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[–]FuckMasks 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

Consider it a compliment your sub was collectively intelligent enough to be deemed a threat to the mass censorship of reddit.

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

This^

[–]SilverNova 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's truly insane. Why do they care what a bunch of lonely women think.

[–]Gigababejfl 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I'm actually shocked about the lies. Sub had like 26k people and so many regular readers. People know we didn't do anything like this but these assholes get to do this with no rebuttal

That's okay. This will prove to have been a good thing in the end. So glad to see you sis. Its encouraging.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

I also simply stated my support system was gone and AHS banned me. Then they banned me from messaging the mods. Cant even fucking defend ourselves. We never advocate for rape or murder of men. We aren't racist or homophobic. I think these people must take things FDS or other women related subs and lump us all together. They at the very least should have done more to educate themselves.

[–]jet199 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I think these people must take things FDS or other women related subs and lump us all together.

Almost as if they are prejudiced against people based on their sex. Funny that.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yes it isn't right.

[–]jet199 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

This is just the way AHS always works, some power mod takes a dislike to a sub because of pretty much only due to what you are, not what you do.

They then scramble their flying monkeys to cherrypick for evidence.

Then even if they can't find evidence they will set up sock accounts and post it on your sub.

They often go as far as posting child porn onto subs they want gone (why these powerful mods and their followers have hard drives full of child porn is obviously a big part of the problem).

There is really very little you can do once they get you in their sights.

The lies, well they believe them as much as they believe they are catgirls. They believe whatever is convenient in the moment. You can't reason with such people, you have to defeat them.

All I can say to young femcels is get into positions of power wherever you can and pretty soon you'll have your people higher up the food chain than the unpaid jannies on reddit and can rule over them. Not just going into politics or civil service work but there are so many unpaid positions (school governers, magistrates) and worker committees in corporations where you can have big influence or at least keep the illiberal wokeblokes out.

[–]Gigababejfl 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

This is a powerful comment and meaningful to femcels because no one tells you this. You dont think about this. You just feel small and try to follow the rules and hope your good behavior ingratiates the powers that be. Thank u

[–]jellygirl 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

They couldn't even provide evidence for these claims. It's unbelievable.

[–]vcardthrow1 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Do you have the link?

I discovered that sub (is it new?) when I searched for r/trufemcels and we have a surprising number of defenders.

Surprised we were mentioned in redscarepod (a political sub) https://www.reddit.com/r/redscarepod/comments/kxxxex/rtrufemcels_banned_misogynist_reddit_oppresses/

Glad to see a familiar name.

God damn, I hate reddit.

[–]Feelinveryblue[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

[–]discountwalmart 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

So they didn't even have to try to get rid of us, huh. Just make up a bunch of lies you know Reddit will buy into, and poof. Shouldn't be surprised - Reddit is, much like society, misogynist - but it's still absolutely unbelievable.

[–]Losferwords 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

It's called "cancel culture." Sucks when it's you doesn't it?

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I does suck. Femcels did nothing to promote hate or harm. We didn't warrant being cancelled.

[–]antempirez 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

In the end it wouldn't have mattered if they had lied about us or not. If a decent sized group of men on reddit want a female sub that puts them in a bad lighting (even though what we said in the sub about them was true...) removed, it's going to get removed.

[–]JasonCarswell 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Are you certain it was men vs women - or the powers that be vs anyone who empowers themselves with a strong community?

[–]antempirez 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

If you look at the group who got us banned then it's pretty clear. The list showing why we were banned on their sub its all lies. Not to mention, subs like r/IncelsWithoutHate (which in reality is r/IncelsWithMildHate) is allowed to stay up, and subs like MGTOW which have been defending rape are allowed to stay up. They also banned r/AskTruFemcels, which was exactly what it sounded like: asking Femcels questions. Nothing bad went on there either, but here we are, forced off the platform while subs like that thrive.

[–]C3P0 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (31 children)

"Involuntarily celibate females" don't really exist in modern society. When war causes a large percentage of the men to die in a population, I could see this occurring. Obese Sally-Ann wanting to get with Brad Pitt and refusing all other suitors is a different situation all together. I think I have heard of communities like this before (e.g. Where have all the good men gone?).

I'm sorry your community was banned. That's not right either.

[–]Gigababejfl 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (14 children)

All you need to do in this life is think things through. Just think through. We are not fucking men. We don't trick ourselves into thinking being used for sex by men who find us too ugly for respect =self actualization. Some femcels are literally medically deformed and many of us refuse to engage in sexual activity with people outside of a real relationship. Why? Because men are categorically monstrous to unattractive women as well as women they do not like. We don't claim to be incels. Fuck incels. We are our own group with our own needs.

The reason our community was so special and strong is because on an average day, people like u say things like this. Its meant to invalidate when as a fact, most people who walk by and do this shit also feel crippled by the smallest slights in normie world. Women are not men. All any man who cares about life past his nose has to do is take is male pov goggles off and look around

If women were that into the indiscriminate and extremely low quality of casual sex from random men, the stats wouldn't show these dating apps and sites as a virtual sausage fest.

Thank you for your comment about our community. Reddit is literally traumatizing for lots of women, including me, with its spectacular tolerance for misogyny. Femcels are amongst the most ostracized for literally nothing and all it took was for some weird guy and his internet-cop sub to point the finger and make accusations. He would present prove for other claims, no proof with us. The same BardFinn bragging ability archiving data of 40,000+ redditors he doesn't like.

[–]JasonCarswell 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Fantastic comment. Get's to the core, clearly.

Sadly our culture programs us to value women as sex objects and men as success objects.

I admit that I am not seeking any relationships now because not only would it be unfair to her, but also myself. I don't want to keep wishing she was better, or her that I was. I will never consider myself an incel. I'm a volcel at best and would never take that on as an identity. Things are changing for me so there's hope yet, but not much as I'm already 50.

This is the reality and often ugly world we live in.

[–]C3P0 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

That's respectable. I think the alternative of polyamory is disgusting, so good for you.

[–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

What's the alternative of polyamory? I knew many folks in Burning Man communities from several cities who were polyamorous. Seemed too complicated, too much trouble, and too much drama. Were I stable and able I might have liked it. I did host many orgies, which is another ball of fun. That was when I was young, sexy, and single.

[–]C3P0 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

One alternative is polyamory, the other alternative is to break up.

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

Lets not ping u/bardfinn here

[–]cisheteroscum 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Oh God that faggot is already on this site

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

:)

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

BTW do you know where u/niceice are? He is a very old user

[–]cisheteroscum 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

No but coincidentally I was just wondering the same thing the other day. He's banned on plebbit, maybe came back as a different user

Edit: Should clarify he is technically on our mod team but hasn't posted in 5 months and haven't heard anything about it otherwise

[–]Airbus320 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Sad, he was a good guy. He moded my most favourite subs r/againstsinglemothers and r/againstwomenrights

[–]C3P0 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Your English is a bit confusing, but I get your point. Thank you for letting me state my point.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

He has a point, men will fuck almost anything and it's hard to imagine women so repulsive that even the most desperate of guys will make a hard pass. I accept you exist but do understand, it is hard to imagine.

[–]Gigababejfl 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You don't have to imagine. You're a man. What do you care about our humanity? I wrote him an entire reply and all you did was repeat what he said completely ignoring what I said.

This is why I really don't care when the manosphere weeps over "the woes of men". We are the community we are because as you have proven here, men will never listen.
All we have is ourselves.

Please take your obsession with sex back over to your side. We don't care here. Imagine women being the asshole gender repeatedly hounding you about your "privilege " to give all your hard earned money away for nothing. You'd understand how that's bad but yet you people do this to us about out own bodies.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You don't have to imagine. You're a man

I'm 40, and I've been with my wife for 21 years. So yes, I have to think what I'd pass on if I was really drunk in my early 20s.

[–]discountwalmart 6 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

"Involuntarily celibate females" don't really exist in modern society.

Oh, fuck off. Go be a cunt somewhere else.

[–]C3P0 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh, fuck off. Go be a cunt somewhere else.

I was trying to make a valid and cordial argument. Good job starting at the bottom of the pyramid of debate though.

[–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Okay, I am telling this to u/bardfinn

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (12 children)

We are unable to get a relationship. I am 34 and have never had a boyfriend. Most women my age have had many boyfriends and are usually married. Something is wrong with me.

[–]akkordeonplayer 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You're smart. I wish I hadn't dated. It was a waste of my youth and precious time I could have used to focus on building a more profitable career for myself. Money = power = freedom.

[–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

Yeah and that is you never liked tinder and chads

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

I tried tinder and it didn't work. I dont know what you mean about liking chads.

[–]C3P0 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

I tried tinder and it didn't work.

"It didn't work" is subjective, but I think it's basically impossible that you received no messages. Or did you receive messages, but no one ever wanted to meet you?

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

I never got beyond a few sentences. Anyway I am not looking for a hookup I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. I am looking g for my soul mate.

[–]C3P0 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I thought online would be the go-to method. There's someone for everyone. Don't believe that Prince Charming will come to you, you have to go find him and drag him to you.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

Lol I am 34 years old. I have tried everything. I am not worthy of love I guess.

[–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

No one is unworthy, though some try to be.

"The One" and "love" are fiction and illusions all in the mind. People who give "unconditional love" are projecting something broken.

IMHO, do your best to earn a position of being valued and respected by your words and deeds. Work with what you've got. Not everyone has looks, wit, integrity, humour, or any number of things. Be your best self and put that out there.

Maintain hope, but don't build it up unrealistically. Cultivate the best life you can for yourself by yourself, and if something else happens prepare for the worst and hope for the best and be ready to roll with the changes that will come with that as nothing ever goes according to plan.

I don't know you, so all of that is vague. If you are serious, you'll write out a list of qualities and things you're after (not superficial or material) and take steps to be in the presence of those traits (more difficult in lockdown) with signals that you're single and looking, from being subtle to as obvious as you like, such as a shirt or pin that says, "I'm single and looking."

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

I appreciate the effort but I really don't have the ability to be in a relationship. There is a lot that has happened that I would rather not bring up here but if you were on the subs on reddit you may know of it. I had a devastating year last year.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I miss trufemcels. reddit should have never banned the sub.

[–]akkordeonplayer 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Look up "B a r df I n" and "Ai m e e Cha lle no r" on kiwi farms. AHS is filled with t r a n s extremists who hate women.

[–]vcardthrow1 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well I saw this:

level 2 El_Chapos_Cousin 86 points · 4 days ago

I’ve been subscribed to it for a while for the drama. Heard it mentioned on a “most fucked up sub” askreddit thread.

True femcels WAS a sub about women who were too ugly to find relationships or self love and shit like that. It was diverse, ranging from anyone who has mild self confidence issues to people who are calling for the death of all men and then all women because fuck humans I guess.

The big issues on that sub consisted of

Anti-body positivity. They bandwagoned the shit out of anyone who was proud to be not thin. Frequent brigades on body positive subs and accounts.

Spreading alt right conspiracies where they both denied that they were being influence by incels but also word for word copied what incels said.

Self harm encouragement. Self explanatory.

Homophobic, transphobic, generally bigoted. They would brigade trans and gay subs and accounts.

They had some good posters and discussions that encouraged a journey of self discovery and love despite how you may have been born or how you turned out, but those were few and far between. The vast majority of that sub was a toxic shitstain that bullied sensitive individuals to fuel their sick hatred of their own bodies. It was fucked, and it should have been banned.


...What the fuck?

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

AHS is a joke. They can pretend they are not biased against majority female online spaces all the want, but when you type 'WhereAreAllTheGoodMen' in their search bar only 10 results come up, most recent one is from 3 months ago

When you search 'fDS' or 'FemaledatingStrategy' you get 25 threads, 9 in the past month alone

[–]vcardthrow1 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm going to make a request - if you are still on reddit, please ask people to come here.

I almost considered changing my handle, but shit, I'd like ppl to be able to find us.

Please tell people who used to post to come

This is a list of who I have, but obviously there were more:

desperateanduseless (688) send message
remove humanERROR (7931) send message
remove ninetiesbaby16 (65) send message
remove Hideawayhuman (90) send message
remove kuki_6 (10970) send message
remove Freshestboiintown (1986) send message
remove sp4cel0ver (6910) send message
remove

sp4cel0over is still there, don't know about anyone else.

God...