"Nonbinary" girl at my husband's new job

submitted by Greykittymomma from self.therearetwogenders

He is getting friendly with HER and some 19 year old bisexual girl. They also have ANOTHER trans worker (at a small store in the midwest)

I am tired of all these THEMS. They can't really explain why they want to be called 'them' they just want to feel special.

Guess what? They ALL claim to be on the spectrum too. Suprised right?

Why is this appropriate?? The two young girls (10 and 15 years younger than us) added my husband to a snap group. Just the three of them.

Been yelling at him all day. Guys I am about to divorce this loser.

Next HE will be asking me to indulge in this bullshit.

Also, the 19 year old already advertised her "spicy" snapchat to him. Can he really be this fucking stupid?

These girls aren't trans, they are desperate for attention and of course they are all going to pride together LMAO.

Of course all the trans people are girls, duh!! It sucks being a woman sometimes but take it like the rest of us have FOREVER.

I mean, the nerve!

I don't even wanna show my face there because I just know I am about to get pissed.

Thanks for listening to my rant. I HAVE NOWHERE ELSE TO VENT.

Needed a good vent.

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[–]Greykittymomma[S] 8 insightful - 8 fun8 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Oh yeah the nonbinary girl "has no friends" LOL WONDER WHY

[–]Melodic_Programmer 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Wow, you need to have a serious conversation with your husband. That is highly inappropriate. He shouldn't be socializing with young girls.

[–]Greykittymomma[S] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

At least someone understands this!

[–]SMCAB 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

I'm so sorry, this new social construct plus the internet has made an adult relationship so unbelievably hard to find and sustain at this point. I feel for you. I have no hope I'll ever find what I'm looking for, glad I like talking to myself. Hahah.

This is fucked. Sorry.

[–]Greykittymomma[S] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Thanks for the kind words it does help!

[–]SMCAB 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It always does, even text! Sometimes you just gotta yell at the clouds and hear a genuine I'm sorry from someone, it works wonders, hahaha. Hang in there!

[–]SneakyBishop 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Get your stuff in order. Bank accounts, cards, debt, and find a divorce lawyer. Don't tell him any of this. If you are serious about divorce then he is your adversary and not your confidant. If you serve him it is best that you are prepared and he isn't.

[–]JasonCarswell 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

^

Get them ready anyway, regardless if he mends his ways.

[–]blackpoop321 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

One day you're gonna wake up and your husband is gonna be ...a woman.

[–]Greykittymomma[S] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

My fear. This asshole would take my kid and expose my anti-trans agenda...

[–]Rastafoo 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Your husband is a turd

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (9 children)

The two young girls (10 and 15 years younger than us) added my husband to a snap group. Just the three of them. they are all going to pride together LMAO.

I feel for ya Grey, but uh, damn, I dunno, if I had a shot to score with two hot young chicks who were into me when the wife was kinda done with me... I'd be tempted. I think a lot of men feel starved of love and attention from their partners. They're suckers for whoever shows it to them.

[–]Greykittymomma[S] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

I wasn't done with him until he started sniffing out younger women. Just done doing laundry if he wants to bail after 16 years frankly.

[–]Greykittymomma[S] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

He also claims it isn't "like that" but again, he is dumb.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

It's obviously not "like that". Until it is... :-(

Sorry. Good men are hard to find, I hear.

[–]Greykittymomma[S] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly and he already crossed my boundaries less than a year ago. If she sends you a nude IT'S TOO LATE DUDE!

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I talk to u/melodic_programmer a lot and she's ten years younger than me. Wifie mostly doesn't mind. Course I seem to recall your hubby had been unfaithful before.

[–]Greykittymomma[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yes he has and I don't mind talking but sending memes and private snap groups with girls you just met a month ago? Also his reaction is ridiculous.

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      [–]jet199 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

      Likely they have BPD which means they will be quick to claim a false rape allegation if it turns sour between them.

      So let him get on with it.

      [–]Greykittymomma[S] 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

      That's my issue he doesn't know anything about these chicks who obviously have mental issues.

      19 year old who came from a "sheltered" background who does spicy pictures but "just for friends" hahahah ok ya tramp I hope you end up getting your pics leaked and learn a lesson about messing with married men.

      Did I forget to mention ALL of them have weird hair colors 🤣🤣🤣

      [–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

      They say what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

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        [–]Greykittymomma[S] 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

        Is that why you fucked my mom? Power move.

        [–]JasonCarswell 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

        Punch him in the fapper.
        Scream blue murder if he dares to hit a woman.

        * Figuratively because I can't advocate violence on SaidIt.