SuperStraight

I'd like to pick some brains as to how you feel about the disgusting claims that super sexualities are just "preferences".

Let's take this hypothetical:

A superstraight man is looking through a dating site. He sees some profiles of women, and transwomen. He automatically disqualifies the transwomen because he is not attracted to biological males. That is his sexual orientation. It is not a preference because he will not entertain the other option at all.

He really hopes he matches with women who have black hair. That is his preference. He just really likes black hair, but he will likely match with other women who have different hair colors.

Women with blonde/red/brown/other hair are still women and are not excluded from his dating pool. They're just not priorities.

I'm not even going to touch "genital preferences" in this post because it is a disgusting reduction of humans to their body parts. Also, phalloplasty/vaginoplasty do not result in a sexual organ that functions properly (if at all).

I'm curious to hear your thoughts on this topic.