The argument was, is it ok because the bible does not specifically mention it? It does not specifically mention it. Does that make it acceptable?

No, but it refutes any arguments trying to use the Bible to condemn it.

Do you know who Paul was? Clearly not. If you were a Paul, and did the things Paul did and had to compensate for the evil he did, then this would make sense.

No, he gave that adivce to all people, not only himself. Unfortunately most human institutions would rather side with the fake Paul of 1 Timothy and Titus who says you will be damned if you fail to marry and have biological children. By the way, the first quote is from Jesus, not Paul.

As far as I can see, you are pulling verses out of articles from the internet, without reading the bible in its prophetic order and understanding its context.

I am the one reading it in context. If you don't believe me read the surrounding paragraphs yourself. And the older Marcionite versions were even more pro-celibacy.

Show me where in the bible the purpose of those cleanliness laws are specified?

This is stiff-neckedness. In no other instance do we need to be told what clean means, yet when it comes to God people suddenly lose all understanding. I suppose the thought process is, "well wait a minute, how did God define clean and unclean?". But that's a moot point, because there's nothing to suggest it means anything different than clean and unclean. But rules followed rigidly to the letter are easier for religious institutions to manipulate and exploit people with. Those institutions discourage reason to an absurd degree so everyone blindly submits to their ideas. This is what the Jews were doing in the first century, and it's what Christians are doing again today.

even if I give you the full history of the written words, you still wouldn't accept it and say that those are just forgeries.

The book itself complains about forgery within itself, Jeremiah 8:8 "How can you say, 'We are wise, and YHWH's law is with us'? Look, really the false pen of scribes has made it into falsehood". This was around the time most of the fragments that would later come together to form the 5 books of "Moses" were being written.