Where is this fixation coming from? No one is coming for you...

Three_oneFour · 2023-03-23T16:53:00+00:00

So they recognize that we are trying to leave them because they are dragging us down? What happened to the narrative that we rely on them for everything?

Three_oneFour · 2023-03-13T16:57:51+00:00

The TQ+ crowd has always tried to rewrite every drag queen and cross dresser in history as trans. I guaruntee that they'll claim every actor and character from the Tudor era was an egg in a time where they weren't allowed to come out.

Three_oneFour · 2023-03-05T20:49:15+00:00

"Lesbians don't appreciate when men wave their dicks around then rudely, how do I make this a better situation for everyone?"

You can start by not encouraging men to sling their dicks around lesbians

Three_oneFour · 2023-02-24T03:53:55+00:00

Ideologies that can stand on their own don't need to punish all doubt with hard bans and silencing. If you rely on enforcing silence against those who don't follow your doctrine perfectly, then maybe your doctrine is the problem.

Three_oneFour · 2023-02-18T21:31:49+00:00

Those clubs seem to turn into TQ+ echo chambers. I checked out my college's club once, but left after seeing there was one gay man (a TRA himself), maybe 2 lesbian women, and 10 or so people who were either nonbinary women, or trans identified women. I think the one gay man was literally the only biological man there, yet nearly a third of the members identified as men.

Three_oneFour · 2023-02-13T21:13:02+00:00

of course, the ironic part is there is a "they" who has been coming for us for years now. We were making progress at getting "them" to back off, but then the trans community came up and crossed a line that is pushing more people with greater ferver to push back, and we're getting caught in the middle because the TQ+ has leeched onto the LGB

Three_oneFour · 2023-02-12T03:30:31+00:00

How is it that any potential cure for actual diseases and illnesses needs an insane amount of data only able to be collected by jumping through hoops before the FDA will let it be used anywhere ever, but these uses for dugs and surgery are encouraged without any evidence that it does any good or does no harm?

Three_oneFour · 2023-02-08T18:54:50+00:00

Well yeah, yaoi is made by straight women for straight women. If a straight woman likes and relates to yaoi, that's because the woman author made it so. Yaoi is not representative of actual gay men and is not targeted at gay men.

Three_oneFour · 2023-02-08T18:52:40+00:00

Aren't breast reductions already a thing? The fact that breast implants and reductions have been - well, reduced - to being considered only a thing trans people do is so awful.

Three_oneFour · 2023-02-07T17:55:27+00:00

Exactly. If "gay" and "lesbian" mean "identifies as a man and is attracted to 'men'" and "identifies as a woman and is attracted to 'women,'" and "same sex attracted" somehow is pedophillic while gay and lesbian are not, then their logic would dictate that minors cannot be gay or lesbian, or otherwise they would need to identify as adults and only be attracted to adults. Their on the spot made up definitions leave no room for teenagers to have sexual attraction.

This is all a whataboutism distraction.

Three_oneFour · 2023-02-03T00:32:10+00:00

They say that we all need to stay together in order to fight against conservative bigotry, but the truth is that they need us to have any chance at survival. Without the TW+, gay rights worldwide might be better in nearly every country

Three_oneFour · 2023-02-01T04:44:52+00:00

I was confused at first because I know so little about makeup I thought there was some connection between mascara the makeup and scissors the cutting tool. I'm pretty sure they're not interchangeable, but that first 2 seconds had me questioning my thoughts

Three_oneFour · 2023-01-11T22:06:49+00:00

The same people who act like sexuality is about identified gender then turn around and act like it's a huge mystery that a straight woman wouldn't want to date a "woman"

Their own logic would dictate that the moment a person's partner's gender identity is no longer compatible with their sexuality, the attraction should stop. But the moment this seems to work in practice, they act like it's a personal attack.

It almost makes me wonder if they don't actually respect people's sexuality, and just say whatever is most convenient and would give them the most sexual partners through coercion?

Three_oneFour · 2023-01-08T01:43:46+00:00

Wow. That comment was terrible. A man deals with an unloving mother his whole childhood, carrying that around with him into adulthood, and then breaks down when he finally does what she always wanted him to be and realizes once and for all that he can't be it, and this woman is bitching that it's invalidating? Why are these people so fragile?

Three_oneFour · 2023-01-04T22:29:44+00:00

If gender and sex are supposed to be totally different things, why isn't it ok for people to be attracted only to one sex?

Three_oneFour · 2022-12-07T04:17:39+00:00

As long as you like the label LGBT+, you are a beautiful part of it

That's not how it works. That's not how anything works. There is no other label or category or group in pretty much all of existence that has only the requirement of liking the label to be a part of it. And pretty much no category would exclude you for no reason other than not liking the label.

Three_oneFour · 2022-11-08T00:50:14+00:00

If straight men aren't going to find it, I doubt a gay man is going to know much more about it

Three_oneFour · 2022-11-01T18:33:47+00:00

The only time I would really use the term "partner" is to refer to a plural group that includes both sexes and/or several relationship statuses, such as boy/girlfriend, fiance, and spouce. To use it singularly in any situation where the sex and relationship status of the person in question is known is unnecessary in the majority of situations in the modern first world. And of course, these people get off on being pointlessly complicated

Three_oneFour · 2022-09-26T01:59:17+00:00

Imagine being such a boring individual with nothing of value to provide to anyone anywhere that you invent a sexuality to try and have just a modicum of anything happening in your life other than being a waste of oxygen.

Three_oneFour · 2022-09-25T13:03:50+00:00

I don't think it has to do with stephen universe at all, it's just "the corporate artstyle" at this point. If anything, I'd call it the symptom of a trend of flat, ugly, single use, disposable everything that's cropping up in every corner of society. People seem to want speed and convenience, not quality or longevity anymore. Fuck, I sound like a boomer rn, but it's a legit concern. We make low quality garbage products that break after a day if a new trend hasn't rendered them obsolete by then, and then this garbage is thrown away into landfills or the ocean. This corporate artstyle is just the digital version of that. Mass produceable garbage clipart that no one cares about and get's thrown into the recycling bin as soon as a different color combinaton or incorrect human body proportion becomes the trend of the hour.

Three_oneFour · 2022-09-23T15:28:27+00:00

Because it's easy, cheap, mostly inoffensive, and adaptable to anything and everything. You're not meant to look at it for any length of time. It's just for you to have bright colors and high contrast lines shoved at your face in an attempt to make you more receptive to whatever they're shilling

Three_oneFour · 2022-09-18T20:15:24+00:00

They want everyone to be unique and special while also identifying with the whole entity that cannot contain everyone without problems. It's obscene

Three_oneFour · 2022-08-23T15:14:36+00:00

So this woman has a friend and a crush, both of whom are gay men, and she is now mad that the two gay men are going out with each other instead of her?

Three_oneFour · 2022-08-10T17:54:56+00:00

Good. The more we can show that people do not want these two groups to be thrown together, the more organizations may stop bending over backwards for a homophobic group of monsters

Three_oneFour · 2022-07-08T17:15:38+00:00

I don't get it. People still use "partner" super often as well, which just feels like you're intentionally hiding the sex of your partner. In homophobic areas, it makes sense to use gender neutral language so you don't need to lie and flat out say you're straight, but in a setting where people are accepting of gay relationship? Just call him your boyfriend or husband and call her your girlfriend or wife. Especially when straight people use partner, it's annoying. The term was used to hide the fact that we're gay. It isn't a fun and quirky thing to say.

Three_oneFour · 2022-07-08T17:12:59+00:00

Yes daddy~

Three_oneFour · 2022-07-08T17:11:08+00:00

I think the lesbian bias is because most homphobes fall into one or both of the following: they fetishize lesbians, or their hatred of homosexuality is relating to some ancient book talking about sex, and sex is defined by the presence of a penis, and therefore lesbians are ok or otherwise less terrible because they can't have "real" sex. Gay men are the absolute worst because they defy what men "ought" to do and pervert their antiquated idea of sex by doing it up another guy's butt rather than in a vagina. Lesbians are not terrible because they don't have "real" sex and straight men often love to watch lesbian porn. That's why they're "safe" for more audiences.

Three_oneFour · 2022-07-07T18:15:48+00:00

Everyone's identity and pronouns matter, except normal people who make up the vast majority of the population, they can go fuck themselves

Three_oneFour · 2022-06-11T16:03:15+00:00

It would be obscenely unhealthy for love to not include conditions. That's how toxic relationships are possible: when one partner disregards the flaws and harmful actions of the other and says "well, all that matters is I love them," even if they are actively being harmed physically, emotionally, or financially by the relationship. If I got into a relationship and my boyfriend ended up intentionally severely hurting my family, I'd break up with him. Being a non-psychopath is one condition for someone to gain and keep my love. That's not unhealthy or me being too choosy.

Unconditional love should not exist between adults, it's unhealthy and dangerous to pretend it's a good idea.

Three_oneFour · 2022-06-11T15:56:56+00:00

Ok but at least one of those mentioned users I recognize and he is a terrible person. It's a shame that so many reddit mods and admins are such bad people

Three_oneFour · 2022-06-10T16:39:11+00:00

They always say that, but then they inevitably react the same way as gay men when another woman hits on them

Three_oneFour · 2022-06-06T02:47:55+00:00

No, it does not make sense, because if you experience romantic attraction, then you cannot be someone who experiences no romantic attraction. That's the definition of it. What's next? Beef loving vegetarians, who don't eat meat but still eat beef, just at a lower rate than most other non-vegetarians?

Three_oneFour · 2022-06-03T03:14:39+00:00

Ah yes, because I can't talk about being proud to love a boyfriend without going all in on showing everyone all the details of exactly how we love each other. I hate people

Three_oneFour · 2022-06-03T03:13:19+00:00

The part of me that wants to believe in the benefit of the doubt is hoping there was already a rainbow and they're just using June as a reason to add more specific flags? I'm too tired today to think that they've forgotten the default flag...

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-25T19:37:13+00:00

If a word can mean different things to different people, then it's worthless as a word. Imagine a bank note that could have its value as whatever you want. Someone gives it to you and says it's worth 100 dollars, but then you try to buy something with it and the cashier says it's only worth 10, and you need more change to buy just 20 bucks worth of groceries. it would be a totally worthless note because no one would want to use it. And here we are, with people trying to make words all be the same thing and all different all at once. No one will ever actually use these words anymore because they've been ruined with contradictory and ambiguous definitions.

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-25T19:34:10+00:00

I can only assume that the attraction he feels for lesbians is objectification and jealousy because lesbians can actually seduce lesbians, which rightfully made him feel bad, until he found a way to make it woke and decided he was the true victim all along

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-24T22:27:15+00:00

Ah yes, everyone who disagrees with me is a troll, a nice sweet taste of copium

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-15T05:28:57+00:00

Saying 13 years old should be the minimum is the same as saying there should be no minimum. No 10 year old is pursuing sex reassignment surgery. 13 is basically the minimum age that a child could string together a statement "I want to change gender" and it not be the senseless babbling of a toddler.

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-13T20:07:53+00:00

That's very good, and if I can save just one person from that nightmare fuel, it will have been worth it.

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-13T04:58:33+00:00

I read the title. I knew that nothing good could be behind that link. I still clicked the link

Please, if you are a human and have eyes and especially if you're able to read English, do not click that link for your own safety

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-09T14:24:47+00:00

Does she have no idea what it is actually like to be on grindr? Sweetheart, men on that app will reject you for having 4% body fat, or having less that 100 pounds worth of muscle, or having anything less than a 10 inch dick, or being too pale, or being black, or being asian, or being more than 0.73 miles away, or having a beard, or being clean shaven, or having pubes, or or etc. etc. etc.

If actual gay men have to wade through all that, there's no chance for a woman to find anything except the straight men on grindr specifically looking for all the straight women foolish enough to join a gay hookup app.

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-09T14:19:50+00:00

The parent was supposed to start monitoring internet access the moment the kid mentioned anything relating to being non-binary. This is the result of a groomed and porn-soaked mind, not anything a kid would normally be getting involved with.

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-09T14:16:49+00:00

One of the commenters had a really good point. Focusing on a specific niche is, nowhere else in any media, considered exclusionary. Car enthusiasts don't complain about knitting magazines not featuring Lamborghini updates, gardeners don't whine about the lack of planting tips in train media. Only in LGB specific spaces does anyone complain about something catering to a small and well defined group of people. Because it isn't just straight men whining about being kept out of lesbian spaces or straight women with gay men's spaces. It's anything remotely related to anything gay, lesbian, or bisexual that must not only accept trans people who lie and identify as LGB, we must cater to anything and everything trans.

Nowhere does that happen except with the LGB being forced to take on the TQ+. Just looking at that magazine, did bisexuals ever complain that sexy women never appeared on the cover? Did lesbians ever whine that too many men were featured? I highly doubt it, it's only the T, the Q and the + that demands they appear everywhere, regardless of what a space is truly meant for.

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-07T16:24:27+00:00

So why exactly would feminists want to get rid of protections for real women? How on Earth would that spite men?

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-07T16:16:32+00:00

It's sad that sexism has become such a part of her life that she thinks the only way to have a relationship with a man in such a manner where they're both equal is if she were also a man.

Either that or it's just flat out fetishization.

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-07T03:28:52+00:00

But if anyone can use a label for whatever they want, then labels are 100% useless and worthless. If anyone can call themselves a lesbian without repercussion, then that label has failed. Gatekeeping isn't an inherently bad thing, it's a tool to prevent a mess from happening. It can be bad, like when someone says you're a "fake" fan for having not read the books/seen the original series/hated the new media because the new publisher is bad, but gatekeeping is necessary in other situations, like keeping people from watching a movie at the theater without paying or saying that men and straight women can't be lesbains.

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-06T17:21:46+00:00

This argument is so bad it's backwards. If we were accused of doing something wrong and now someone who forcibly associates themselves with us does that wrong thing, that is what homophobes will use to say they were right all along, the fact that someone is now doing that wrong thing while associating themselves with us.

Calling out people for doing that wrong thing and shaming and exiling them is the only thing we can do to prevent homophobia rising as the trans try to indoctrinate kids. It's so absurd

Three_oneFour · 2022-05-03T17:33:06+00:00

So, she doesn't like these features of her body because she thinks they aren't socially acceptable for men, and people are saying that these things don't invalidate her identity as a man, and that men can have these uncontrollable feminine features, and that's wrong? What does this woman want us to do? Magically mold her body to fix all these things that she points out cannot be fixed? Does she want people to agree with her complaints and say that she is invalid because her voice and body aren't good enough to be a man's?

There is no right answer with these people. You tell them the truth and they cry and call you a murderer, you play into their lie and validate their identity and they say you're just faking it to be woke. What ever happened to "any body can belong to any gender and that's 100% valid" and all that bs?

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-29T19:04:32+00:00

That's actually a neat aesthetic, but it isn't male. If you ignore the sock in her pants, there's nothing at all to imply this should be a male at all.

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-29T19:01:21+00:00

Honestly, the worst thing that came out of the gold star gay nonsense was one bisexual guy who claimed he was still a gold star gay because all the women he had sex with identified as men. In that comic, he simultaneously said (useful) labels were bs and we should get rid of them while also latching onto one label that was actually bs for his life

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-28T20:39:41+00:00

Well then maybe if there wasn't a new movement seeking to define what males and females are allowed to do, this problem would be more easily solved. Beating someone up and grooming children to eventually undergo life changing surgeries are both abhorrent acts, one is just immediate and violent while the other is long term and less physical.

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-26T03:11:04+00:00

1) Porn and stereotypes

2) I don't know of any 13 year old who uses "euphoria" in their vocabulary. My money is on trans internet circles introduced both that word and the idea to this child.

3) Sensory Processing Disorder, indoctrinated because of his disability.

4) That is not an answer.

5) A girl trying to escape sexism and objectification

6) Wants to be lazy and juice to stay fit

7) Another non-answer

8) Yet another "I'm trans because I say so"

9) A teenager having self image issues as every teenager in the history of humanity has had and then finding something convenient to blame those issues on.

10) A groomer social worker

11) To know that a different haircut would be better, you'd need to know what it's like to have that haircut. You can't know what it's like to be the opposite sex, so you can't know that being male "isn't for you"

12) See 8

13) Stereotypes.

None of these children would benefit from a sex change. They need help from people who aren't cult predators and to get off the internet

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-26T03:01:53+00:00

If you're not attracted to women: you're a misogynist

We've seen this argument before. It didn't work when bible thumpers used it, it won't work when you use it either

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-23T03:57:06+00:00

Oh look, yet another homophobic straight person calling anal sex (and gay men by extension) disgusting.

But this time with pastel pink and blue to make it woke

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-18T16:58:53+00:00

I support people who want to flee their theocratic nation and pursue a secular lifestyle in peace, but cannot support anyone who wants to expand a religion that actively murders people for petty crimes or no crime at all. Ex-muslims get 100% support from me, especially since they may be in danger if they stay in a religious area, but people actively practicing their religion and with no intention of adapting to the lifestyle of a secular nation get none.

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-05T21:05:54+00:00

Coming out isn't an enjoyable experience for (I would think) anyone. At the worse end of the spectrum, you lose all your family and friends and can end up homeless. At the absolute best, nothing really changes and life continues as it did except now you're able to let go of some stress that was only there because you didn't know whether those around you would be accepting, which is bad.

So at best, you let go of some stress and at worst you lose everything. This isn't a party or a game as all these TRAs seem to think it is. Coming out isn't like deciding to pick up a new hobby or career. You throw a fun party when you get accepted to a good university or hired at a great company to work for. Not when you finally admit a truth about yourself to those around you.

And what about people who don't need to come out because everyone can just tell that they're not straight by interacting with them to any degree? They don't get to come out, people just look at them and think "Oh, that person is gay," at which point a coming out event is just a confirmation of what others already suspected.

These people always trivialize what being gay is actually like and turn it into a game. It's always so absurd and the fact that anyone thinks the trans community isn't inherently homophobic is awful.

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-05T20:58:16+00:00

I'd imagine it's because the trans community as a whole relies on misogyny. Men transition to women so they can get access to women's spaces, women transition to men so they can attempt to escape misogyny that they've already internalized.

Men turn to women because they hate women and women turn to men because they hate (being) women.

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-05T20:55:18+00:00

Why does she go on about certain clothes being "men's" clothes when there is no one stopping any woman from wearing anything at all? The only clothes that are really gendered anymore are dresses and skirts, maybe crop tops if you count the fact no straight man would really wear those.

But women wear suits all the time and no one questions their womanhood or femininity. I imagine suits are just often easier to deal with than a flowing skirt that'll get caught on stuff. Even if women started wearing what used to be men's clothes in order to get some amount of respect from men (back when femininity was associated with the inability to have a valid opinion), that isn't the case in this century in the first world. Clothes are clothes and women can wear whatever they want without backlash from anyone who matters.

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-05T15:46:52+00:00

Why do gay men want to exclude you? Probably because you keep telling gay men that they're subhuman for not being attracted to women. You know, like all those homophobes we've had to deal with for millennia?

Three_oneFour · 2022-04-04T20:19:06+00:00

The closest thing my college has to a gay club is full of 80% women who identify as something other than a woman and a few men who identify as something other than a man. There are no homosexuals or bisexuals in the club who identify as such, only gays pretending to be straight, straights pretending to be gay, and bisexuals naming themselves after kitchenware

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-30T01:13:13+00:00

Except that according to many of these people, there should be around 8 billion genders, because they're so confused that they think every person has a unique gender according to their unique personality. Which makes the entire concept 100% worthless

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-29T01:58:05+00:00

If the person I kissed turned into someone else when I closed my eyes, then I'd have bigger worries than whether they were male or female in this new form

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-28T23:14:36+00:00

The presence of a bisexual person in a relationship does not define the relationship as being non-straight, the presence of either two men or two women is what defines a non-straight relationship, regardless of them being gay or bi.

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-27T21:52:32+00:00

"Behold! A (hu)man!"

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-26T02:04:10+00:00

Why must we return to the "If exposure to gay people makes kids gay, why am I not straight after exposure to straight people all my life" rebuttal? Why can't we be done with this? I'm not gay because of society or culture or the way I was raised, I'm gay because I'm attracted to men and not women.

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-24T22:46:59+00:00

No no no, the only thing that causes the increased rates of depression and suicide in trans communities is the transphobia they face, there's nothing else at all, no other patterns that could possibly cause depression in trans people. Not the hormones ruining their bodies, not the fact that they've been forced to betray their identity and build a new on that they can never actually be, not the fact they're in a cult, it's all the transphobia.

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-23T02:53:30+00:00

You cis lesbian "freaks" that still happen to be the only lesbians anyone is attracted to. This is just the childish "He likes you so he's mean to you" bullshit they tell children getting picked on, except now these boys have grown up to think this is how you're supposed to flirt: be a terrible person.

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-23T02:51:06+00:00

Wow. Imagine being so far up your own ass that your response to someone saying that a demisexual is just a straight person is that bisexuals can "pass" as straight, therefore it's both or neither in the community

I don't say that I have a unique sexuality because I like beards. It has never once crossed my mind to identify as "beardsexual" because I am attracted to men with good beards. Yet these people want to act like they're oh so special and unique because... what? They're attracted to people but only after a while? There have been several men who I only found attractive after getting to know them, it's not a unique sexuality. It's just a personality trait once again being conflated with gender identity and sexuality for no good reason.

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-22T23:33:25+00:00

Because this man only wants to sleep with cis lesbians. Asking other men if they find him attractive is worthless since he doesn't want to get into their pants

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-18T19:10:51+00:00

That moment when people are so sex obsessed, even those who supposedly don't want to have sex, that they end up defining normal, non-sexual things in terms of sex.

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-17T17:56:44+00:00

telling someone that they must give consent or else be a transphobe is not giving them a fair choice. That's coercion. Everyone deserves the right to deny sexual consent to anyone else for any reason without question or repercussion of any kind, and labeling them as a transphobe for exercising their right to say no is a repercussion.

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-15T21:54:15+00:00

I like to think that the famous quote, "I think, therefore I am" is incomplete, with the original being "I think, therefore I am a criminal" Cogito ergo sum scelestus.

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-14T21:28:42+00:00

Like being married without the sex or romance? Sharing your life together? Bitch that is romance!

These people are no better than conservative historians who are all like, "OMG they were roommates!!!" every time they see a historical gay figure

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-14T16:27:31+00:00

Huh, it's almost as if evolution managed to get a few things right after several eons of trial and error and you can't just change things around without consequences because human, and really all modern, life is a very delicate balance

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-12T22:10:10+00:00

Would it really have been so difficult for people to just say that they're straight but uninterested in sex or bi but only looking for long term stuff with women? I mean, I've been sexually attracted to and involved with some people who I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with, this isn't much different.

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-11T21:28:41+00:00

It's almost as though you've found out that transitioning didn't make you happy and that it's better to just accept yourself as who you actually have always been

Three_oneFour · 2022-03-01T01:47:17+00:00

"You're reducing people to their genitals!!!!"

says the person reducing people to their pronouns

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-26T16:44:47+00:00

It makes sense. When you've been abused by awful parents, you'll try to distance yourself from everything to do with them, including the identity associated with them. Changing (nick)names, moving long distances, studying something odd, finding friend groups in niches you were never a part of before, all of these things can be done to try and cope with trauma. Hormone therapy and genital mutilation is just a cousin to the drugs and tattoos that have been shocking parents for generations. But this time, society doesn't see the problem.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-20T18:22:51+00:00

Forced heteronormativity never ended. It's just that now, instead of forcing people to change their behavior to match their gender, we're forcing people to change their gender to match their behavior.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-19T19:00:54+00:00

So you've got this end but also several people saying it's transphobic to talk about not worrying about getting pregnant when you're gay because transmen can give birth and transwomen can impregnate women. They just can't make up their minds about anything and then get mad at us for not knowing everything.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-19T01:45:13+00:00

Bleh, it's just one of Below Orbit's hops across the desert. Barely counts as space if you want a technicality, isn't an actual orbit, this person isn't an astronaut.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-15T15:37:06+00:00

I mean, that's hookup apps for you. You got what you wanted: to be treated like a man in a male space

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-12T17:19:19+00:00

That's a rich response from someone who actually has one. Most people can order a dildo if that's what they want to ride or suck. Grinder is for finding men, not toy collectors.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-10T03:08:23+00:00

Well those stereotypes they rely on are stereotypes about men, women, and homo/bisexuals. They do require those stereotypes to justify their own existence. But the T themselves are pretty much just their own one stereotype per tribe: trans lesbians, trans gay men, etc.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-10T02:43:00+00:00

Not to mention, if a group is small enough, stereotypes are just a description. Stereotypes are stereotypes because a small part of a group has become representative of the rest of the group. That's hard to say about the T where the majority are the supposed stereotype.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-07T15:55:13+00:00

Our privates are private

And so are mine, as well as my private life and my home. You can't get access to them unless I consent. And I am allowed to make whatever requirements I want for giving out that consent because it's a privilege one must earn from me, not a right anyone has. So it doesn't matter what makes you uncomfortable, if you have a dealbreaker red flag, then I will not allow you into my pants or home. If you knowingly try to hide or dance around the issue, that's an attempt at deception, not keeping your private stuff to yourself.

Frankly, if you want anything to do with someone else's private life, then you lose the right to keep these kinds of things private from them. If we are having a conversation about potentially mashing our genitals together, then I have a right to know what kind of genitals you have. Heck, a lot of people ask for a lot more information than that. Among gay men, I've been asked about its size, the hair nearby, and whether or not I've been circumcised. None of this is violating my privacy if the question is coming from someone I plan or am considering having sex with. It's just making sure everyone knows what will happen before it potentially does, which everyone should have a right to know.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-07T15:45:40+00:00

"Conversion therapy is bad and should not exist, no one should ever have do deal with that kind of awful experience. Unless they refuse to have sex with me, then they need as much conversion therapy as it takes to make them want to fuck me"

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-07T15:43:48+00:00

"Yeah! We'll show those cis women that we aren't violent rapey creeps by" - checks notes - "being creeps that violently rape them..."

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-06T21:18:22+00:00

Half the LGB mods on Reddit are TRAs. And the admins are as well. The entire platform is already ruined.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-06T21:15:14+00:00

"Some people are disabled and different men will masturbate in different ways, therefore my surgically grafted meat tube is a real penis despite not having a prostate, testicles, or other male sex organs or the ability to actually derive sexual pleasure or otherwise have an erection or orgasm"

The non-sequiters these people use, it's astounding.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-04T04:10:22+00:00

Because it means this person has successfully tricked the other people into believing that this woman is a man. Facing bigotry for a group they are not a part of is validating because it means the bigots think the person is a part of that social group. Imagine a line cook making a cake and being called a bad professional baker. They aren't a baker, but for someone to think that they are would tell the line cook that they aren't that bad at making cakes considering they aren't actually a professional baker

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-02T01:05:48+00:00

So women can't be men. Unless she wants to be a man. Then she's a man. Such absolute bs.

Three_oneFour · 2022-02-02T01:04:09+00:00

Wait, menopause does what?

This wasn't mentioned in 5th grade sex ed

Three_oneFour · 2022-01-31T21:16:48+00:00

So... a woman not wanting to get cheated on by her boyfriend is... transphobic? I don't follow. Being against a man doing homosexual activities would be homophobic, not transphobic. How did gender identity ever get involved with the concept of a woman wanting a straight, non-adulterous boyfriend?

Three_oneFour · 2022-01-31T21:14:42+00:00

So her reasoning for preferring the term 'actor' to 'actress' is that male roles are written more aggressively while female roles are written more passively? And she thinks that her attraction to men is somehow more similar to that of a gay man than a straight woman? How ridiculous can people get?

Three_oneFour · 2022-01-30T04:14:40+00:00

They support whatever gives them more money. If there's more money to be had by pandering, they'll pander. Just as everything turns rainbow in June. The only ideology they have is cash

Three_oneFour · 2022-01-26T01:04:52+00:00

Don't you understand, if one thing is a dealbreaker for you, then you aren't allowed to care about literally anything else or have other dealbreakers, you can only care about one thing. If dating someone of the opposite sex is a dealbreaker for you, then you must be willing to date or sleep with anyone at all of the same sex

Three_oneFour · 2022-01-26T01:01:24+00:00

If you really had to define it, then you're a bottom by default because you cannot put your penis into a man's ass, but a man could put his penis into yours. PIV sex is just sex to you because that's straight sex and you're a straight woman.

Three_oneFour · 2022-01-24T23:38:16+00:00

Because there is a class of people in the US that does actually receive an unfair advantage over the rest of us, so many people deem that ideal totally impossible since they aren't having it handed to them, like some people in the US actually do.

Personally, I think the whole "standalone house, picket fence, one car per adult" stuff is dumb not because it is unattainable, but because 1) that's not really sustainable for several economic and environmental reasons but mainly 2) I grew up with that and it sucked. I couldn't go anywhere on my own since literally nothing was within walking distance, and driving was an absolute nightmare because of all the traffic. I want to have a nice apartment where I can go downstairs to a convenience store and a couple restaurants/coffee shops and bike to most of the places I'll need to go.

One legitimate criticism not of the "American Dream^TM" itself but of the way people treat it is that some, usually older, people will act as though it's a one size fits all solution to happiness, that getting married, having your statistical 2-3 kids, dog and cat in the back yard blah blah blah will make you happy as attaining that is "success," you've won, that's the ultimate. But many people don't want that. They don't want to settle down and they shouldn't need to. Mowing a lawn, driving your kids everywhere, buying 1 or 2 weeks' worth of groceries at a time and a long commute to work is not fun for many people. And the advantages of that lifestyle simply aren't worth it. The true american dream should be to help others and gain the life that you want for yourself, but too many people treat it as some tangible thing, like a diploma to say you've graduated young adulthood and are now ready to buy a motorcycle for your midlife crisis before calming down.

Three_oneFour · 2022-01-23T21:57:56+00:00

"We aren't forcing you to do anything, we're just punishing you if you disobey"

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