Study that proves that Transgenderism is real (Supposedly)

Kai_Decadence · 2021-07-29T16:14:58+00:00

(In Maury voice) "You said that you have the brain of a female and we checked the scans and it turns out that was a lie. YOU ARE NOT FEMALE" lol

Kai_Decadence · 2020-10-02T22:28:02+00:00

STAHP lol

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-08T09:34:38+00:00

Sad thing is you spoke the truth but these muppets will never comprehend it because their heads are so far up their asses to not see reality.

Kai_Decadence · 2021-07-07T06:34:16+00:00

A-Freaking-Men. What a joke.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-09-23T18:13:13+00:00

SWEET MERCIFUL HEAVENS! I was not ready for that and I had to look away but point taken LOL Yeah that thing is not a vagina and never will be, just a mutilated cut up penis...

Kai_Decadence · 2024-05-21T20:55:40+00:00

Nooo

Kai_Decadence · 2022-10-14T23:43:23+00:00

As a gay men, these women are just as delusional as the "transbians"

Some mix of transmasc agender genderfluid

Like what...? Lol.

Mostly because when I tried to like guys when I didn't know I was trans it always felt wrong because I was pretending to be straight and since I'm a guy it just felt dysphoric and awkward

Why does it feel like there is more to this story? Was she facing a lot of rejection from guys? Is it because she didn't like the traditional gender roles in the relationships she was in? So many questions.

Kai_Decadence · 2021-09-17T10:39:44+00:00

D-Did this really happen???

Kai_Decadence · 2021-01-19T08:03:24+00:00

Kai_Decadence · 2021-01-18T21:13:03+00:00

He should do what Karen from You're Kiddin' Right said by going to his father and curse and scream at his balls for being born as a male.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-10-20T19:46:37+00:00

bUt lIkE WhATaboUT sTrAiGhT TrAnSWomEn? lol

Kai_Decadence · 2020-09-23T18:18:07+00:00

Okay watched more of it. Yeah no... I can't imagine a gay man looking at that phallus and wanting to go anywhere near that. I'm sorry but I just had to recoil knowing what that thing actually is... It's a totally eye scarring thing to see the procedure...

Kai_Decadence · 2020-09-13T04:46:06+00:00

Lmao I mean you're not wrong. Everything is transphobic to these people.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-01-14T00:12:04+00:00

If on lt could be a joke...

Kai_Decadence · 2022-08-06T19:58:11+00:00

How did that go?

Kai_Decadence · 2022-07-01T20:36:04+00:00

And that's valid and the objective truth, they aren't no matter how much body hair they grow and what fancy trendy haircut they get.

Kai_Decadence · 2022-06-23T07:17:38+00:00

Hm I see. So it's really just a non-conclusive theory at this point? And even with that, it just ties back to the "what did these brains look like" before they developed life experience type of deal.

Kai_Decadence · 2022-03-21T19:24:07+00:00

... "Them"? lol

Kai_Decadence · 2022-01-08T16:48:33+00:00

That's pretty cool to know lol. I don't meet many gays and lesbians in my personal life but I remember back in 2020, I had the opportunity to work with a coworker who happened to be a lesbian and I learned that she was annoyed that there were men on lesbian dating apps and when I told her I understood her, she just flat out said she doesn't believe men can be lesbians. It was amazing haha. I think you're right, I think that most know it's BS but aren't open about it because they don't want to deal with annoying TRA backlash.

Kai_Decadence · 2022-01-08T16:43:08+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear that. i heard that "HER" has gotten hit the worst when it comes to gender lunacy. On Grindr we're slowly getting there as I'm seeing more trans-identified females on there now compared to 3 years ago. And I'm even seeing more straight men appear on there as well (they say they're only looking for "FTM"). The girl you're talking about sounds like she is bisexual but I hope maybe things can work out, maybe if she gets to know you more and you have a deep heart to heart, you can sway her to come to reality. But yeah I've seen what you mean that there are a lot of Lesbians who believe in the whole "Queer" and trans bullshit which can make dating a battlefield for your ordinary lesbian.

Kai_Decadence · 2022-01-08T16:38:19+00:00

I think that's an interesting way to go about it. I don't think the trans stuff would pop up too much unless a big situation happens like what happened with Wii Spa or Johnathan Yaniv and so on but yeah, I can understand why you'd have to part when things get serious and they are saying contradictory things about our sexuality ("Lesbians can like dick" / "Gay men can like vaginas" lol)

Kai_Decadence · 2021-10-10T09:02:21+00:00

Yeah I agree with all you said. I actually was watching Karen Davis from You're Kidding Right where she was speaking with Jennifer Bilek and Jennifer mentioned something that is pretty true with how the trans thing seems to be more of a white thing then a black thing because black people have "culture". I had to step back and think about it and I think she made a decent observation. Because you don't typically see black men coming out as "transbians". You mostly just see black gay men transing out and it's because of internalized homophobia as well as dealing with homophobia in black dominated spaces as well as dealing with the hardships of being an effeminate gay man in general in the gay dating scene so they trans out thinking it will make their lives better (which it really doesn't) but anyway yeah, this is more than likely why black women have a harder time seeing the truth about transgender ideology.

But if more black women saw what many trans-identified men think of them as aka don't really consider them women because they aren't white women, I feel like they'd sooner see how misogynistic and racist the ideology is.

Kai_Decadence · 2021-09-17T20:53:34+00:00

I couldn't read through the whole story because I was getting annoyed at the situation and the ass kissing they were doing for this man but I got the gist. That poor woman, she didn't have a chance against this ex-marine and I can't believe people aren't seeing just how fucked up the situation is. As for the trans-identified man, it's clear why he thinks he's a woman, he came from a super homophobic background and I can sympathize as a gay man myself who is also on the feminine presenting side but I still think it's wrong that he participated in a woman's sports competition.

Kai_Decadence · 2021-08-29T18:17:06+00:00

Oh my I'm so sorry you went through that...

Kai_Decadence · 2021-08-28T03:08:44+00:00

Thank you, I do appreciate the kind words. I'm admittedly in a downer spot at this time but knowing myself, I'll more than likely bounce back soon. I just needed to vent because after losing the one last person who I thought would at least understand my point of view just really got to me.

Kai_Decadence · 2021-05-24T01:03:28+00:00

Wow? Even a sub like Veganism has that TRA nonsense? Seems like it invades all over lol. And yeah, aside from Goth being about music, the scene was also welcoming of gender nonconformity. It wasn't saying that men and women are the opposite if they prefer to look nonconforming but just that they'd be welcomed and not judged for it. It's already getting annoying because I see some people trying trans Rozz Williams....

Kai_Decadence · 2021-03-15T01:38:24+00:00

Why can't Blaire wear a regular top like most people?

Gets in the way of the fetish really.

Kai_Decadence · 2021-03-03T17:05:44+00:00

Of course he says that. He knows that gender roles are what keep people thinking that he himself is a delicate woman and not some feminine man in long hair extensions.

God I'm just remembering when he did that video titled "Living As a Man for a Day" or some title like that and it was so insipid. Aside from him having his acrylic nails still on, he didn't know how to pump gas, carry a pail of paint (or something I can't remember what was in it but they went to Home Depot for it), shoot a gun, and drink beer. It all just screamed "Teehee, I'm a delicate little woman see? I can't do this "man stuff"" lol.

Kai_Decadence · 2021-01-19T22:13:22+00:00

Same haha

Kai_Decadence · 2021-01-18T21:11:43+00:00

I'm gonna need to keep this in mind because I'll be releasing videos that speak out against the Trans ideology soon and while I am a man and I've heard that they don't go after men as much, I'm sure I'll still be a target because I'm not holding anything back. I hope Vanessa does what you say and contests the video. There's no actual hate speech in it so I can't imagine why she'd get denied.

Kai_Decadence · 2021-01-17T03:40:46+00:00

Sounds like your brother may have a tiny crush on Blaire and therefore needs Blaire to be a "real woman" in his mind.

LOL I don't think that's the case. My brother is gay and his type of guy he's into are masculine presenting plus he has a long-term boyfriend. So I don't think it's because he has a crush on Blaire, I just think he thinks that because Blaire knows his way around a makeup brush, some good photo editing tricks, and got breast implants, that's enough for him to think he's "like an actual female".

Unlike a lot of people here I do think Blaire passes pretty well and I do also believe that some people feel a lot more comfortable in a trans identity than any other way. Like you I absolutely worry about childhood medical intervention and parents pushing a trans bandwagon for their own reasons that have little to do with their child's actual welfare.

See, if I hadn't been exposed to Blaire's unedited photos that were uploaded by people who took pictures of him out in the wild, I would agree that he "passes" very well but after seeing those photos, the smoke has lifted for me. I actually was able to find the source video of where the infamous leaks of Blaire's unedited face came from. This is the video where those images came from. He was a guest on an Instagramer named EthanIsSupreme where he did Blaire's makeup but unlike Blaire, he doesn't use FaceTune for his videos and we got to see what Blaire looks like without the filters

I do also believe that some people feel a lot more comfortable in a trans identity than any other way. Like you I absolutely worry about childhood medical intervention and parents pushing a trans bandwagon for their own reasons that have little to do with their child's actual welfare.

Right. I mean I'll put it like this. If these trans-identified men (and women) were just keeping it to themselves and their inner circle, not pushing this kinda stuff onto children, not invading women's spaces & sanctions (the TIMS), and not shaming people to date/sleep with them, I wouldn't have a problem. I mean , I still wouldn't think they were actually the opposite sex but I wouldn't be talking about it as much.

Kai_Decadence · 2021-01-12T22:53:55+00:00

-Playing the Jeopardy theme in the background- lol

I only spot two. Elliot Page and and Magdalen Berns. The res are clearly men of various alternative hairstyle and makeup choices...

Kai_Decadence · 2020-12-17T19:00:19+00:00

He said all that, just to say "transwomen are women because they're feminine" ?

I believe so... Initially the thing that sparked that response was when I was explaining to him that "Woman is not a feeling" because according to him, "Transwomen are women because they FEEL female" and all I did was respond with the deifnition of "woman" followed by the definition of female and then asked "How do you feel female" and then he responded with "You have an outdated view and science doesn't agree with you" and then proceeded to post that word salad that he found on Google.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-12-17T18:28:16+00:00

Would it be fair to say that as soon as they started adding bisexuals, it was downhill from there? I'm not trying to hate on bisexuals, I know not all of them are a certain way but most of the problems do stem from them in Lesbian/Gay spaces. For example, because bisexuals can be attracted to both sexes, of course on average they wouldn't be as bothered seeing men calling themselves "Transbians" or on the gay side (my home front), women calling themselves men. Like we all know those bisexual girls who call their relationships with trans-identified men a "Lesbian" relationship or bisexual man dating a trans-identified woman a "Gay Relationship".

Kai_Decadence · 2020-10-14T16:04:02+00:00

I remember watching this skit years ago (Was big into Mad TV) and of course I laughed at how ridiculous the concept was but low and behold, after a few years THIS is the reality....

Kai_Decadence · 2020-10-02T22:27:41+00:00

Haha I don't blame you. I'm actually originally from California before I moved to where I am now at 15 and I would say how I want to move back there someday because I liked the weather there but that was like back in 2009 and seeing where it is now, yeah I don't wanna go back lol

Kai_Decadence · 2020-10-02T15:36:35+00:00

Women can have penises too. Lesbians don't always like pussy, they like girldick as well, don't be afraid of mouthfeel and don't be a bigot /s

Kai_Decadence · 2020-10-02T15:16:42+00:00

Yep, I've seen the frankenweenie that these "Transmen" get and yeah no thanks, it doesn't compare to the real thing.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-09-30T19:07:34+00:00

Euuuughh.... That was painful to read but also funny lol.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-09-24T20:47:49+00:00

Haha you're welcome lol

Kai_Decadence · 2020-09-23T18:27:43+00:00

Yeah... I just finished the whole video. Not sure if I'll watch it again but I'll definitely have it saved for "those" people you mentioned. Absolutely horrific, especially that infection flesh wound that I think they were draining. Just HOW? How can anyone see that and think "Yep, total transformation". And yeah no arm dick is gonna feel like the real thing.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-09-17T07:32:33+00:00

Yep that's him. He started calling himself trans a few years ago after he kept calling himself a "lesbian male".

Kai_Decadence · 2020-09-16T06:03:10+00:00

Yep he most certainly is. Funny thing about that. Do you remember that Q&A video he did with his boyfriend (I think it was titled "Is Joey Gay?") and in it, he asked Joey if he ever found men that "look like you" (masculine looking) attractive. He obviously said no but then Blaire just automatically went to the next question that was a different topic. Don't you find it odd that he didn't continue and asked "Okay what about really feminine guys?" Lmao it was so obvious what he was doing by avoided that follow up lol.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-09-15T20:32:57+00:00

Since hardly any TIMs get their penises inverted, I think it's an error to think about this issue only if it's framed this way.

Oh for sure. I know most TIMs never have their penis' inverted haha. I just had to use a hypothetical because you know, "those" people love to come up with all kinds of "Buts" you know?

I think you might be making a very big error in assuming that what men (gay, bi or straight) are drawn to in these types of situations is "how feminine" and "hyper effeminate" the other guy is. Often, men are attracted to effeminate men not because the other men are effeminate, but in spite of it. Amongst gay and bi culture, it's never been seen as a big plus for a guy to be effeminate; men who want men tend to want men who are "manly" not "girly." "Torch Song Trilogy" anyone? And "The Birdcage?" The fact that men are not attracted to femininity of effeminacy in other men is one of the reasons that TIMs find it so difficult to find anyone to date them. And it's one of the reasons so many effeminate gay guys I've known for many decades have found their love lives so disappointing. The gay community can be just as cruelly masculinist as the straight world.

Oh trust me friend, I've thought about all that and came up with so many answers to it though it took about a few years and deep critical thinking. For example...

The fact that men are not attracted to femininity of effeminacy in other men is one of the reasons that TIMs find it so difficult to find anyone to date them.

I'm a feminine gay man who presents quite femininely / EXTRA lol. Like I think back to all the guys (which aren't a ton) that I attracted and all of them with the exception of one were bisexuxal. The only gay guy I ever attracted was when I was 18 and not dressing as femininely as I do now. And I compared notes with a few other guys just like myself who shared a similar history of attracting bisexual men. However a big problem I noticed is that these Bisexual men were always vocal about how they didn't want to date me, only sleep with me and again, heard similar stories from other feminine presenting gay men. Which leads too how some effemiante gay men think they can escape this unfulfilling dating life if they transition and think that in doing this, they'll have access to straight men and when they don't for the obvious reason (straight men don't date/sex other men), they end up just attracting the same gynephelic bisexuals who they attracted to before they grew hormone tits and you guessed it, a lot of these bi men only want them for sex. So it's like you just can't escape it the harsh dating reality of being a feminine, non-masculine looking man. Gay men usually want masculine partners (including the feminine guy himself) and bisexual men only want us for sex and not much else.

I hope you won't mind me asking: why is putting labels on other people based on who they are attracted to and have sex with so important to you anyways?

I think there's something being lost in translation. I'm not trying to shame bisexuals or anything like that, I encourage bisexuals to be more honest with themselves. Straights and Gays, we already do this but the amount of closeted bisexuals (usually men) I come across who hit on me and then try to jump through mental hoops to justify their attraction is really sad and I think need to be addressed and encouraged but it just stems from self-internalized homophobia (acknowledging that they can find men attractive, just in this case nonconforming effeminate men). I know it sounds like a lot of word salad but i'm actually working on a video talking about this kind of stuff so I would suggest staying tune and giving it a watch when I have it up, I plan to have it up before the year ends. :)

Again, I'll be giving those movies a watch!

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-24T06:26:49+00:00

As a gay man myself who doesn't buy into Transgender ideology, I agree with this. I've been called a "Terf" and/or "transphobe" by a good few Gay men and when I explain to them why I believe what I do, it's like they don't even listen or think about what I'm saying, especially when I tell them to put themselves in the shoes of the average woman who has to deal with losing women only spaces and whatnot. You're right that these TRAs need to invade and be their obnoxious selves in the gay subs and maybe then will they finally get the picture.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-24T06:13:01+00:00

Exactly. It's like these idiots think that because Black women have different features than a Caucasian women, it like cancels out their biological reality because of the stereotype that "Black women look like men", it's insulting and stupid because at the end of the day it's just like you said, Black women are women so the argument is pointless.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-21T15:23:24+00:00

"Report her, she's spreading misinformation with no scientific grounds"

Oh fuck off. The doctor HAS to mention this stuff so the patient is aware of what they're doing to themselves so they're not liable for a lawsuit. Mad respect to the doctor and I hope she doesn't lose her job over standard procedure.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-21T15:18:55+00:00

So fucking dumb lol

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-08T23:23:10+00:00

"Time Vampires" is the best word to describe them haha.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-08T23:08:10+00:00

Yeah I did try pointing him to Ray Blanchard's studies on the HSTS vs Straight trans-identified men but he shot it down saying that it's all anecdotal and "bias".

You're kind of wrong about not being able to tell sexes apart with an MRI scan though. You can do it in about 95% of cases, and where you can't it's usually because the person is gay and got an atypical hormone exposure in the womb.

Well the thing I was arguing wiith him about is that there's no standard to compare the brain to. Even if we homosexual males do share similar brain structures to that of females, I was just trying to explain to him that if the brain sex theory was true, wouldn't it make more sense to have trans-identified people take mandatory brain scans to make sure they are making a informed decision before they "transition"?

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3180619/

Yeah I actually just got through reading that and I'll send that to him if responds back as well as the other one. But I remember showing him this site for reference

https://www.pnas.org/content/112/50/15468?fbclid=IwAR3SluVjPC6mbqu0fU7km0E_QmSYe0r5-7axHEC4P4_4tbZnu2h-tiqmcok

And he responded with this lol

"Look at the letters that https://www.pnas.org/content/112/50/15468 generated (available in that same web page) and you will see that the question of "brain sex" seems to be far from settled."

And I mean of course it's not "settled", people have been trying to find the female brain for a long time and the closest thing they found was some slight similarity when it comes to Homosexual brains but that doesn't make us homosexuals trapped in the wrong body or some nonsense like that.

And when I tried to use the "I think therefor I am" analogy by saying that if men can be women just because they think they are women then Rachel Dolezal is a black woman because she feels like she is one and that Nato lady from Norway is a cat because she thinks she's a cat, he pretty much said that because race is a social construct, that means that Rachel can definitely be a black woman and that there's nothing wrong wit ha person transitioning from white to black or vice versa ( you just can't make this stuff up). Right before he said that me mentioning WomenAreHuman lowers my credibility even more.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-08T22:02:10+00:00

It's just some guy who messaged me on my personal FB asking why I got banned from a group. At the time I didn't know why I was banned and he said he's ask the moderator why and then he confronted me asking me if I was "tranpshobic" because that was the reason why I got banned from the group. And we kinda just got into this conversation turned debate. You're right that I shouldn't be wasting anymore time with him, especially if he won't even look at the sources I'm linking to explain my points.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-08T21:59:52+00:00

Exactly, I think it's harder when it comes from women being so complacent with the way trans ideology is bulldozing over women's spaces like not caring if men use the women's restroom or going to women's shelters. Like I've gotten called a "white knight" a few times form women saying that I'm not gonna get any points to sleep with women by speaking out against trans even though I am clearly a gay man lol

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-08T17:13:30+00:00

THIS. That's how it is for a lot of them. Watching "sissy" porn and similar related fetish.

Kai_Decadence · 2020-08-07T22:05:46+00:00

Yep unfortunately gay men who are against Trans ideology get put on the chopping block as well but it's ironic because me being a gay man, a feminine non-conforming one at that, it's the other part of what made it so easy to see why the trans ideology was faulty since part of it relies heavily on social gender norms and that people like me or the butch lesbians, we disrupt the gender norms and show that it's not some innate thing (Men are born feminine, women are born feminine).

And yeah making friends as you get older is definitely hard, I'm one year away from 30 and I really haven't had any friends since high school, just a small online group but the GC stuff is definitely complicating things more. I hope you're right that more people peak hopefully soon.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-12-29T21:37:29+00:00

Haha for real, and I'm hearing that James is a bit of a misogynist so him running with the Mulan bastardization makes even more sense because oh no, a woman character can't be more than the stereotypes lambasted onto them. Eugh. I'm just glad the original Mulan movie came out in the 90s because if it came out today, they would've totally made her trans-identified, like it would be revealed at the end of the movie.. .

Kai_Decadence · 2023-12-12T08:45:16+00:00

It was quite surprising to learn just how big of a plagiarist scumbag this dude really was. Granted I was never a fan of this guy and had only seen like 2 of his videos which I found contrived but it was still surprising to learn about nonetheless. I watched HBomberguy video and I was getting constantly annoyed of him referring to gays and lesbians as "queers" and then the whole Mulan thing saying her story was also a "gender allegory" (no the fuck it wasn't).

Kai_Decadence · 2023-10-16T21:49:55+00:00

That's awesome to hear. I actually finally did get around to just getting the video, it took a good 2 years but I finally was able to finish and publish it a few months ago this year :)

Kai_Decadence · 2023-08-28T02:43:36+00:00

I agree that it's absolutely stupid to give someone like him praise for saying that you're against child abuse and saying women shouldn't have to date/sex with troons when it's like no duh, that's just common sense. He only comments on things that work in his favor of getting outward public approval but notice how he has remained absolutely silent on Kellie-Jay Keen and the #LetWomenSpeak event. He hasn't given any opinion on what he thinks about KJK, a loud prominent voice trying to organize and get all men (she doesn't play along calling him with she/her pronouns) out of women only spaces. And with #LetWomenSpeak he hasn't mentioned what he thinks about the TRAs who have assaulted and terrorized the women who attend.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-08-28T02:39:11+00:00

FuckMeOrElse

I've never heard this term but that got a good chuckle out of me. But yes, it's apparent to those who pay attention that he doesn't care about women and girls and only cares about his own self-interest which is appearing reasonable on the surface speaking out against the more outwardly volatile TRAs but in reality, he still takes advantage of women only spaces with the belief he should be given special treatment.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-07-25T07:46:15+00:00

I'm not sure what you mean by the timestamp thing but the video is not clickbait. Is it provocative? Sure but all I say in it I mean 100% with no pretense and with all I dip into in the video, it's arguing facts and logic. And this goes into the comments I have been getting in how I am countering those trying to argue against me. A lot of them are doing exactly what I highlighted in the video via throwing intersex people under the bus, refusing to answer simple questions, and/or using arbitrary stereotypes.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-07-22T03:50:32+00:00

That's a fair point and to ad to the TIMs who want to be anime characters, I think part of it also has to do with fetishizing the character if the TIM in question is straight or bisexual. They want to skinwalk the character and be sexual.

And funny enough I tended to relate female characters a lot more than male characters growing up. In Pokemon I liked Misty. In Digimon I liked Sora. In X-Men I liked Rogue and so on. Though I think it's mainly because a lot of male characters just didn't have personalities I related with compared to female characters. Like the closest male character example I could relate to was Bakura from Yu-Gi-Oh (the good guy, not evil bakura lol) and Kurama from Yu Yu Hakusho lol.

And I'm sure that some guys do feel like they have to be a masculine man by peer pressure (from other men). I think this is what can explain when some ex-military men come out as TIMs and do a 180 on their life.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-05-02T16:48:51+00:00

I'm gay man so I'm not on lesbian dating apps but I remember a few years back when I was conversing with one of my coworkers who happened to be a lesbian, when I came out to her in the sense of not believing in trans ideology, she confided in me that her experience on the lesbian dating apps was frustrating because she kept getting hit up by TIMs on "HER". This was back in 2019 and I wouldn't be surprised if it got worse.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-04-01T06:03:44+00:00

Thanks for the welcome and no problem! Definitely take your time with this one because it's a long one lol

Kai_Decadence · 2023-03-31T10:22:22+00:00

The comment section for the most part is pretty good so far. A few ridiculous ones in the mix but most of the feedback has been positive and I'd like to believe that on the more crazier ones, I've been holding my own countering them.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-01-16T04:14:07+00:00

I have seen what you're saying and I think I have an explanation for this. Obvious reason is that many of these TRAs are huge geeks (I don't mean this in a bad way, I'm a geek myself lol). This trans bullshit has infected geek fandom/culture (gaming & anime especiallly)and I'd say it's where you'll see the trans crap the most.

Now if we're talking about the TRAs who are actually trans-identified? My suspicion is that a lot of these TIMs see themselves as these anime characters. I feel like this has become much of a thing ever since mainstream gaming has went online and in the wake of avatar culture where you're able to create your own character. The most common example being Final Fantasy 14 where you see a large sizeable population of these TIMs. But aside from that, you also have the TRA TIMs who just simply latch onto their favorite female character and want so badly to be them which is what makes them fall into the delusion of thinking they can become them.

But that's just my own theory of course.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-01-14T23:21:52+00:00

It's just ridiculous though.... I get the horse thing but you know that this is what these (obvious) men want, they can say that "transwoman" is not the same as "woman" but let's be real, they know deep down that the word associates with "woman" and that's where they get their euphoria from...

Kai_Decadence · 2023-01-14T23:20:47+00:00

That's a fair compromise. I personally just can't get myself to call obvious men in dresses and makeup "transgender person" when I know it's a man... And vice versa with masculinized women but I get your approach.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-01-14T04:31:39+00:00

That's an interesting perspective and though I would rather just call these people what they are objectively, I think that calling a trans-identified man a "transman" and trans-identified woman a "transwoman", that could be a compromise that doesn't object biological reality.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-01-02T01:36:00+00:00

From what I've observed, a lot of them are definitely straight but call themselves "queer". I've said it before and I'll keep saying it but I haven't met much of any fellow gays or lesbians who call themselves "queer", it's usually bisexual and/or straight women who do this and of course they would, they aren't completely same sex attracted so they won't fully understand why many gays and lesbians don't use that word to describe ourselves.

Kai_Decadence · 2023-01-02T01:28:34+00:00

seek out people in the community that feel the way you do so you know you have friends there.

But that's the hard part, finding artists in these fandom/spaces that don't believe in TQ+ If we're all hiding, how do we find each other?

Kai_Decadence · 2023-01-02T01:25:59+00:00

I just couldn't handle how grating it was, interacting with all of those TQ+ people.

This is really pushing me as well. I try to ignore it all but what's really getting to me is when I'm seeing younger artists in their teens and early 20s saying how they want to have "top surgery" and how they're "non-binary" or "transmen" and it's getting to a point where I can't ignore it. These youths don't understand that "top surgery" is gonna be something they regret (especially when they develop phantom nipple pain). And the way some older TRA artists are blindly encouraging this stuff makes it even more horrifying and all the more reason why I want to come and speak out against this because the common thing you here from those who do "detransition" is that they wished someone would've not affirmed them and was brutally honest about what they were risking instead of blindly affirming them.

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