Why do I have to be mean to women I like?

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Why can’t women be happy with me?

Why can’t I love a woman?

Why when I have no interest in women, do they love me, and treat me well?

Why when I want to be with a woman, do they abandon me?

Why when I don’t want a woman, they love me?

I have fallen again. I really like her. I’m ready to ditch the other bitches, and just be with her. She’s amazing. Why can’t I love her? Why once she knows will she leave me?

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[–]hfxB0oyA 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Seriously speaking, you might want to talk with a licensed psychologist to dig into that. It can do wonders sorting your head out.

[–]ID10T 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You’re not wrong. Sucks but that’s the way it is. You can’t be too mean but you can’t be too nice either. Women are attracted to men who can take ‘em or leave ‘em. Be aloof and they will sweat you. Be all lovey dovey and they will just assume there’s something wrong with you and they can do better.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep. It’s like, I just have to accept that I am a chump if I get too close.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because the TV teaches people the wrong behaviors.

[–]Adventurous_Ad6212 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sounds fucking gay bro

[–]at_finn 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because

[–]StalwartJames 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Me:

Why shouldn't I be mean to women?

ChatGPT:

Treating others with respect and kindness is important, regardless of their gender. It is crucial to treat women with the same level of dignity and respect as you would treat anyone else. There are several reasons why you should not be mean to women or anyone else:

Equality and fairness: Promoting equality means treating all individuals with fairness and respect, regardless of their gender. Discrimination and mistreatment based on gender go against the principles of equality.

Empathy and compassion: Being mean or disrespectful towards others can cause emotional harm and distress. It is important to foster a culture of empathy and compassion, recognizing that everyone deserves to be treated with kindness and understanding.

Building positive relationships: Being mean or disrespectful can damage relationships and create an environment of hostility. Positive and healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and support.

Personal growth: Treating others with respect helps you grow as an individual. It encourages you to develop empathy, understanding, and emotional intelligence, which are valuable qualities that contribute to personal and social development.

Creating an inclusive society: By treating everyone with respect, regardless of their gender, we contribute to creating a more inclusive and harmonious society. Everyone deserves the opportunity to participate fully and equally in all aspects of life.

It is important to recognize that these reasons apply not only to women but to all individuals, regardless of their gender. Respecting and valuing the dignity of others is a fundamental aspect of being a decent human being.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Lol.