If gay men asserting the fact that they are gay makes you suicidal, your lack of dating options is the least of your problems by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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Thanks for the information. It did cross my mind if they were ok with gay people.

If gay men asserting the fact that they are gay makes you suicidal, your lack of dating options is the least of your problems by ThrowMeAway2879 in LGBDropTheT

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Is this really sometihng one can do, in relation to the Amish? I find their culture interesting and the thought of volunteering has come across my mind.

They didn't understand that this post maybe was directed to the "transbians" on AL by blackrainbow in LGBDropTheT

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I laughed reading this

For the women who aren't interested in anything oral, like nothing about it, how do you deal with that in a relationship? by Freetochoose in Lesbians

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Haha, I am indeed among the living! "Buried down there" as in it is nestled, squished between the thighs. Does my word usage make any sense now?

For the women who aren't interested in anything oral, like nothing about it, how do you deal with that in a relationship? by Freetochoose in Lesbians

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Blah blah blah, next.

Actuallesbians: Does anyone else feel attraction toward gay men? by millionssomething in LGBDropTheT

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The only and I mean only requirement for being a lesbian is a female who is exclusive attracted to and have relations with other females. Now that is out of the way. I am a female homosexual and I like gay male porn.

exhibit #28484852 why actuallesbians is no longer for lesbians by MadLass in LGBDropTheT

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I think I know what poster you are talking about. But what was funny was the poster who said they would date a post op transwoman, also said that they themselves were trans!

So I forgot about Saidit and haven't been on in awhile. Have I missed out on anything here in s/Lesbians? Or just same old? by Jaded in Lesbians

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Same, I miss TL. Still can't believe those scums banned it because we are homosexuals.

That was quick by FineIWillDoItMyself in Lesbians

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It truly is insane, like out of this world insane to see any sentence as 'woman with a dick' . And even more insane is that this looney disturbing crazy nonsense is validated by some.

PDA by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Holding hands and hugging. comfortable.

Thoughts on fragrance? by begonia_skies in Lesbians

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I love fragrance. One of my fave is perry ellis 360.

Its a freaking period app... by hyunnahh in LGBDropTheT

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Personally, I want boobs. Well, for them to be a tad bigger. These tiny tiny a -cup could use some size. But I'm learning to live with them. :)

Have you ever had a foreign girlfriend? What country was (is) she from? What did you like and dislike about her? Have you ever wanted to date a girl (woman) from another country (let's assume she would be living in your country already)? What country would that be and why? by Ricky_Ticky in Lesbians

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My amazing girlfriend is in australia. I like most about her except she can be quite defensive. She is a sweet, kind, thoughtful, exquisite, delicious and simply magnificent woman.

Future? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Today and the future. Financial freedom (wealth) providing the freedom to create and build my parth, great health, life with my girlfriend, kids. Spending my waking moments doing the things that matters to me and that I find meaning in.

Best places to meet women? by FrostyNugs in Lesbians

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lol, I wrote a comment and scrolled down and saw this! You got the idea too!

Best places to meet women? by FrostyNugs in Lesbians

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Meet them right here, try something different. I met the woman who I want to spend my every day and night on earth with, on reddit. I saw a comment she wrote, thought it was interesting, sent a message and we chatted for just shy of 3 hours that night. We've been talking everyday for the past 18 months since and are crazy about each other. I am honestly still amazed how much she fits magnificently what I want in a relationship and partner.

how to get over a crush? by chokeonartichoke in Lesbians

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What has helped me in the past is finding out if they are interested in me. Whenever I don't know, it keeps the fantasy alive. When I asked my crush and the feeling wasn't reciprocated, it has always helped me to close the door and move on. Always. Knowing (without question) that nothing will ever happen has been what I needed. I had a crush on someone for about 4 years. I would think about her often, dream about her and convinced myself that this all meant there was something between us. lol. I had it so bad. And one day I decided to tell her how I felt but it was not reciprocated. And that lead me to move on.

Scientists: Sex Chromosomes are a "belief system" by GuacLettuceBacon in GenderCritical

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This made me laugh!

[spoilers] Below Her Mouth (2016) — Film of The Week by piylot in Lesbians

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It is, to put it mildly, not good.

Fauci now recommends people take vitamin C and D supplements for COVID-19. by suckitreddit in news

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This made me laugh. The sun is sold out everybody.

Pros of being a lesbian? by Shroomba in Lesbians

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That I get to date and be emotionally and pyysically intimate with my girlfriend.

God forbid your meme reminds TW they don't belong to the lesbian community by LasagnaRossa in LGBDropTheT

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I know right. If Arnold Scharzenegger tomorrow decides he wants to be called a she, his dick and balls suddenly becomes different to Tom Cruise's.

God forbid your meme reminds TW they don't belong to the lesbian community by LasagnaRossa in LGBDropTheT

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Everytime I read 'women with penises' I cringe. I sometimes am still in disbelief that people can utter such nonsense with a straight face. That people can be so delusional with a straight face.

Does anyone else not care for Xena the Warrior Princess? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I loved the show as a youngin. Tried watching it as an adult and didn't like it.

Lesbians and Long/Medium Distance Relationships by yousaythosethings in Lesbians

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My net was wide and I happened to find her in Australia! Im in the u.s. But I've always been open to finding the woman I feel is who I am looking for, wherever she is. And she is exactly who I've been looking for, want, desire, crave, love, want to spend the rest of my life with. I will be moving.

Biggest turn off? by ColdSoup in Lesbians

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I busted out laughing after reading this. Lolol!

How long after a break-up do you start dating again? by TarshishJupiter in Lesbians

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There is not hard and fast rule. Be your own leader and do what feels right for YOU.

if you could time travel, what time period would you travel to and why? by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

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  1. To see how they lived

How Quickly Would You Move In Together? by CJLez in Lesbians

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We would move in together if it is something we both want to do. We've talked about it and are sure this is what we want.

If you could eat only one food item for the rest of your life, what would it be and why? by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

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sardines.

What does a woman wear that makes her look ten times sexier? by lmaonope333 in Lesbians

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Sweat pants.

Have any of you ever given up hope on finding love? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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No, I did not. I was single for 6 years and then I found her.

What's your biggest personality turn on? by RedditHatesLesbians in Lesbians

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Self awareness, thoughtufl, accountable, we can playfully tease each other and laugh at ourself , sweet and tender.

If you could be the opposite gender for a day, what would you do and why? by IamWomanHearMeRoar in Lesbians

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Have sex with my girlfriend in a different kind of way. And hopefully pregnant!

What music y'all like? by chupacabrawitch in Lesbians

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Eveything excluding hard rock/heavy metal.

What is Your Personal Style? by CJLez in Lesbians

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Sporty, overalls, sneakers, tank tops, boots, sweat pants.

I love seeing this sub grow in numbers every day by wherethelonelyroam in Lesbians

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It is still crazy to me that Truelesbians was banned because the subreddit was for lesbians only and we weren't interested in any males, even the ones who felt like lesbians. sigh

Transwoman: MTF competing in women's sport are being "grossly unfair and stealing people's dreams" by dandeliondynasty in GenderCritical

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What a nutcase, the person on the far right. For that person, any man , just has to reduce their testosterones for a year and voila, go and compete with women. They've just further reinforced that they don't give a crap about actual women. Only their feels matter. And Pierce was right...that is absolutely ludicrous. So floyd weather in a year becomes Moyd Weather and he should compete with women. I mean, I get that transwomen are desperate, but come on!

Saidit No Longer Displays in My Google Search Results. Anyone Else? by [deleted] in SaidIt

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It is back on google. So bloody strange!

Saidit No Longer Displays in My Google Search Results. Anyone Else? by [deleted] in SaidIt

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I just came on to see if this was an issue with anyone else. I tried multiple times to google saidit and didn't get why it wasn't showing up.

any true lesbians or LGB in NYC by lmaonope333 in LGBDropTheT

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NyC seems like the kinda place that would be knee deep in the tra religion. Sigh. Hope you can find the diamond in the rubbles.

"If I tell you you're transphobic, then you are." This person seemed to be genuinely apologizing and it wasn't enough. Nothing is ever enough. by [deleted] in GenderCritical

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These people genuninely scare me of how unstable they are. Wowzers. I would not want to be in a room a lone with that person.

Scared to ask... lesbian sex/kink resources? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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I'm glad you asked this question despite your fear. Let me tell you, we are born to die. So while you are living, try your best not to allow fear to be a leading driver in your life. Ask what you want to know. Soak up as much information as possible, do as much as you can.

That being said, I don't have the answer to your question. Just wanted to give you props for asking what you want to know.

What's your favorite type of nonsexual physical contact with a woman? by hufflepuff-poet in Lesbians

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Hugging/cuddling. Gosh, I love hugs!

Extremely upset at the state of things. by verystablegenius in Lesbians

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We hear you! It is absolutely horrid what is happening with lesbian spaces. All because we desire people of the same sex. SEX. And refuse to let any male into our space and love life. We are expected to welcome the males that say, hey boo, wink, the feeling in my head is telling me I am a woman and therefore Im just like you and you oughta see me the same. You see this body here, it is all woman because my head tells me so...ok, so my body like this is not your cup of tea...ok, I'll take hormones, do some shaving, grow out my hair, do voice training, get some implants and as a bonus, I will even reconfigure my penis! Now look at me, how can you not want this?? My manipulated body is just like a female...come on, you transphobe! how can you not want this......!

It is absolutely revolting what is happening and the people who support this vilenesss.

Be nice! by Camberian in GenderCritical

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Wonderful, absolutely wonderful comment. You hit the nail on the head so well! It is bending to tras that has gotten us in this mess and we need to stop bending immediately.

Are there plans of us joining Ruqqus? by highgarden_democrat in Lesbians

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Agree on the formatting. The only thing I like about saidit is that it highlights new comments since your last visit. So if I've already gone thru 100 comments and return 5 hours later, I will only see the comments that are new (highlighted) since my last read.

"Can I be attracted to nb folks as a lesbian?" "Well, lesbian attraction is complex..." by winterwillow in Lesbians

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TRAs: What do you mean you are a girl who only likes girls? I don't get it

Lawd.

Did anyone else believe you were asexual for a considerable amount of time? by [deleted] in Lesbians

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Just want to say your username made me laugh! I bet this is a sentiment of many in the world today.

Think Twice About Actually Lesbian by [deleted] in Lesbians

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The only reason people call it 'hateful' is because, we never bent the definition of lesbian to include males who feel like women. We are female homosexuals aka lesbians. And they hate us for that. We are branded as 'hateful' because transwomen will never be prospective dating partners for us, neither sexually or emotionally. We are branded 'hateful' because transwomen are men who have some mental issues ,to where they hate their sex and as a result, try to modify their body. A factual statement, regarded as hate. We are branded as 'hateful' because some of us, online, refuse to use she pronouns when discussing the trans ideology. So unless you see these people as women, invite them into your love and sex life, and call them she...you are branded as 'hateful'.