Did you first think you were lesbian/gay or straight before understanding you were bi? Or did you accept it right away? by usehername in Bisexuals

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I thought I was lesbian at first because I'm super into women, and I was always a tomboy growing up, very masculine, but I have found two males cute and very attractive, so I know im a bisexual. I would say it's 90/10 in terms of me being more attracted to women then men. I like my sexuality and who I am, but it's hard to not find my group of people online. Lesbians at least have lchat to go to, I've been on there, and have been rejected for being bi, been called a men lover when I'm a total girls girl. It's been a learning curve to try to find a good space online to share my views and opinions with. I totally understand lesbians need to have their own space, and I would never disrespect what lesbians had to go through to gain more acceptance in society. I wish there could be more solidarity between bis and lesbians though.

Bisexual forums? by gloomy_bear in Bisexuals

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They call and refer to people like us as febfems as in female exclusive bisexual females, but I don't know if they have good forums for us to go to. I've been on reddit and was treated like shit for posting my views, so I avoid lgbt forums on reddit and other places now. I lurk on lchat, but they don't like it when bis are posting there.

I'm a bi that prefers women to men in terms of physical attraction. I was banned from lgbt ainbow and actualesbians subreddits. Anyone have a similar experience?? by Newbie27 in Bisexuals

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To clarify, I'm a bisexual woman who strongly prefers women over men.

Do you prefer one sex over the other or both equally? by gloomy_bear in Bisexuals

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I Strongly prefer women over men as a bisexual woman. I feel like this is one of the harder positions to be in because lesbians reject you for being men lovers, I never really fit in anywhere on the online lgbt communities, reddit was not at all accepting of my opinions I posted on there, etc.

"Banned From..." & Censorship mega-thread by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

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I was so bullied on reddit lgbt forums i started crying, apparently saying that women are more beautiful then men is bigoted, and not objective, I'm a bi who prefers women over men, I could not even believe what I was seeing. Banned from ainbow and lgbt forums and countless other forums within a day, really thought I'd find a community of likeminded people but found a bunch of passive aggressive bullies instead. I felt so emotionally drained from being bullied, I couldn't believe it.

Are you only attracted to masculinity or femininity, or do you like both? by throwaway999 in Bisexuals

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My definition of femininity is a classically beautiful woman, who radiates a feminine energy, and carries herself gracefully, you'll know it when you see it type of thing.

Are you only attracted to masculinity or femininity, or do you like both? by throwaway999 in Bisexuals

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I like femininity way more. I find myself super attracted to feminine looking straight women the most, as a bisexual woman that prefers women. I myself am very masculine for a woman, pretty butch myself. The type of feminine women I like are, for example, mariana larrabure de orbegoso who was miss peru 1998.

What's the hardest part of being bisexual? by PatsyStone in Bisexuals

[–]Newbie27 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a bi who's more attracted to women then men as a bisexual woman. It's so hard you're rejected by lesbians, I was treated like a pariah on reddit, I'm pretty much a women leaning bisexual woman , but i feel like I'll never find my people so to speak. I feel like I'm rejected everywhere I go to online on lgbt spaces. I was called a men lover on lchat, etc.