, no one is a "Big Beautiful Woman". Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and the beholder gets to decide, not you.

A wise woman wrote a book about her successful personal stratagem to marry a wealthy man. She advised, "pick two traits". You can have wealthy and funny, or maybe wealthy and handsome, but you can't have it all. You must have a realistic goal in order to achieve it.

Over the past decades, that went out the window. Women were sold on the delusion that they could have anything, simply because they wanted it, by DEMANDING it. That isn't how it works.

Hey, by all means, hold out for what you want, but stop claiming that you DESERVE it.
Ultimately, the CUSTOMER, not the seller, sets the price.

You also aren't going to be happy if you attempt to ram YOUR values down the customer's throat.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PjE2p1xmrNA