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Welcome all detransitioners (social, legal, and medical gender-transition desisters)! Welcome also self-questioners, and hello detrans allies. Post anything about gender detransition. Ask questions, share memes, inspire, vent, wonder, etc.


WIKI

For glossary, FAQ, news, studies, support groups, and videos, please read our wiki.


RULES

Please abide by our rules.

Please also abide by SaidIt's rules.


S/DETRANS IS INDEPENDENT FROM R/DETRANS

While born of the same purpose (to provide detransitioners free speech in a fair and respectful forum), r/detrans and s/detrans are somewhat independent. They exist on separate platforms, they operate under different rules, they are led by some different, some same moderators, and they are home to different subscribers.


ORIGIN STORY

In 2017, it was noticed that the subreddit r/detransition was quietly deleting all posts (https://archive.vn/2kWMf), the creator of that sub was deceased (https://archive.is/rr7sb), the other three moderators had become mods just hours after this death's announcement (https://archive.is/oA51m), and the new mods' profiles, histories, and activity showed bias against detransition. The mods were contacted, as were Reddit admins for violation of the sitewide "no camping" rule, to no reply.

At that point, the first-ever subreddit created and moderated by detransitioners was created, r/detrans. The newer subreddit sought to put detransitioners' rights, needs, and interests first, while respecting all viewpoints in a civil environment. Its subscriber base grew exponentionally (https://archive.vn/ZSAM7). As it grew, it faced mounting harassment, slurs, and smears from transition-only activists (https://archive.vn/7gL1o) who seek to "infiltrate" and "take over" subs (https://archive.vn/zjyuz).

In 2020, Reddit banned thousands of subreddits (https://archive.vn/5bVXN) without warning or recourse. Reddit admins were asked publicly and privately whether r/detrans was safe or needed to change any rules. Arguably, detransitioners should be protected by Reddit's "Rule 1" as a "marginalized or vulnerable group" (https://archive.vn/ojVJT). But the received answers were unclear (https://archive.vn/LsLrd). Days later, an attempt was made to seize the sub (https://archive.vn/ReKJ8).

In response to the uncertainty on Reddit, this subsaidit was created as a new and separate entity.


KEYWORDS

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Detransioner dying due to cross sex hormones

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"doctor that promised me that I will be a straight woman and won't have to live gay lifestyle any more if I get sex reassignment surgery"

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Why detransitioners are crucial to the science of gender care

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I felt like she was setting me and her father up as the enemy of our child. She was the savior who was going to come in and save our daughter from us.

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‘Doctors Never Warned Me of Side Effects’ With Hormone Therapy and Breast Implants, Detransitioner Says

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Psilocybin saves woman

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Trans woman returns to life as man and takes aim at the ‘activist’ doctor who turned his life upside down

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I went through a pointless process to escape myself.

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The trouble with the personal responsibility is that people forget how dumb they were as teenagers

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Doctors creating a eunuch class

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How I was trapped by gender ideology

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"It was a software issue that was sold to me as a hardware problem"

submitted 10 months ago by jet199 from youtu.be

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Michigan Woman, 27, Transitioned from Male Back to Female

submitted 10 months ago by worried19 from dailymail.co.uk

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Purification Rites - the trans belief in testosterone poisoning

submitted 11 months ago by jet199 from cutdowntree.substack.com

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The Testosterone Hangover

submitted 11 months ago by jet199 from bariweiss.substack.com

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Someone on Tiktok detransitioned

submitted 11 months ago by jet199 from imgur.com

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How a Skeptic Turned Transgender

submitted 11 months ago by jet199 from ryansereno.substack.com

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"And that's OK!" No the fuck it isn't.

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Interviews: Four Detransitioned Women Share Their Therapy Experiences

submitted 1 year ago by worried19 from detransvoices.org

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Fif-fucking-teen

submitted 1 year ago by jet199 from reveddit.com

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What in hell is this?! And why does it make me so mad, at least they sort of acknowledge detransition is a thing even if they think it's some kind of bizarre humiliation fetish

submitted 1 year ago by CleverFoolOfEarthdesister from reddit.com

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Double Mastectomy at 15, Detrans 16-Year-Old Now Seeks Reversal

submitted 1 year ago by CleverFoolOfEarthdesister from thevelvetchronicle.com

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Bad advice, probably the worst advice, for a questioner on r/lgbt

submitted 1 year ago by CleverFoolOfEarthdesister from preview.redd.it

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I want to hear your stories if you used to have gender dysphoria but it has gotten better somewhat or entirely.

submitted 1 year ago by TarshishJupiter from self.detrans

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The Detransitioners: 'The Problems I Thought I'd Solved Were All Still There'

submitted 1 year ago by worried19 from thetimes.co.uk

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Just how bad/dumb does this have to get before something is done?

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Detransitioned Females: Stories from the Front Line

submitted 1 year ago by worried19 from stilltish.substack.com

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US law firm starts investing puberty blockers claims

submitted 1 year ago by jet199 from girardsharp.com

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Awful advice from the T crowd

submitted 1 year ago by CleverFoolOfEarthdesister from i.imgur.com

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UK study finds 20% of trans patients stop treatment

submitted 1 year ago by jet199 from mdpi.com

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What is gender dysphoria? Turns out it's just feeling like every normal human but assuming you're the only one.

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When everyone's stunning and brave no one is.

submitted 1 year ago by jet199 from imgur.com

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MtFtM detrans guy rambles on about his life story

submitted 1 year ago by jet199 from clefairy.net

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Why Some Transpersons Decide to Detransition

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School Personnel are not Qualified to Diagnose or Treat my Child for Gender Dysphoria - Especially Without my Consent or Knowledge

submitted 1 year ago by jet199 from pitt.substack.com

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Gender Detransition: A Case Study

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I Am Fascinated by Detransitioners. You Should Be, Too.

submitted 1 year ago by worried19 from stephaniewinn.substack.com

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Portrait of a Detransitioner as a Young Woman

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Regret

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Social Influence and De/transition

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Growing Focus on Detransition

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Top Trans Doctors Blow the Whistle on ‘Sloppy’ Care

submitted 1 year ago by jet199 from bariweiss.substack.com

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Letters From the Front: From a Desister

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Dysphoria and Disintegration in Women Who Are "Too Much"

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The Mess We're In Ep. #58: Talking with Detransitioners Garrett & Rachel

submitted 1 year ago by worried19 from youtube.com

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Detrans Youth Stories They Didn't Want You to Hear, in 60 Minutes, or Less

submitted 1 year ago by worried19 from thevelvetchronicle.com

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Medical and Mental Health Needs of Detransitioners Largely Unmet

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"60 Minutes" (CBS News) segment on detransitioners - first 15-minute chunk

submitted 1 year ago by reluctant_commenter from cbsnews.com

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#BringHecklingBack with Jules (a detrans woman) - Life Through a Distorted Linds

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Detransition-Related Needs and Support: A Cross-Sectional Online Survey

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Keira Bell: My Story

submitted 1 year ago by worried19 from persuasion.community

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Girl diagnosed with gender identity disorder by email

submitted 1 year ago by jet199 from removeddit.com

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Supporting Our Detransitioned Sisters on #DetransAwarenessDay

submitted 2 years ago by worried19 from afterellen.com

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A Detrans Story: No Longer Silent

submitted 2 years ago by worried19 from thevelvetchronicle.com

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Call for participants - detrans research

submitted 2 years ago by jet199 from callforparticipants.com

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Transition and Detransition: A Conversation Between Sisters

submitted 2 years ago by worried19 from transgendertrend.com

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“We did what the experts told us” – A Canadian family shares their story

submitted 2 years ago by jet199 from genderreport.ca

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Detrans person's niece tries to kill her after being radicalised online. When does any "transphobe" ever do something like this?

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Transition caused more problems than it solved

submitted 2 years ago by jet199 from archive.is

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When Girls Won't Be Girls

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Participants wanted - new detrans research

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I'm Gonna Make You Love Me | Detransition Documentary

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Detransitioners make the case against transing children at Can I Get a Witness Conference

submitted 2 years ago by jet199 from amp.thepostmillennial.com

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Detransition Q&A

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Ellie and Nele: From she to he - and back to she again

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The Trans Train: A Swedish Documentary

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People who were active TRA before - what changed? Why did you 'exit' the movement, so to speak?

submitted 2 years ago * by IAmSatanally with some related experiences, also gay dude from self.detrans

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R. Kelly's Child, Jaah, Went Public as Trans. Now 18, Explains She Was a Lesbian

submitted 2 years ago by worried19 from thevelvetchronicle.com

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Could someone please explain this to me?

submitted 2 years ago by denverkris from self.detrans

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This is just sad. Anyone with the same type of parents? :( I wonder how many gay boys this scenario might be true for.COMMUNITY

submitted 2 years ago by IAmSatanally with some related experiences, also gay dude from i.imgur.com

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"Do trans kids stay trans when they grow up?" some research references.DATA

submitted 2 years ago by IAmSatanally with some related experiences, also gay dude from sexologytoday.org

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Crowd funding for court case against Tavistock: "Protect Gender Dysphoric Children from the Affirmation Model"CALL TO ACTION

submitted 2 years ago by IAmSatanally with some related experiences, also gay dude from crowdjustice.com

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"University 'blocks transgender research'" BBC from 2017 article.OPINION

submitted 2 years ago by IAmSatanally with some related experiences, also gay dude from bbc.com

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'Sex Reassignment' Treatment Does Not Improve Mental Health - Journal Issues Correction | Women Are HumanDATA

submitted 2 years ago by IAmSatanally with some related experiences, also gay dude from womenarehuman.com

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What's the best thing about your detransitioning so far?DISCUSSION

submitted 2 years ago by IAmSatanally with some related experiences, also gay dude from self.detrans

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"Autogynephilia: The Truth" video from a guy experiencing AGP. Thought it might be interesting to some here. (and also bring some life to the sub!)COMMUNITY

submitted 2 years ago by IAmSatanally with some related experiences, also gay dude from youtube.com

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Female detransitioners survey from 2016

submitted 2 years ago by jet199 from guideonragingstars.tumblr.com

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Detransitioning: Reversing a Gender Transition - BBC Newsnight

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Male Detrans?

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A Different Stripe

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Detransitioners | SharpLeft

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Partially concerned about the rise in "non-binary trans identifying detrans."

submitted 2 years ago by DetransISdetrans female with DSD from self.detrans

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How to Welcome Our Detransitioned Sisters in Lesbian Community

submitted 2 years ago by worried19 from afterellen.com

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r/Detrans Rar Eddit archives

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helena, the problematic

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NHS child gender clinic: Staff welfare concerns ‘shut down’ courtesy of BBC Newsnight

submitted 2 years ago by DetransISdetrans female with DSD from youtube.com

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