Guess I'll die

INeedSomeTime · 2023-03-22T11:04:26+00:00

Also what rights they don't have? They have them under human rights already and it amuses me when they repeat "trans right are human rights" like a gospel. They chant it to "fight" for some rights trans people somehow don't have yet as indicated by the slogan they say, they already have all rights everyone has.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-03-22T11:02:46+00:00

You can just go fuck yourself

INeedSomeTime · 2023-03-22T11:01:40+00:00

This brings me back to me from a few years ago, who somehow was buying into this - though even then I felt that's a bit of an exaggeration. Imagine having this level of victimization.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-23T23:20:12+00:00

LGB: actual gay or bi people

LGBT: spicy straights who redefine words to fit them

Fixed.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-23T23:18:54+00:00

I agree with your point on asexuality actually. When you follow mainstream asexual communities the term "asexual" is pretty much meaningless like non-binary. It can include everyone, literally. But been seeing a little pushback against watering down the meaning of asexuality but as expected the mainstream calls them gatekeepers or bigots. Even if they simply want the word "asexual" to mean something specific.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-22T10:21:19+00:00

I understand having one day. After all we already have many bullshit/joke days like Pizza Day or whaterver. But a whole week?

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-18T10:02:47+00:00

I am not surprised but if you dare to say there is an ongoing social contagion after seeing every second person proclaiming being they/them and gay then somehow you're hateful

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-08T12:17:14+00:00

Her dysphoria is just her realizing she's disgusting for fethishizing gay men.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-08T12:15:21+00:00

Honestly I hope that this shit show will make people aware how unhinged TRAs and their trans ideology is. I see people who even support TRA cause to be ashamed of this crap so maybe something will change? Moderates will notice what's going on and realize how fucked up everything is? I really hope.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-04T15:15:06+00:00

The Sims 2 and 3 are the best! The Sims 4 is really bland

INeedSomeTime · 2023-02-02T10:25:18+00:00

Ten years from now everyone will look at this with cringe

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-31T11:00:55+00:00

One way to end this shit is basically everyone declaring themselves to be non-binary. Because when you think long enough you will easily conclude 99% of society could be considered non-binary and you're not special for not being hyperfocused on your maleness/femaleness and having a personality besides for that.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-29T09:32:03+00:00

I genuinely expected this woman to look more butch at least but no. Straight people getting really desperate to be queer I see.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-26T11:08:10+00:00

Ah yeah, let's promote self-hating women.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-25T12:15:21+00:00

That's my biggest fear seeing all the TQ insanity. Even if I am not LGB but even I worry I will be accused of being a dangerous freak.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-24T12:25:06+00:00

Very based and sane rant. Sad that it's gone but to look at things through more optymistic lenses I think there is much more people thinking the same but it's really hard to win against a majority, which appropriates your condition and turns it into this weird abomination.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-24T12:21:20+00:00

I think that OP is planting seeds to change the tone of the truscum sub. And there are users in there parroting back TQ+ mantra and getting upvoted.

This is why some one the actually truscum people left that sub for transmedicalist subs. I remember checking that sub from time to time and seeing the periodical complains about truscum sub there.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-24T12:17:39+00:00

Ah yes, genitals, reproductive systems, musculoskeletal structures, pfft that shit is so easy to change, we're like Mr. Potato Heads, really. BUT MY DESIRE TO WEAR PRETTY DRESSES WAS DECIDED BY THE GODS THEMSELVES.

At this point transgenderism is truly like religion and you can't convince me otherwise. It's ridiculous to reject the objective reality but consider your beliefs to be something what is before the objective evidences. It's the same logic you see in religious people. For example Christians who reject evidences of evolution or that the world is older than 2 thousands years old because their beliefs matter more.

And science doesn't really back up gender identity - to be clear, there is just no actual concepts made around it yet - it only exists as a discourse among activists. There is no coherent definition of this concept while you can actually find various empirical definitions for concepts which are also psychological like - intelligence, emotions, personality etc. These tend to be understood slightly differently between professionals but even these different understandings tend to be coherent on their own. Because of the fact they could be conceptualized and professionals could create tools to measure them!

Meanwhile with gender identity? It's always described in a terribly vague way. Scientific concepts shouldn't be vague and up to someone's interpretation. They should be clear cut so anyone, who learns the definition can understand it in the same way.

Imagine trying to create a tool to measure gender identity like you have such ones for personality or intelligence. That's impossible to make without bringing up gender stereotypes. But since out TRAs insist gender identity is detached from gender stereotypes or anything social, then imagine conceptualizing that. How do you wanna measure it? Since you can't, then to me it feels like gender identity is more like a name you choose for yourself or someone. With new sets of pronouns, new name etc it really feels like gender identity is a "complex name" you attach to yourself.

Sorry I just can't. If discussion around transgenderism was based on acknowledging your biological sex but also acknowledging that in your mind you feel comfortable more as the opposite of your sex (because of severe distress aka gender dysphoria) then I think there would be no need for this sub even.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-21T09:24:39+00:00

Gay men aren't bisexual

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-14T11:49:09+00:00

I always hated the term. "My past name" doesn't sound so radical.

INeedSomeTime · 2023-01-08T17:38:19+00:00

Lmao so close to being self-aware

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-31T17:12:30+00:00

At least shitty dyed hair can regrow to normal and makeup can be washed off...

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-31T17:08:47+00:00

I guess it's nothing new that the queer or LGBTQWERTY label is just the "cool" label. Why is everyone so desperate to belong there even if they find a name for their obscure sexual preferences? Because they don't wanna be a "normie". It's not "cool" to be a "normie". As an anti-conformist person I tend to be angry I am not a straight person among the rest of my "queer" friends. And in creative works, unlike the others, I refuse to make everything "queer" or at least outright "queer" and I just make characters who may happen to be not straight people but it's usually not relevant and I don't shower them in colorful flags and pronouns. But I genuinely feel more original when I make very normie aka straight and non-trans characters' stories even if it may sound funny. God, I had to let it out.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-30T06:59:28+00:00

Good

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-25T20:44:00+00:00

I feel so much the point number 3. I had a friend suddenly realizing she is a "demigirl" but that's it to it. Just some laughable addition of "they" to pronouns list. I hope she will snap out of it. But besides for that she doesn't make a big deal out of it. She's rather very socially awkward and I'd say what she interprets as "not wanting to be seen as a woman by strangers" is the social awkwardness, boyish interests and shy personality she has. Basically being a "they" is her protective shield. It still fucking hurts to see even if technically nothing really changed.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-22T11:13:28+00:00

How come everyone thinks it's okay that your kids is drugging himself?

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-20T15:33:49+00:00

People really forgot what rainbow meant. It stood for equality and representing everyone. But it's not appealing to narcissists not to be on a pedestal- different from the rest.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-12T00:14:48+00:00

I guess years will pass and you will have more trans influencers coming out as detrans.

I do believe there are people who experience gender dysphoria and they deserve help but more options should be explored for them. Activists screaming how transition is the only good treatment is anti-scientific because a lot of time something considered to be "good" turned out not to ne and alternatives were found. Activists cannot stomach this.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-09T10:44:06+00:00

I feel like some of the proclaimed asexuals or aromantics are socially awkward people, who just never dated or fucked despite having a desire for it. It's a key to point it out they have a desire for these because they often even say that they love to fantasy about dating or sex but as they say they don't want to see themselves involved in the acts or they even imagine themselves in such scenarios. Meanwhile I just have no desire whatsoever. I don’t care.

I think there is a raise of awareness there is such a thing as asexuality but alongside that you have a lot of socially awkward or traumatized people identifying as such. But they discover a bit later they aren't asexual.... or they water-down the term to the point it's mind-boggling, just to keep the queer label.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-03T07:07:13+00:00

Damn. Reading the title I thought they realized all these genders are bullshit... but sadly no...

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-02T09:40:27+00:00

I really wonder how they manage to sell the idea that everyone wsnts trans people dead without mentioning that these potential hate murderers could as well mistake effeminate gay men or butch women for trans people and also target them. But no, somehow it's just only trans people being affected and no one else who is gender non-conforming could be mistaken for being trans by a hateful person.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-12-01T01:54:06+00:00

Pain

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-28T12:05:36+00:00

Self-fullfilling prophecy in a way. Once you consider you may be transgender suddenly you try to confirm it. It's just so interesting to me how someone, who was all comfortable with themselves, suddenly get so miserable once they consider they may be trans.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-28T12:01:33+00:00

I only expect to certainly lose friends I have if I shared my actual views on the current trans issue. It's not all negative towards trans people themselves. I'd say I hold a nuanced view on it where I differentiate between people, who you could call "genuinely trans" with severe gender dysphoria resistant to any interventions than just transitioning. But I cannot treat "trans/non-binary" people who have no dysphoria or just social dysphoria (which to me is very fucking normal) seriously and I find indulging their "identity" as actually harmful. So it pains me to have a friend with "they" pronouns and refer to her as such. I hate to indulge someone in avoidance of an issue she should face - sexism, misogyny etc. and pretend somehow she is suddenly above these once she declared having "they" pronouns. Today's trans activists claim how transgender is not mental illness but to me transgender identification (which is not caused by actual clinical gender dysphoria) can induce it. This is why I feel strong uneasiness with indulging proclaimed non-binary people or non-binary characters, which are being made nowadays. I view them as confused, disturbed people, who use depersonalization from their gender as unhealthy coping mechanism.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-27T11:01:26+00:00

This woman sounds... mentally unstable

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-24T10:42:53+00:00

Shooter, who killed people in a gay bar somehow isn't trans. But a sexual abuser, who raped his mother, must be refered to as "she".

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-24T10:41:30+00:00

I also find it funny that somehow identifying as trans should lower the possible punishment. So are the trans actually the most oppresed minority ever, which is always at risk of being murdered or actually a privileged class thriving on its made-up victimhood?

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-23T10:09:44+00:00

Wow I wonder if TRA brains are melting now

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-22T09:52:30+00:00

This gives me brain damage

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-20T10:17:18+00:00

Oh no! The horror!

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-20T10:14:08+00:00

Seeing that in order to be trans you don’t have to do anything but just proclaim it, watch the sudden increase of trans identification just for the money lmao

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-16T12:07:47+00:00

Suddenly milions of years of evolution which shaped the way we select partners to reproduce is reduced to just liking "masculinity" but not the most important and obvious sign your partner is male - a dick.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-16T12:06:02+00:00

Doubt

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-14T12:55:03+00:00

Yeah. I don’t know but I took this coming out as a slap in my face.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-14T12:53:42+00:00

What hurt the most was her trying to explain her non-stereotypically female interests and her tomboy look with that gender identity. I was in such a pain seeing this.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-14T08:56:29+00:00

If it's implemented imagine how hardcore abused this can be.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-12T18:14:00+00:00

I watched it all. Very good one and terrifying

INeedSomeTime · 2022-11-08T14:03:40+00:00

I'm so tired

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-31T08:22:38+00:00

This is what trans mental health care should focus on to me. Working on having stronger self-esteem and confidence. You shouldn’t rely on the outside validation. As FtM you should feel absolutely confident you are a man regardless of how people gender you. The only distress would come from your appearance not matching your sex. Not from people just using their fucking eyes.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-31T08:19:24+00:00

True. Most of people don't truly care about pronouns. So called "cis" people don't break down if someone misgenders them. It's usually interpreted as someone having shit eyes. I always found obsession with pronouns unhealthy. Why are we indulging this obsession? People with obsessions and compulsions also feel physically sick with their obsessions.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T10:02:06+00:00

These guys never grew up being hated for their attraction to men. They were seen as yet another straight girls and they still fucking are. Now they're just exhibiting their yaoi addiction.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T09:59:58+00:00

I truly hate how "queer" is basically the new emo but at the same time you cannot call it this way... even if it's so clear it's just youth counter culture. Worst thing is that if it wasn't seen as "cool" no one would give a shit about LGBs or even asexuals. It feels like artificial acceptance just because LGBs or asexuals are just seen as "cool". Once it stops being seen this way I have a feeling people will just drop LGB people like dolls they got bored with.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T09:56:27+00:00

TQ+s are trying to redefine homosexuality to fit the opposite sex

I think they do it with literally any word in the acronym. It even includes transsexualism. It used to be a rare condition with a set of severe symptoms, which were treated with transition (because they were so severe and nothing could help them). Now it's a washed out term which includes also girls with "not like the other girls" syndrome, who don't feel any distress about their bodies nor presenting feminine.

TQ+ is watering down any term, so average "cishet" can be a part of the "LGBTQ+" community.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T09:52:18+00:00

I am impressed how these people don't seem to understand why biology matters so much.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T09:50:53+00:00

Why do people care so much to be called "queer" to begin with? Even if the answer to that question was "yes" then it changes literally nothing about me. Yet, another word attached to my person for no good reasons. Boring people with no personality only are so desperately craving for being called queer.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-28T09:42:07+00:00

At least there will be less "she/they" girls there.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-23T09:26:07+00:00

I feel like a lot of trans interventions suffer from sunk cost fallacy. No wonder regret seems to be rare. And studies don't take account of that.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-22T08:48:11+00:00

This is what happens when you preach that sexual attraction is tied to ever changing gender identity than just body you were born with. I never understood this logic even as a fucking asexual, lmao. I know a person, who literally only stops themselves from gushing over a character because of pronouns and supposed gender identity. If you changed nothing about the character's visuals but only changed their pronouns this person would suddenly allow themselves to have a crush on this character. Trans ideology truly melts one's brain by deprogramming you from trusting your instincts.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-22T08:43:43+00:00

Horrible design. There was one design used to represent everyone. The good old rainbow flag.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-21T08:44:17+00:00

You and me don't wanna be associated with people like that.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-21T08:41:51+00:00

To answer the title from the Reddit post: yes. I find it funny these people don't see how idolized trans people are in LGBTQWTF spaces are. Isn't progress flag enough of an indicator?

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-21T02:16:06+00:00

Reminds me of a trans man, who also has the fantasy that she is a twink but is clearly yaoi obsessed. I really wonder how these people fail to see it's a fetish and go so far in lying to themselves.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-20T14:03:37+00:00

I like this sticker they posted because it says it all. Old school transsexual people sought being just women or men they felt they are. Today people don't actually feel they are men, women or in-between. They just identify as trans and only that. They love attention from it. They identify as attention-whores when they say "I love being trans" instead of "I love being a woman/man".

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-20T14:00:19+00:00

Trans, like being gay shouldn't be your entire personality. A trans character won't be any more interesting than a cis character with a shallow personality and history. They will be just a boring trans character instead for example. But I like how they admit that they believe being trans makes you an interesting person overall - a cure to being just a basic, boring cishet. Wrong my dudes. You are now just even more annoying than before.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-20T13:55:36+00:00

Many reasons. To put them shortly:

majority of Tumblr users are straight women (but certainly a lot of them now identify as some flavor of non-binary or trans men to hide this) they just fetishize gay men, so they love to make characters gay and ship them
they clearly see "cishet" as something negative and boring, so making them anything but cis or het is seen as a cheap way of making characters interesting (if they're OCs)

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-19T22:23:59+00:00

I feel this. I don’t wanna be surrounded by people who would shred me to pieces if they found out what I truly think.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-19T22:22:01+00:00

I feel like with the example you brought up in your post it's simply seen as ok to question straight people but it's taboo to question someone who identifies as anything but straight or "cis".

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-19T08:23:18+00:00

For me it took me longer to figure it out because asexuality wasn’t known at all so at some point as a teen I was simply like "My orientation? No idea" until I found the term - I didn’t know about Tumblr then and didn’t think of checking any non-straight places. Then got disappointed it's claimed to be a spectrum so a married woman with kids can claim to be kweer too.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-19T08:20:08+00:00

Oh god, that makes me sad. It reminds me of a "lesbian" who claims to be trans inclusive but I have a feeling that she truly isn't trans inclusive. Her personality simply makes her afraid to set any boundaries.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-19T08:17:46+00:00

Same. I never understood it and always oppose it. It's difficult to deal with people who claim to be asexual like me yet I see them gushing over guys like crazy. I am nothing like you, wtf.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-19T08:16:21+00:00

I made a mistake to be there just to follow my fav celebs backs in the day.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-19T08:15:35+00:00

That's very on point. Add to that how all these identities' definitions are horribly unclear that everyone can fit them. No wonder they swap them as they find a fresh new label, it sorta fits with its muddy definition, the excitement with something new gets mistaken for finding "the correct label" and here we go.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-18T17:49:19+00:00

Truth be told you never know how many people with pronouns in bio also secretly don’t believe in this crap but they just wanna cynically protect themselves from that. We all are in a weird circus, where I guess the social ostracism scares us all. We were taught and programmed that for daring to question any part of dogma we will face punishment. It works both ways. It also teaches the other people to harass you for what they find unacceptable. It's very sick but I don’t have enough of mental health to deal with it so I am sadly closeted about it. Insane how trans people are legitimately a protected class. You can’t critize them. You can't form questions about stuff related to them. It's so anti-science not to explore this subject. So many well established theories were debunked despite being seen as the truth for many years. People worship trans ideas as some truth absolute. It's not trans activism isn’t based on science. It's based on beliefs, which use studies activists even misinterpret to fit their agenda.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-18T14:10:48+00:00

She claimed to be asexual once her libido disappeared from hormones she was taking? I believe even asexual community would point it out as a reason to be concerned not to claim a new label. She's bisexual, who just has no libido. Also you're perfectly fine with the points you made here. Ignoring the romantic and sexual attraction (in TQ+ lingo: split attraction model) but that's ridiculous to come out as asexual after hormones dropped your sex drive to zero. The TQ+ asexuals would even tell you how "libido (sex drive) =/= sexual attraction" so this woman is just so wrong and I don't even understand why she would swap labels (if she was straight I'd believe she'd do it to feel special). Maybe that's her way to protect herself from her boyfriend, who is definitely frustrated by the lack of sex?

And yes, romatic attraction is rooted in sexual attraction really. The phenomenon of crush (which asexual/aromantics consider being associated with romantic attraction) clearly evokes physical reactions... so how it's not related to sexual attraction? No one ever thought sexual attraction doesn't have to be the obvious "I wanna fuck them" rational, conscious thought and instead is a bit more complicated physiological reaction which makes you feel that you wanna be around the person you're attracted to? I only see a possibly that you may want to be with someone without sex if you just see that person as some really good friend, who you love hanging out with. But there is no romance here.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-18T13:49:57+00:00

I feel you but I cannot reveal more details about myself why. But I also hang in similar spaces and thoughts close to yours occur to me. I hang out with a small circle of people, who are still on board with the ideology, one recently realized "they" are not "cis" but seemigly they still use pronouns matching their sex (besides for "they" being listed too) so no clue what's the deal here (I know that they aren't attention seeking person also -btw I used "they" to actually make sure of my anonymity) but I am actually relieved that apparently they don't really go transition route because that was my biggest fear and it pained me I couldn't really voice it without being seen as a potential transphobe (even if there is just so many red flags implying that their new identity comes from being a simply awkward person feeling unsafe).

The topic doesn't happen really often so it's tolerable - I don't feel like an impostor too often. I don't find it worth it to break a friendship of many years just because of this issue since the topic isn't constantly brought up. Also I think these people would be severely heartbroken and I know one person isn't in the best headspace right now... seriously. I am afraid what they'd do if they found it out. I am serious here.

I feel you on so many levels. There was many times (after my friend's come out moment - because I feared they'd go medical transition route what I would be unable to stomach) when I wanted to suddenly delete all my social media, come back under some new name. Well, I didn't do this for reasons I mentioned before. I hope that with time there will be more and more info popping out, which should make these people question the ideology itself finally.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-17T09:22:44+00:00

How dare a therapist explore your issue with you instead of affirming you. I don't get how affirmation is seen as peak psychological intervention. It truly isn't. It's harmful if affirmation is the only basis of the psychotherapy.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-17T09:20:35+00:00

it wasn't trendy. And didn't make you some magical sparkly unicorn.

That's what I hate the most about today's LGBT movement and why I don't associate myself with it no matter how much people whine that "you can't just belong to LGBT, you are LGBT!" - no. I am content with knowing there is a concept explaining people like me and that's enough. I don't wanna be seen as some unicorn or alien, whose nature no one can understand.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-17T09:18:42+00:00

Damn, you get the f word pass if you just declare yourself to be non-binary. Straight people are insane.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-17T09:17:33+00:00

XY chromosomes, having (at some point) a dick (male genitalia) and being potentially capable of producing sperm means you're a real man already.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-17T09:16:04+00:00

I saw a similar version of this question but related to gender identity and it went similar. Cis -> many different versions of nonbinary switched ever since. My pipeline? Straight -> asexual, and only because I misunderstood straightness as being not gay (not being attracted to the same sex) not as being attracted to opposite sex... after understanding this I don't swap labels like new socks every day.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-15T11:06:51+00:00

One rainbow flag to represent everyone was truly enough

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-12T20:53:12+00:00

Same.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-07T13:26:09+00:00

Amazing! The flag should be always just rainbow. It represented everyone equally. Now it's obvious who is at the top of hierarchy with the progress flag.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-03T05:05:25+00:00

Asexual here. Never thought I'd be considered oppressed for the way I am. No one cares that I'm permanently singly and disinterested.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-03T04:55:42+00:00

Damn. Also aegosexual - where you have no problem thinking about having sex but when it actually is meant to happen you don't want it... how come this is asexuality?

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-02T09:20:06+00:00

It feels like more toxic and bizarre now forgotten hipster era.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-02T09:19:18+00:00

Damn, they truly fall for the blue-haired non-binary woman stereotype.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-02T09:16:14+00:00

One of these heteroromantic asexuals? Romantic attraction is still rooted in sexual attraction. You're just straight but afraid to fuck.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-10-02T09:14:38+00:00

Damn I even fucking hate it. I just see it as socially celebrated self-harm.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-09-28T06:01:39+00:00

They confirm what's the deal for them. Who is the most quirkly Olympics. I really like to think these are teens, who found a stupid way to rebell against adults...

INeedSomeTime · 2022-09-24T03:51:38+00:00

That was a fascinating read and I related to it. I always related to male characters more or male celebrities but I never really had typical girl crush fantasies about them. I saw them more as role models or just very intriguing people.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-09-24T03:48:07+00:00

Big agree with all that. And current definition of asexuality feels meaningless. Anyone can fit it if they really want to wave this label so bad.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-09-24T03:46:49+00:00

I am the worst person to even debate this but from what I've observed people do the thing because of the inner drive - therefore sexual attraction. There is a lot of virgin straight people who never dated or had sex but they are certain they're attracted to the opposite sex and the idea of sleeping with same sex is very off-putting to them.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-09-24T03:44:24+00:00

The split attraction model makes things really confusing. A lot of those alloromantic asexual will hate the truth that romantic attraction originates from sexual attraction.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-09-24T03:43:15+00:00

To answer OP from that Reddit post: yes. You're 14. You're in the middle of your puberty. You can't compare a teen questioning or identifying as gay/bi to being aroace. People really fail to see there is some difference here. In my case I truly began to explore my identity once I hit the age of 18. Before that I knew I was at the intense stage of sexual development so I could start feeling something I never felt at any moment so I never even bothered myself with labels. I was more like only questioning at certain age (when I was 16?).

INeedSomeTime · 2022-09-24T03:35:18+00:00

The progress flag itself shows who is the face of the current movement. It's just TQ clowns.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-09-21T08:38:33+00:00

Yeah I was always told that "you can't say you aren't LGBTQ+ since you are" but do these people fail to see LGBTQ+ it's not just some neutral descriptor of non-straight people? It's tied to a movement I disagree with and don't wanna be associated with.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-09-21T08:36:02+00:00

Honestly it's even easy to clock FtMs and they did the joy easier by themselves by spamming content with top surgery scars everywhere possible.

INeedSomeTime · 2022-09-21T08:34:19+00:00

That's how freedom looks! I hope one day all that crap with TQ+ is over.

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