Sunday Social - open chat! by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, that was an annoying few days

Greece's rigthwing goverment wants to to legalize gay marriage and adoption by MyLongestJourney in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hopefully they're able to see where the line is before they go too far. I don't think it's an inherently slippery slope, they just need to make sure no one lubricates it before they give us our rights.

This was to be the "Gay episode" of Star Trek:The Next Generation, but it's amazing how it fits gender ideology, even way back then. by xandit in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, it's hard to say how much it actually fits gender ideology and how much gender ideology has tried to use these kinds of talking points. And while it makes sense that they weren't about to explain sexual reproduction on TV, him going to "snips and snails and puppy dog tails" as his first explanation of the difference between men and women was a bit odd.

Late bloomer asks for advice, AGPs make it all about them by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Especially if they can offer something that people afraid to come out see as a way to reconcile their sexuality with still being straight. Someone afraid to come out as homosexual may receive less backlash in some situations if they come out as a trans heterosexual instead. See Iran, which offers medical transition as an alternative to prison time for homosexual men.

Leopard ate his face by xandit in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Dang I forgot that they changed the app name and thought you were sending a link to a different kind of website for a moment...

She came out... as asexual by RedJackal in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It may be that the gender crowd has made so much focus on who is or isn't in your sexuality datability/fuckability groups that people who can't be bothered to give a damn about sorting every human they meet in terms of sex (so nearly anyone outside the gender crowd) think there's something unique about them for being normal humans who aren't totally sex obsessed.

It would be like if people who drove cars to commute started identifying as pedestrians because vocal car nuts have garages bigger than their houses with a dozen vehicles inside and normal drivers don't think that they count anymore for having just one car.

Big Handmaiden Energy (definitely NSFW) by RedJackal in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's like big tobacco embracing and encouraging the public's shift from cigarettes to vapes. It's the same big bad wanting to do the same harm, but now it's more colorful, hip, and is easier to advertise to children.

What’s the ratio of sexualities in trans people? (Very telling) by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Are none of them curious why so few trans people identify as straight?

Actually, never mind. If they did question that, their idea would probably be to transition all the homosexuals out there to turn us into straight trans people.

Gen Failed on /r/ lgbtttttttttttttt by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ok, so intersex people are a unique exception to an otherwise general application rule. Tell me, how many trans people have any intersex conditions?

I don't think this is sending the right message at all... by MarkJefferson in LGB

[–]Three_oneFour 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

About the worst possible analogy to use if support was the goal. Unless we're expected to tie ourselves together like Ian Malcolm did on the helicopter in Jurassic Park?

Interesting thread by xandit in LGB

[–]Three_oneFour 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's almost as though gays existed and were fighting for our rights before a certain drag queen didn't attend a specific riot in recent history.

LGB men and women are and have always been fighters. We don't rely on anyone else for our progress, we carved it out ourselves.

Used to identify as bi despite never wanting to be with a woman by Chocolatepudding in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These people see sexualities and genders like fashion statements. Being bi is chic and popular? Jump on the bandwagon. Pansexuality is sooo fantastic? Slap that label on every social media bio. Being gay is a last resort? Might as well do a third coming out of the closet. I wish people would stop identifying as what is fun and start being what they are.

Reactions to the Burger King meme? by reluctant_commenter in LGB

[–]Three_oneFour 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

If Burger King really wants to be an ally, they must experience the dreaded top shortage firsthand!

Reactions to the Burger King meme? by reluctant_commenter in LGB

[–]Three_oneFour 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Is the pride whopper a thing you can actually buy? If so, I think this is a good trolling opportunity to buy up all the tops or all the bottom buns from a store and leave them with too many of the other.

Has anyone else opted-out of relationships? by NutterButterFlutter in LGB

[–]Three_oneFour 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not wasting effort on trying to find a relationship, but it at time feels like that's because my area has no availability. My college has, like, 6 other gay guys in it and they're already dating each other. The rest of my town seems to have no people in my age range at all, let alone gay men. I could look for a local daddy, but I'm not looking for that kind of relationship dynamic. If I find any single gay man within 5 years of my own age, I'll probably try to ask him out, but that search isn't turning up any results.

/r/SuperBis appears to have been co-opted some time in the last 90 minutes by wafflegaff in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

haha, nice

A transwoman visits AGB to lambast the gays for hoarding tops and bottoms… by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Top and Bottom as nouns are already unhelpful enough in the gay community, I don't think we should be exporting that. Topping and bottoming can be verbs very easily, just to point out, but identifying as a Top or as a Bottom can be restrictive to one's thinking. There are lots of ways to enjoy sexual pleasure with someone that aren't anal.

AGB asks the question: "Where is it all going wrong?" by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

True. The right didn't make great predictions, but they'll claim the victory of "we said bad shit would follow gay marriage, and it did" even if the specifics were as wrong as can be. And that claimed victory means people who may have at one point been on the fence are now going to see "credibility" on the right and inconsistency on the left.

In politics, no one is opposed to pretending they said something different to make it seem like they knew what was happening all along, but some situations are easier to work that than others.

AGB asks the question: "Where is it all going wrong?" by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's because there is a certain group which was allowed to prove that the slippery slope predicted by the right was an accurate prediction and not a fallacy. They said that if we gave gays rights, then people would go after the kids. It may not be the gays going after the kids, but a lot of gays sure are complacent with letting the people going after kids associate themselves with us.

Was there ever an anti-LGB backlash to an ad campaign with similar consequences to the Bud Light fiasco? by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

To be fair, bud light wouldn't make any sales if they tried selling the beer as just beer. Lifestyle advertising is the only way they sell anything. That, and I think being cheaper than anything worth drinking?

They just want to exist by xandit in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I suppose the argument is 100% disingenuous but not entirely false. To exist, they need to do all these things because without controlling culture to focus on them, their "community" will fizzle out and cease to exist altogether. So they do "just" want to exist, but their existence requires them to violate so many other things.

A moment of self-awareness until the hugbox hits by NutterButterFlutter in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 10 insightful - 9 fun10 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

"Does the fact that I'm a man mean that I am not a lesbian woman?

No, it's the cis that are wrong!"

What was we talking about just the other day... by Chocolatepudding in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What do you mean real life relationships with gay men aren't exactly like in the yaoi comics made by straight women for straight women? Surely these infallible signs that a woman is actually a man wouldn't lie to anyone!

Life was so much less complicated before feminine gay men became lesbians by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You mean you want more men to dress like they're from Panam's Capitol? I suppose if there was a way to do that with less obliviousness to poverty and child murder, then sure, to each their own.

Won't somebody please think of the fujoshis?! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hmm, no one mentioned anything about trans people in this comic, yet the commenter was able to draw the connection all on their own. It's almost as though these people know what they're doing, but refuse to admit it while simultaneously getting super offended when anyone gets close to pointing it out.

Look at all those liars on Reddit. This DOES NOT HAPPEN! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hmm, really goes against the narrative that us yucky gays and all the straights out there have made it impossible for them to simply exist and put up so many roadblocks to them getting the treatments they "need"

“Lesbian” Day of Visibility celebrated at the White House by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because women and gay men are no longer trendy to support. it's all about the TQIA++++ stuff now. Biden may be old, but even he can see the current hotness in political fashion!

Sir, you're not a lesbian, you're pornsick! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Well yeah, once you're willing to screw with someone that far into fucked up roleplay and body modifications, it isn't much of a jump to go into heavy BDSM stuff.

This would be like me pointing out that lots of guys at the leather convention are into dom/sub play

Where is this fixation coming from? No one is coming for you... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So they recognize that we are trying to leave them because they are dragging us down? What happened to the narrative that we rely on them for everything?

"Juliet was a drag queen!" by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The TQ+ crowd has always tried to rewrite every drag queen and cross dresser in history as trans. I guaruntee that they'll claim every actor and character from the Tudor era was an egg in a time where they weren't allowed to come out.

Never would've happened if lesbians had a say in it... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"Lesbians don't appreciate when men wave their dicks around then rudely, how do I make this a better situation for everyone?"

You can start by not encouraging men to sling their dicks around lesbians

AGB>30 mod goes on virtue-signaling tirade/purge by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ideologies that can stand on their own don't need to punish all doubt with hard bans and silencing. If you rely on enforcing silence against those who don't follow your doctrine perfectly, then maybe your doctrine is the problem.

Shocked pikachu face: Nearly every person in my school's LGBT club detransitioned or came out as straight. What? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Those clubs seem to turn into TQ+ echo chambers. I checked out my college's club once, but left after seeing there was one gay man (a TRA himself), maybe 2 lesbian women, and 10 or so people who were either nonbinary women, or trans identified women. I think the one gay man was literally the only biological man there, yet nearly a third of the members identified as men.

This little cultist is here to scare you into looking past your "tastes" and fucking straight women instead! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

of course, the ironic part is there is a "they" who has been coming for us for years now. We were making progress at getting "them" to back off, but then the trans community came up and crossed a line that is pushing more people with greater ferver to push back, and we're getting caught in the middle because the TQ+ has leeched onto the LGB

"Well, now we can't do any research." by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How is it that any potential cure for actual diseases and illnesses needs an insane amount of data only able to be collected by jumping through hoops before the FDA will let it be used anywhere ever, but these uses for dugs and surgery are encouraged without any evidence that it does any good or does no harm?

One day the light is going to come on for these poor sill women and they’re going to crash so badly by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well yeah, yaoi is made by straight women for straight women. If a straight woman likes and relates to yaoi, that's because the woman author made it so. Yaoi is not representative of actual gay men and is not targeted at gay men.

This decade will one day be known as the Breastless Twenties by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Aren't breast reductions already a thing? The fact that breast implants and reductions have been - well, reduced - to being considered only a thing trans people do is so awful.

Oh look, homosexuals are pedos again! This time the statement comes from TRAs! Full circle! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. If "gay" and "lesbian" mean "identifies as a man and is attracted to 'men'" and "identifies as a woman and is attracted to 'women,'" and "same sex attracted" somehow is pedophillic while gay and lesbian are not, then their logic would dictate that minors cannot be gay or lesbian, or otherwise they would need to identify as adults and only be attracted to adults. Their on the spot made up definitions leave no room for teenagers to have sexual attraction.

This is all a whataboutism distraction.

"Don't Say Gay" by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They say that we all need to stay together in order to fight against conservative bigotry, but the truth is that they need us to have any chance at survival. Without the TW+, gay rights worldwide might be better in nearly every country

The hurt is real by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I was confused at first because I know so little about makeup I thought there was some connection between mascara the makeup and scissors the cutting tool. I'm pretty sure they're not interchangeable, but that first 2 seconds had me questioning my thoughts

Why can’t her hateful wife celebrate their newfound status as a heterosexual couple? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The same people who act like sexuality is about identified gender then turn around and act like it's a huge mystery that a straight woman wouldn't want to date a "woman"

Their own logic would dictate that the moment a person's partner's gender identity is no longer compatible with their sexuality, the attraction should stop. But the moment this seems to work in practice, they act like it's a personal attack.

It almost makes me wonder if they don't actually respect people's sexuality, and just say whatever is most convenient and would give them the most sexual partners through coercion?

Sex with TiF brings revelation to gay man - but not the one she was hoping for by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wow. That comment was terrible. A man deals with an unloving mother his whole childhood, carrying that around with him into adulthood, and then breaks down when he finally does what she always wanted him to be and realizes once and for all that he can't be it, and this woman is bitching that it's invalidating? Why are these people so fragile?

So you DO need to fuck 'em to be an ally, huh? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If gender and sex are supposed to be totally different things, why isn't it ok for people to be attracted only to one sex?

Isn’t everyone? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

As long as you like the label LGBT+, you are a beautiful part of it

That's not how it works. That's not how anything works. There is no other label or category or group in pretty much all of existence that has only the requirement of liking the label to be a part of it. And pretty much no category would exclude you for no reason other than not liking the label.

another round of 'what just happened?' by Hannibalboy93 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

If straight men aren't going to find it, I doubt a gay man is going to know much more about it

I am a self-absorbed twit in a hetero relationship, and my bf doesn't like when I use the term "partner" by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The only time I would really use the term "partner" is to refer to a plural group that includes both sexes and/or several relationship statuses, such as boy/girlfriend, fiance, and spouce. To use it singularly in any situation where the sex and relationship status of the person in question is known is unnecessary in the majority of situations in the modern first world. And of course, these people get off on being pointlessly complicated

You all LGB people are just boring and uncool by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Imagine being such a boring individual with nothing of value to provide to anyone anywhere that you invent a sexuality to try and have just a modicum of anything happening in your life other than being a waste of oxygen.

Not even bothering to include LBG in Pride anymore by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think it has to do with stephen universe at all, it's just "the corporate artstyle" at this point. If anything, I'd call it the symptom of a trend of flat, ugly, single use, disposable everything that's cropping up in every corner of society. People seem to want speed and convenience, not quality or longevity anymore. Fuck, I sound like a boomer rn, but it's a legit concern. We make low quality garbage products that break after a day if a new trend hasn't rendered them obsolete by then, and then this garbage is thrown away into landfills or the ocean. This corporate artstyle is just the digital version of that. Mass produceable garbage clipart that no one cares about and get's thrown into the recycling bin as soon as a different color combinaton or incorrect human body proportion becomes the trend of the hour.

Not even bothering to include LBG in Pride anymore by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because it's easy, cheap, mostly inoffensive, and adaptable to anything and everything. You're not meant to look at it for any length of time. It's just for you to have bright colors and high contrast lines shoved at your face in an attempt to make you more receptive to whatever they're shilling

"I'm LGBTQ+" by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

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They want everyone to be unique and special while also identifying with the whole entity that cannot contain everyone without problems. It's obscene

Ah teenage gay boy drama... no, wait... by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So this woman has a friend and a crush, both of whom are gay men, and she is now mad that the two gay men are going out with each other instead of her?

#LGBDropTheT is trending on Twitter, and the TRAs are seething by FediNetizen in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Good. The more we can show that people do not want these two groups to be thrown together, the more organizations may stop bending over backwards for a homophobic group of monsters

Ooooh yeah, that's it, talk gender neutral to me baby by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't get it. People still use "partner" super often as well, which just feels like you're intentionally hiding the sex of your partner. In homophobic areas, it makes sense to use gender neutral language so you don't need to lie and flat out say you're straight, but in a setting where people are accepting of gay relationship? Just call him your boyfriend or husband and call her your girlfriend or wife. Especially when straight people use partner, it's annoying. The term was used to hide the fact that we're gay. It isn't a fun and quirky thing to say.

Ooooh yeah, that's it, talk gender neutral to me baby by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

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Yes daddy~

Disney's is pushing sexuality onto kids before their time in their woke movies. Look at this degeneracy. by MarkJefferson in LGBDropTheT

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I think the lesbian bias is because most homphobes fall into one or both of the following: they fetishize lesbians, or their hatred of homosexuality is relating to some ancient book talking about sex, and sex is defined by the presence of a penis, and therefore lesbians are ok or otherwise less terrible because they can't have "real" sex. Gay men are the absolute worst because they defy what men "ought" to do and pervert their antiquated idea of sex by doing it up another guy's butt rather than in a vagina. Lesbians are not terrible because they don't have "real" sex and straight men often love to watch lesbian porn. That's why they're "safe" for more audiences.

The illiterati of the TikTok generation are outraged about what Better Miller said by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Everyone's identity and pronouns matter, except normal people who make up the vast majority of the population, they can go fuck themselves

Guy gets a bit upset about his newly gay relationship, red flags everywhere for Reddit gay transmen brigade by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It would be obscenely unhealthy for love to not include conditions. That's how toxic relationships are possible: when one partner disregards the flaws and harmful actions of the other and says "well, all that matters is I love them," even if they are actively being harmed physically, emotionally, or financially by the relationship. If I got into a relationship and my boyfriend ended up intentionally severely hurting my family, I'd break up with him. Being a non-psychopath is one condition for someone to gain and keep my love. That's not unhealthy or me being too choosy.

Unconditional love should not exist between adults, it's unhealthy and dangerous to pretend it's a good idea.

There is no angst so great as that of the thwarted queens of r/gaybroscirclejerk by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ok but at least one of those mentioned users I recognize and he is a terrible person. It's a shame that so many reddit mods and admins are such bad people

How can we assist her to achieve this goal? by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They always say that, but then they inevitably react the same way as gay men when another woman hits on them

Therefore aroace lesbian!!! by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No, it does not make sense, because if you experience romantic attraction, then you cannot be someone who experiences no romantic attraction. That's the definition of it. What's next? Beef loving vegetarians, who don't eat meat but still eat beef, just at a lower rate than most other non-vegetarians?

The borg know the meaning of sexuality when it matter by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ah yes, because I can't talk about being proud to love a boyfriend without going all in on showing everyone all the details of exactly how we love each other. I hate people

Video game company offers variety of flag icons for pride month. Something seems to be missing hmm... by Q-Continuum-kin in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The part of me that wants to believe in the benefit of the doubt is hoping there was already a rainbow and they're just using June as a reason to add more specific flags? I'm too tired today to think that they've forgotten the default flag...

Bow down to the superior sexuality that isn't bigoted like the rest of 'em! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

If a word can mean different things to different people, then it's worthless as a word. Imagine a bank note that could have its value as whatever you want. Someone gives it to you and says it's worth 100 dollars, but then you try to buy something with it and the cashier says it's only worth 10, and you need more change to buy just 20 bucks worth of groceries. it would be a totally worthless note because no one would want to use it. And here we are, with people trying to make words all be the same thing and all different all at once. No one will ever actually use these words anymore because they've been ruined with contradictory and ambiguous definitions.

Porn is a helluva drug by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I can only assume that the attraction he feels for lesbians is objectification and jealousy because lesbians can actually seduce lesbians, which rightfully made him feel bad, until he found a way to make it woke and decided he was the true victim all along

Because no gay man ever disagrees with the gender cult by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 25 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Ah yes, everyone who disagrees with me is a troll, a nice sweet taste of copium

Lest anyone think the Truscum are any better when it comes to transing your LGB kids by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Saying 13 years old should be the minimum is the same as saying there should be no minimum. No 10 year old is pursuing sex reassignment surgery. 13 is basically the minimum age that a child could string together a statement "I want to change gender" and it not be the senseless babbling of a toddler.

So yeah, they're drinking pus and bodily discharges, now. by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That's very good, and if I can save just one person from that nightmare fuel, it will have been worth it.

So yeah, they're drinking pus and bodily discharges, now. by LeoneOkada in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 10 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I read the title. I knew that nothing good could be behind that link. I still clicked the link

Please, if you are a human and have eyes and especially if you're able to read English, do not click that link for your own safety

Woman says having a more difficult time catfishing men is having an impact on her emotional well-being. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Does she have no idea what it is actually like to be on grindr? Sweetheart, men on that app will reject you for having 4% body fat, or having less that 100 pounds worth of muscle, or having anything less than a 10 inch dick, or being too pale, or being black, or being asian, or being more than 0.73 miles away, or having a beard, or being clean shaven, or having pubes, or or etc. etc. etc.

If actual gay men have to wade through all that, there's no chance for a woman to find anything except the straight men on grindr specifically looking for all the straight women foolish enough to join a gay hookup app.

My 13 year old nonbinary child wants a dildo by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The parent was supposed to start monitoring internet access the moment the kid mentioned anything relating to being non-binary. This is the result of a groomed and porn-soaked mind, not anything a kid would normally be getting involved with.

Magazine he's talking about is from only 9 years ago! Read the whole thread. by xandit in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

One of the commenters had a really good point. Focusing on a specific niche is, nowhere else in any media, considered exclusionary. Car enthusiasts don't complain about knitting magazines not featuring Lamborghini updates, gardeners don't whine about the lack of planting tips in train media. Only in LGB specific spaces does anyone complain about something catering to a small and well defined group of people. Because it isn't just straight men whining about being kept out of lesbian spaces or straight women with gay men's spaces. It's anything remotely related to anything gay, lesbian, or bisexual that must not only accept trans people who lie and identify as LGB, we must cater to anything and everything trans.

Nowhere does that happen except with the LGB being forced to take on the TQ+. Just looking at that magazine, did bisexuals ever complain that sexy women never appeared on the cover? Did lesbians ever whine that too many men were featured? I highly doubt it, it's only the T, the Q and the + that demands they appear everywhere, regardless of what a space is truly meant for.

r/lgbt knows exactly who is responsible for losing Roe v Wade by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So why exactly would feminists want to get rid of protections for real women? How on Earth would that spite men?

Yaoi, Not Even Once by lunarstrain in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's sad that sexism has become such a part of her life that she thinks the only way to have a relationship with a man in such a manner where they're both equal is if she were also a man.

Either that or it's just flat out fetishization.

Lesbians fighting against erasure are oppressors by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But if anyone can use a label for whatever they want, then labels are 100% useless and worthless. If anyone can call themselves a lesbian without repercussion, then that label has failed. Gatekeeping isn't an inherently bad thing, it's a tool to prevent a mess from happening. It can be bad, like when someone says you're a "fake" fan for having not read the books/seen the original series/hated the new media because the new publisher is bad, but gatekeeping is necessary in other situations, like keeping people from watching a movie at the theater without paying or saying that men and straight women can't be lesbains.

If you dare criticize the trans ideology, you're hurting the gay/lesbian movement. by Kai_Decadence in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This argument is so bad it's backwards. If we were accused of doing something wrong and now someone who forcibly associates themselves with us does that wrong thing, that is what homophobes will use to say they were right all along, the fact that someone is now doing that wrong thing while associating themselves with us.

Calling out people for doing that wrong thing and shaming and exiling them is the only thing we can do to prevent homophobia rising as the trans try to indoctrinate kids. It's so absurd

Transmen: we hate being told it is fine to be femme! by PriestTheyCalledHim in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So, she doesn't like these features of her body because she thinks they aren't socially acceptable for men, and people are saying that these things don't invalidate her identity as a man, and that men can have these uncontrollable feminine features, and that's wrong? What does this woman want us to do? Magically mold her body to fix all these things that she points out cannot be fixed? Does she want people to agree with her complaints and say that she is invalid because her voice and body aren't good enough to be a man's?

There is no right answer with these people. You tell them the truth and they cry and call you a murderer, you play into their lie and validate their identity and they say you're just faking it to be woke. What ever happened to "any body can belong to any gender and that's 100% valid" and all that bs?

The very hottest gay men today are women with rudimentary Photoshopping skills by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's actually a neat aesthetic, but it isn't male. If you ignore the sock in her pants, there's nothing at all to imply this should be a male at all.

Iddly Diddly, Strictly Dickly by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly, the worst thing that came out of the gold star gay nonsense was one bisexual guy who claimed he was still a gold star gay because all the women he had sex with identified as men. In that comic, he simultaneously said (useful) labels were bs and we should get rid of them while also latching onto one label that was actually bs for his life

Not even bothering to conceal their agenda anymore by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well then maybe if there wasn't a new movement seeking to define what males and females are allowed to do, this problem would be more easily solved. Beating someone up and grooming children to eventually undergo life changing surgeries are both abhorrent acts, one is just immediate and violent while the other is long term and less physical.

Why kids think they're trans. Number one will blow your mind. by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

1) Porn and stereotypes

2) I don't know of any 13 year old who uses "euphoria" in their vocabulary. My money is on trans internet circles introduced both that word and the idea to this child.

3) Sensory Processing Disorder, indoctrinated because of his disability.

4) That is not an answer.

5) A girl trying to escape sexism and objectification

6) Wants to be lazy and juice to stay fit

7) Another non-answer

8) Yet another "I'm trans because I say so"

9) A teenager having self image issues as every teenager in the history of humanity has had and then finding something convenient to blame those issues on.

10) A groomer social worker

11) To know that a different haircut would be better, you'd need to know what it's like to have that haircut. You can't know what it's like to be the opposite sex, so you can't know that being male "isn't for you"

12) See 8

13) Stereotypes.

None of these children would benefit from a sex change. They need help from people who aren't cult predators and to get off the internet

Yeah, lemme just control my attraction real quick... by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

If you're not attracted to women: you're a misogynist

We've seen this argument before. It didn't work when bible thumpers used it, it won't work when you use it either

How say you're a female homophobic incel without saying you female homophobic incel. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Oh look, yet another homophobic straight person calling anal sex (and gay men by extension) disgusting.

But this time with pastel pink and blue to make it woke

What do you guys think of Muslim immigration? by CancelPower in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I support people who want to flee their theocratic nation and pursue a secular lifestyle in peace, but cannot support anyone who wants to expand a religion that actively murders people for petty crimes or no crime at all. Ex-muslims get 100% support from me, especially since they may be in danger if they stay in a religious area, but people actively practicing their religion and with no intention of adapting to the lifestyle of a secular nation get none.

"Lesbian" who's "dealing with CompHet" is jealous of coming out experiences. by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Coming out isn't an enjoyable experience for (I would think) anyone. At the worse end of the spectrum, you lose all your family and friends and can end up homeless. At the absolute best, nothing really changes and life continues as it did except now you're able to let go of some stress that was only there because you didn't know whether those around you would be accepting, which is bad.

So at best, you let go of some stress and at worst you lose everything. This isn't a party or a game as all these TRAs seem to think it is. Coming out isn't like deciding to pick up a new hobby or career. You throw a fun party when you get accepted to a good university or hired at a great company to work for. Not when you finally admit a truth about yourself to those around you.

And what about people who don't need to come out because everyone can just tell that they're not straight by interacting with them to any degree? They don't get to come out, people just look at them and think "Oh, that person is gay," at which point a coming out event is just a confirmation of what others already suspected.

These people always trivialize what being gay is actually like and turn it into a game. It's always so absurd and the fact that anyone thinks the trans community isn't inherently homophobic is awful.

Gotta get me some of that bonus hole by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'd imagine it's because the trans community as a whole relies on misogyny. Men transition to women so they can get access to women's spaces, women transition to men so they can attempt to escape misogyny that they've already internalized.

Men turn to women because they hate women and women turn to men because they hate (being) women.

Straight woman choosing to wear a dress to her wedding is suddenly a “queer” issue. by julesburm1891 in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why does she go on about certain clothes being "men's" clothes when there is no one stopping any woman from wearing anything at all? The only clothes that are really gendered anymore are dresses and skirts, maybe crop tops if you count the fact no straight man would really wear those.

But women wear suits all the time and no one questions their womanhood or femininity. I imagine suits are just often easier to deal with than a flowing skirt that'll get caught on stuff. Even if women started wearing what used to be men's clothes in order to get some amount of respect from men (back when femininity was associated with the inability to have a valid opinion), that isn't the case in this century in the first world. Clothes are clothes and women can wear whatever they want without backlash from anyone who matters.

Gotta get me some of that bonus hole by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why do gay men want to exclude you? Probably because you keep telling gay men that they're subhuman for not being attracted to women. You know, like all those homophobes we've had to deal with for millennia?

My alma mater used to have a Gay & Lesbian Center by JulienMayfair in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 17 insightful - 8 fun17 insightful - 7 fun18 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

The closest thing my college has to a gay club is full of 80% women who identify as something other than a woman and a few men who identify as something other than a man. There are no homosexuals or bisexuals in the club who identify as such, only gays pretending to be straight, straights pretending to be gay, and bisexuals naming themselves after kitchenware

Explaining LGBTQ+ to people by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Except that according to many of these people, there should be around 8 billion genders, because they're so confused that they think every person has a unique gender according to their unique personality. Which makes the entire concept 100% worthless

Riddle me this lesbians: how can you be gay if you close your eyes? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 25 insightful - 16 fun25 insightful - 15 fun26 insightful - 16 fun -  (0 children)

If the person I kissed turned into someone else when I closed my eyes, then I'd have bigger worries than whether they were male or female in this new form

That's not how it works??? by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The presence of a bisexual person in a relationship does not define the relationship as being non-straight, the presence of either two men or two women is what defines a non-straight relationship, regardless of them being gay or bi.

Thank you, u/theeternalbussyboy on Reddit, for this gloriously based meme by CleverFoolOfEarth in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

"Behold! A (hu)man!"

A whole lotta gobbledygook by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why must we return to the "If exposure to gay people makes kids gay, why am I not straight after exposure to straight people all my life" rebuttal? Why can't we be done with this? I'm not gay because of society or culture or the way I was raised, I'm gay because I'm attracted to men and not women.

No more tomboys, only males by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 14 insightful - 6 fun14 insightful - 5 fun15 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

No no no, the only thing that causes the increased rates of depression and suicide in trans communities is the transphobia they face, there's nothing else at all, no other patterns that could possibly cause depression in trans people. Not the hormones ruining their bodies, not the fact that they've been forced to betray their identity and build a new on that they can never actually be, not the fact they're in a cult, it's all the transphobia.

Good Post 3: When reality hits by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You cis lesbian "freaks" that still happen to be the only lesbians anyone is attracted to. This is just the childish "He likes you so he's mean to you" bullshit they tell children getting picked on, except now these boys have grown up to think this is how you're supposed to flirt: be a terrible person.

Remember who the real victims of discrimination are by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Wow. Imagine being so far up your own ass that your response to someone saying that a demisexual is just a straight person is that bisexuals can "pass" as straight, therefore it's both or neither in the community

I don't say that I have a unique sexuality because I like beards. It has never once crossed my mind to identify as "beardsexual" because I am attracted to men with good beards. Yet these people want to act like they're oh so special and unique because... what? They're attracted to people but only after a while? There have been several men who I only found attractive after getting to know them, it's not a unique sexuality. It's just a personality trait once again being conflated with gender identity and sexuality for no good reason.

Good Post 3: When reality hits by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because this man only wants to sleep with cis lesbians. Asking other men if they find him attractive is worthless since he doesn't want to get into their pants

How the Zoomers turned the world queer one relationship at a time by Chunkeeguy in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That moment when people are so sex obsessed, even those who supposedly don't want to have sex, that they end up defining normal, non-sexual things in terms of sex.

You can deny consent! ... but it's still transphobic, tho! by [deleted] in LGBDropTheT

[–]Three_oneFour 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

telling someone that they must give consent or else be a transphobe is not giving them a fair choice. That's coercion. Everyone deserves the right to deny sexual consent to anyone else for any reason without question or repercussion of any kind, and labeling them as a transphobe for exercising their right to say no is a repercussion.