(Note that these are not my own words, I’m quoting what acquaintance of mine has said that sums up the woke mentality perfectly)
To be honest, I would problematize (not the socmed meaning) “power imbalances” as well.
How I see it talked about whenever it’s brought up to shut down some kind of interpersonal relationship, there’s no possible and practical way to have a completely equal dynamic. And I don’t even think it would be more correct than more common (and humane) alternatives; I feel like it would instead force people to conform and act against their personal best interest in order to achieve some arbitrary measure of sameness.
People aren’t the same. They all have different needs, backgrounds, social standing, etc. We don’t even express and interpret love in the same way as our partner/s, often times.
(general you)
Try being coherent with avoiding power imbalances and you soon end up segregating people (women are always overpowered by men, right? Non-white people are always overpowered by white people in the West, right? Mentally ill and neurodivergent and disabled people are always at a disadvantage compared to abled neurotypicals, right? Someone born into money is inherently different from someone who struggles economically, and these people will never be able to genuinely connect and care about each other, right? Someone older will always overpower the younger socially, right? etc.).
That’s why “power imbalances” automatically ends as a non-starter argument for me, It’s just not generalizable. You can only either abstract far enough to talk about human rights on a societal level (at which point you’re too far to say anything practical about individual interpersonal relationships) if you want to generalize, or you have to go case by case. And the way to measure people’s happiness is not how mathematically equal they are (which is how it’s simplified on socmeds), but if they each get and give what they’re happy to get and give.
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