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I am MAD at the US, I'm mad at my immigration story, I'm mad at how brainwashed and suspicious I've become growing up here by ebi_fry in aznidentity

[–]Alaskan91 1 point 20 hours ago I do think the han diaspora is just a mess. All the taiwanese moms from my church pited their kids against other church kids. So much so that now nobody really jeeps in contact with the church friends they made and grew up with. Maybe that's why? The people u should feel the closest to outside ur family...was ur arch nemesis growing up (according to the mom why aren't u smarter taller better at piano than peter or grace. Its all ur fault u didnt got to stanford. Grace did bc she never went to the mall and played piano 6 hours on Saturday balh blah. ). From my church, which was majority (80% ) Taiwanese American, all the asian (mostly taiwanese) guys were encouraged by their parents to not take their asian (mostly han chinese of china/taiwan/viet diaspora college girlfriends seriously,) and since they didn't lock those girls down lol, now every single of their ex gf is with a white dude. But alot of those girls actually wanted to marry the Taiwanese church boy In colege but the taiwanese moms told them "ur time will come after u finish grad school" but by then all the girls were taken lol. By white dudes. And some of the boys got girls from the motherland but most are still single. And in America, so much of beauty is not just the face but a nice figure. And dressing shaplessly just gives asian girls even worse self esteem since now they don't even have that going for them (and most asian girls aren't fat so why not dress better hahha). Yeah culturally han culture is straight up boring. At least viets and koreans party and have a good time, no wonder they got each other's back more. My taiwanese church also tried to teach traditional Chinese with after church Sunday chinese classes. So there went my weekend. And it was all repetition for 2 hrs straight. The volunteer teacher with a bowl haircut would watch us write character over abd over abd then teach us stroke order over and over. It was boring miserable and painful. (Just like the han cultural way lmao). I remember learning bopomofo and its wasn't too bad but then my heart sank after they moved onto characters. It was so mind numbing boring. Everybody in my class was just zoned out and depressed and didn't want to be there. During the breaks all the much older girls would gush about the Hanson brothers or whatever ancient 90s pop stars and talk about how white culture was so much more fun and social and just way better. I think han ppl just pride themselves on doing things the most boring, inefficient way possible. Meanwhile all the middle eastern and Indian American kids from my high school were socializing and learning to hook each other up and now they are doing so much better than even all the east and southeast asians kids from my high school who got better grades from being a deprived study robot.

[–]Alaskan91 2 points 22 hours ago I feel for you bc I used to feel similarly. In response to the first comment , yeah I have alot of controversial takes and my whole posting history is surrounding issues related to the asian diaspora and asian american women issues. If u go thru my comments history and piece it together. My comments talk alot about this. . Specifically, the east asian diaspora and how imho its a failure. How its failed asian women in that they seek the acceptance of whites so much in friendship and marriage and in the end, they still don't benefit. If asians were taught ingroup then this would happen less. And yet asians just blame Hollywood. And asian men just blame asian women and rebel by dating ugly white girls not differently then many asian women date white dudes that dont treat them that well (or at leasf fail to understand them) i find this hollywood excuse hilarious bc the west coast is home to 101 ugly hapas so it's not even a looks thing. Also Jewish Hispanic and Italian dudes are shorter than asians oftentimes but they have such strong ingroup benefits that it counters height. The dudes are all hooking it up for bro underneth the table, and the women that marry within the group reap those benefit. But east asians r such straight edge thinkers they can only complain about looks height, and other shallow markers of dating success. I think east asian men should have built more networks and infrastructure like the unnamed non east asian Americans did. Instead they focused on doing their job and didn't socialize abd take risks eith other east Asian men. As oppslosed to the community building, especially in biz, that Indian Americans did. See my comment history for more on this topic. Sorry if it's a bit messy I like to ramble but I promise there are some gems ;D Asian moms esp tiger moms can only conform to standards, they are bad at setting up an ingroup culture. I believe men set up the ingroup culture and women enforce it , even subconsciously. For example east asian moms in america enforced the new version of Chinese imperial exams, made kids blindly listen to authority Aka whites, without questioning. While the men thought being stoic was manly. How is that manly? It's pathetic. Bc while u were being virtuous and stoic, ur daughters are misinterpreting that as being unloving, and ur sons are not learning to complain or rebel. Complaining and rebeling gets u far in America, first, it spreads information and is a starting point in conversation for those in the in group. It alos provides emotion support. Asians never emotionally support each other with racial incidents esp not the older generation . Bc asians hate complaining, information is not spread. Don't u agree that asians have this hobby of gaslighting themselves into believing a certain racism incident was not racism based bc there is no solid facts? Sometimes there's no facts, it's just human intuition. Just like some psychopaths give u a bad vibe but there's no facts until years later u find out they killed their wife or something horrible like that. Also, the squeaky wheel gets the cheese in America. Look at how far the lgbtq+ community has gotten in the past 10 years. It wasn't from keeping their heads down and being dutiful engineers. In many companies, east asians are often the first fired not just bc of racism, but bc managers know they won't sue or cause drama or fight back or threaten to sue foe a higher severance. A non east asian dude of asian descent (iykyk lol) started off his new corporate job by complaining to everyone he had to go to the neighboring town to attend his cousins wedding. Then slowly the story became this cousin had a chip on his shoulder and was a litigator/lawyer. This dude made sure to go out of his way to exert power over some insignificant projects so ppl knew he was a vocal guy. Then when the company had layoffs, he was the last one laid off only bc ppl thought his cousin would help him sue for wrongful termination of employment and whether he had a case or not, it would cause the company time. So he stayed. Then he hired a bunch of ppl within his ingroup after he made his way up to middle manager. He also married a hot and loving wife of his own ethnicity and went to temple to keep his traditions alive while kicking it with certain white dudes for biz benefits. Since he had a mission, he knew exactly how to accomplish this. The creative advice given to him by his same ethnicity homes also helped. East Asians would never do this. Southeast asians might have a tad more ingroup, but its still pathetic compared to the third asian group. This out of the box thinking is a way of life that is foreign to east asians. And btw, the dude didn't have a single cousin in the usa. The lawyer cousin was totally made up. Good for him though, the whyte managers goal was to use his labor so it was up to him to defend his job back. Asians are too obsessed with virtues and morals and get f'd in America since capitalism doesn't value that lol.also the Victor's rewrite history. And don't feel too badly about not being able to write asian languages like Chinese is impossibly inefficient. While Chinese were slaving over the writing system, westerners were being conquerors and stealing power like in Hong Kong and Hawaii. A little known fact is that after the communists took over, they wanted to switch to pinyin 100 percent since it was easier and alphabet systems are easier to learn. But the Russians convinced them not to in order preserve their pride in their culture. The Russians told the Chinese govt this. But actually, the Russians knew that any non alphabet based system would take longer to learn and hoped that would make China not progress as fast. I think with pinyin China would gain alot of efficiency but some minor stuff might be lost in translation. But maybe be 20 years further than it is now. In terms.of ur dad, i think east asian dads esp chinese are more about that one job instead of infrasteuture building which can get the community further. I kinda believe that asians are better off going to places with other asians around them and building infrastructure like biz, banks, politics). Indian Americans built the state Bank of Texas as a way to loan money for other hotel owners in the midwest to expand their hotel and motel empire. Chinese Americans just focused on what they could u for their own family instead of the power of the group. And when a group is weak, or doesn't offer emotional support for racism (men will never understand this), the women just flee. And the men either date down or have issues and then bash asian women.

This KKKunt might actually be fucking autistic, judging by all the errors and nonsense in the word salad.